Apr 11, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
I'm a 23 year old male who is officially obsessed with my 23 yr friend/co-worker and seriously need help. I can't go the day or even to bed without thinking about him. He is handsome, intelligent strong, funny, fun loving. I try ignoring him, not thinking about him, but he dominates my mind. He used to hug me, tell me he miss me, or he wants to do me all sort of stuff that made things even worse for me. So I told him that I was attracted to him. He responded that he was straight and has a girl friend and we could still be cool if I didn't act weird. I haven't been weird..Some times he can be a jerk to me and ignores me and he never texts me back when I text him which makes me sad and depress. He eats my stuff without asking and then tells me I buy things and he eats them. He joking ask me to buy him tickets to the all star game he knows I'm obsessed with him by now. He depends on me a lot to turn in paper work for him. When I go home early he always says no or ask why I'm leaving so soon. Or at lunch he'll tell me hurry up and eat before my food gets cold which makes my love grow even stronger for him(is he doing this on purpose I told him I did not like thinking about him that way) Other times he looks into my eyes or jokes with me. Or he'll talk to me super nice. I feel he can easily manipulate me because I have so much love for him even tho I will get hurt. I'm all confused. What should I do? I know I'm going to end up hurt bad if I keep this up.