When does a gay man lose his virginity?

  • ytOwen

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    Apr 11, 2011 11:26 AM GMT
    If your a straight male it's pretty obvious. But what if you're gay?
    I'll give you my answer in a week. I'm curious about yours.
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    Apr 11, 2011 11:44 AM GMT
    When he fucks or gets fucked.
    So, if he becomes a politician or lawyer, or pays his taxes, he's lost his virginity.
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    Apr 11, 2011 12:14 PM GMT
    I'm curious as to why it's going to take the OP a week to figure this out....

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    Apr 11, 2011 12:32 PM GMT
    When he gives or receives anal sex I suppose. I guess if you've only ever done oral you're 'technically' still a virgin.
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    Apr 11, 2011 1:32 PM GMT

    When you reach orgasm with someone else.
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    Apr 11, 2011 2:33 PM GMT
    ytOwen saidIf your a straight male it's pretty obvious. But what if you're gay?



    Give us a description of everything you've experienced sexually so far and we'll let you know whether or not you're a virgin.
  • Aus92

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    Apr 11, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
    In my opinion.

    1st base - making out
    2nd base - handjob
    3rd base - headjob
    Home base - penetration (virginity gone)

    Unfortunately I hit a home run when I lost my virginity but forgot to run to second and third base on the way... Regrets...
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    Apr 11, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    SoonToBeSexy said
    3rd base - headjob

    ...you mean a blowjob? icon_lol.gif
  • Aus92

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    Apr 11, 2011 2:49 PM GMT
    Anduru said
    SoonToBeSexy said
    3rd base - headjob

    ...you mean a blowjob? icon_lol.gif


    Either or icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:35 PM GMT
    I agree with most people that the virginity is gone when a gay man first has anal sex. If meninlove are right, I lost my virginity 6 years earlier than I thought before icon_eek.gif so I don't know if I am ok with that haha
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidI agree with most people that the virginity is gone when a gay man first has anal sex. If meninlove are right, I lost my virginity 6 years earlier than I thought before icon_eek.gif so I don't know if I am ok with that haha



    lol, there are a great many men who have been 69ing for many many years , some thousands of times. Are they then virgins? icon_wink.gif

    The term 'losing virginity' is the breaking of a girls hymen.
    Gay men have co-opted it but there's no hymen in a rectum. The only virginity lost with gay men, really, is loss of inexperience. icon_wink.gif

    Here's an interesting one, would your partner penetrating you with a dildo mean loss of virginity?



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    Apr 11, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    meninlove saidGay men have co-opted it but there's no hymen in a rectum. The only virginity lost with gay men, really, is loss of inexperience. icon_wink.gif

    Agree, a borrowed term from women.

    I tried to bottom within months of my coming out, and I couldn't manage it. About 4 years later I found a guy with a little dick (I knew that, because sometimes I blew him), who was versatile.

    And I said to him quite bluntly, would you like to pop my cherry? He agreed, and that's what we did. It was great, BTW, and I had so much fun he doubted I really was a "virgin" as I claimed. I think he fucked me like 4 times in 1 night, in all different positions, and I couldn't get enough, until I wore him out.

    But nowadays I bottom very seldom. I guess enough for me to know I lost my "virginity" and sampled that aspect of gay sexuality.
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    Apr 11, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    KSUOWL saidI agree with most people that the virginity is gone when a gay man first has anal sex. If meninlove are right, I lost my virginity 6 years earlier than I thought before icon_eek.gif so I don't know if I am ok with that haha

    The term 'losing virginity' is the breaking of a girls hymen.


    Even those girls that ride horseback?
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    Apr 11, 2011 5:18 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidWhen he fucks or gets fucked.
    So, if he becomes a politician or lawyer, or pays his taxes, he's lost his virginity.



    LOL


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    Apr 11, 2011 9:22 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    ytOwen saidIf your a straight male it's pretty obvious. But what if you're gay?



    Give us a description of everything you've experienced sexually so far and we'll let you know whether or not you're a virgin.


    With pics, please
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    Apr 11, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    When you reach orgasm with someone else.

    I agree with this one.
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    Apr 11, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
    Wake me up in a week. On the other hand...don't.
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    Apr 11, 2011 10:50 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidWake me up in a week. On the other hand...don't.

    You won't be leaving the bedroom for a week....



    Or more. ;)
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    Apr 11, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    When he has penetrated, or been penetrated.
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    Apr 11, 2011 11:26 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    When you reach orgasm with someone else.


    Awesome I just got my virginity back!
  • swedeinusa

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    Apr 11, 2011 11:39 PM GMT
    Girls lose their hymens.

    Gays lose their gag reflex.
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    Apr 12, 2011 12:40 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidYou won't be leaving the bedroom for a week....



    Or more. ;)


    What will you feed me?
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    Apr 12, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    swedeinmiami saidGirls lose their hymens.

    Gays lose their gag reflex.
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    buhahahaha, best answer ever
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    Apr 12, 2011 2:37 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    KSUOWL saidI agree with most people that the virginity is gone when a gay man first has anal sex. If meninlove are right, I lost my virginity 6 years earlier than I thought before icon_eek.gif so I don't know if I am ok with that haha



    lol, there are a great many men who have been 69ing for many many years , some thousands of times. Are they then virgins? icon_wink.gif

    The term 'losing virginity' is the breaking of a girls hymen.
    Gay men have co-opted it but there's no hymen in a rectum. The only virginity lost with gay men, really, is loss of inexperience. icon_wink.gif

    Here's an interesting one, would your partner penetrating you with a dildo mean loss of virginity?


    Hmmm, you raise interesting points! I still feel like losing the V-card happens with penis-in-anus action. A straight guy is a guy just like us. Doesn't he remain a virgin until he has vaginal sex? If he gets blowjobs by someone, he is still popularly believed to be a virgin. I get your point though if a guy fools around hundreds of times but never does anal, is he still a virgin?

    Really though, my main reason for arguing with you is that I want to keep saying I lost my virginity in college and not in middle school icon_eek.gif
  • nubScotty

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    Apr 12, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    swedeinmiami saidGirls lose their hymens.

    Gays lose their gag reflex.
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    What if you never had a gag reflex icon_confused.gif