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    Apr 10, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    Its quite interesting to me how being young affects the age range of men that hit on you. I'm 18 so I don't get any older blokes in england hitting on me atall. Mainly 18-25. However, I have a massive love for even over 50's , Don't feel inferior, I speak for the majority when I say we all like a bit of sugar daddy? :')
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    SmoothJoe saidIts quite interesting to me how being young affects the age range of men that hit on you. I'm 18 so I don't get any older blokes in england hitting on me atall. Mainly 18-25. However, I have a massive love for even over 50's , Don't feel inferior, I speak for the majority when I say we all like a bit of sugar daddy? :')


    From another young lad, I refute the hell out of this to be honest.
    Well, mostly just the last sentence.

    I'm really not surprised. It's a matter of maturity. Obviously, lots of 18-year-old gay boys don't have the maturity of most 40-year-olds. It's just a lack of compatibility. I don't think I'll want to be with some boy when I'm that age, but I'm sure it works for some.

    Sure, I love me a handsome guy, whether he be 22 or 52. Hot is hot. That doesn't mean I'll be actively seeking sugar daddies.

    But age really is just a number.
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    SmoothJoe saidIts quite interesting to me how being young affects the age range of men that hit on you. I'm 18 so I don't get any older blokes in england hitting on me atall. Mainly 18-25. However, I have a massive love for even over 50's , Don't feel inferior, I speak for the majority when I say we all like a bit of sugar daddy? :')


    I disagree. I'm quite the opposite. Usually only over 40 hit on me. Though I'm not out and when I'm at gay clubs I feel like I usually have an "I'll kick your ass" type of look. I'm not sure if that comes from my working in law enforcement or that I'm just trying to scare away the creeps (it works!) and end up scaring off everyone haha.
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:23 AM GMT
    I am 18 and I completely disagree with your view on how majority of young men love sugar daddies or older men in general.

    I go for mature men in MIND not in AGE.

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    Apr 11, 2011 12:24 AM GMT
    Move to florida... you will have PLENTY of 50+ year old men hitting on you, I know from experience haha
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:26 AM GMT
    There should be a dislike button for this thread. Your obviously slow in the brain to like older men icon_eek.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    I know I'm over that age range, but just barely. But I just don't like younger immature guys. They can be clingy, or too flaky. I like older guys because they seem to have their head on their shoulders, they know what they want. I don't care about any material things. Intimacy will always be what wins me.
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:30 AM GMT
    BabyBoiBlack saidThere should be a dislike button for this thread. Your obviously slow in the brain to like older men icon_eek.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Slow in the brain? Come on.....to each their own. Everybody is attracted to something different. I just wouldn't agree the majority of young guys feel the same.
  • needleninja

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    Apr 11, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    speak the majority eh? sounds stupid to me.
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    BabyBoiBlack saidThere should be a dislike button for this thread. Your obviously slow in the brain to like older men icon_eek.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    I would approve of a dislike button to, I'd use it on your post.
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:42 AM GMT
    Your not speaking for me. I mostly get hit on my old out of shape white guys. Don't get me wrong, like comeback kid said, a hot guy is a hot guy, but I wouldn't seek out an older guy. And I don't think I'm the type for a sugar daddy.
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    buddha_the_god said
    BabyBoiBlack saidThere should be a dislike button for this thread. Your obviously slow in the brain to like older men icon_eek.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    I would approve of a dislike button to, I'd use it on your post.


    while what babyboiblack said was a bit too much, he has a point...

    any poster who says: "Most of us young men love sugar daddies" does not understand that by saying "most" it makes it seem as though he has gathered all the young gay men in this world and did research to prove it is the majority (as in greater than 50 % of the population) who do prefer that... which is NOT true.

    I mean, just look at this thread already, how many young men disagreed?
    Quite a few. (look at the first three replies)
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:56 AM GMT
    NCReal06 saidI know I'm over that age range, but just barely. But I just don't like younger immature guys. They can be clingy, or too flaky. I like older guys because they seem to have their head on their shoulders, they know what they want. I don't care about any material things. Intimacy will always be what wins me.



    And I like younger guys...because...well....anyone older than me is already on social security icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:58 AM GMT
    I chase after all the sexy older gents so I don't have a chance to see who is looking my way.
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    Apr 11, 2011 1:04 AM GMT
    i just retired from teaching on the university level,so i am use to being around the younger men..
    i see no problems of chasing a younger man..

    the only problem is that ,they like to say you are the same age as my dad..trust me i am not your dad..;lol
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    Apr 11, 2011 1:09 AM GMT
    JIMMY saidi just retired from teaching on the university level,so i am use to being around the younger men..
    i see no problems of chasing a younger man..

    the only problem is that ,they like to say you are the same age as my dad..trust me i am not your dad..;lol


    lol I usually use that line to show I'm not interested. While it is true that they are not my dad, it is true that they are the same age or older than my dad.
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    Apr 11, 2011 1:53 AM GMT
    SmoothJoe saidIts quite interesting to me how being young affects the age range of men that hit on you. I'm 18 so I don't get any older blokes in england hitting on me atall. Mainly 18-25. However, I have a massive love for even over 50's , Don't feel inferior, I speak for the majority when I say we all like a bit of sugar daddy? :')

    The fact of the matter is that I really don't see why I would add another level to a relationship which would purposely make it more difficult. If, for some reason we knew each other and hit it off I suppose that a relationship might develop. Just hitting on an 18 year old out of the blue? Why would I want to take my chances on their level of maturity and add stressors to a possible relationship (lets face it, most 18 year olds do not share the same interests and goals.) As it stands I am no where near 50, but I can not see changing my views as I age...

    No offence man, but if I were you and somebody 3X my age hit on me I would be questioning their motivations.
    MNandWI said
    I disagree. I'm quite the opposite. Usually only over 40 hit on me. Though I'm not out and when I'm at gay clubs I feel like I usually have an "I'll kick your ass" type of look. I'm not sure if that comes from my working in law enforcement or that I'm just trying to scare away the creeps (it works!) and end up scaring off everyone haha.

    Been to a gay club twice now, and perhaps this is a part of the reason the only guys who kept a close eye on me were the bouncers...icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 2:42 AM GMT
    Am I the only one who thinks the OP has no "real" attraction to older men, but is just trying to find a sugar daddy who'll financially support him so he won't have to find a job?
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    Apr 11, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidAm I the only one who thinks the OP has no "real" attraction to older men, but is just trying to find a sugar daddy who'll financially support him so he won't have to find a job?

    I wasn't going to say it...
    But yes, I do think that too.
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    Apr 11, 2011 5:42 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidAm I the only one who thinks the OP has no "real" attraction to older men, but is just trying to find a sugar daddy who'll financially support him so he won't have to find a job?



    halp-285x300.jpg I NEEDZ UR SUPPORT WHEN I DONT HAZ MUNNY OR JOB! icon_eek.gificon_sad.gif XD. ;) ur so sexy i'd totally give u a full arousing body massage icon_biggrin.gif.
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    Apr 11, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    Well as one of the older guys, I've dated the younger and it's a mixed bag. Some are just too immature and others lack a real common interest and yet others are just at a different 'place' in life. All in all though, they've been enjoyable but the reality is that it doesn't seem to jell. You younger guys are great eye candy and fun for an evening out (even playing the sugar daddy) but for a LTR, I'm sticking to the guy closer to my age icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 6:19 AM GMT
    I think its awesome that you put 'lad', 'blokes', ' england', and 'atall' in one OP/post