Making out - big deal or not?

  • Avron88

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    Apr 11, 2011 1:05 PM GMT
    Do you think making out with someone is a big deal?

    By that I mean do you only equate it in a "romantic" sort of way or is it just a casual thing to you.

    I guess "casual" would mean that you would make out with someone you like the first time you meet them or on the first date.

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    Apr 11, 2011 1:21 PM GMT
    I equate it to intimacy and because I will only be intimate with my relationship partner it is a HUGE deal for me.
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    Apr 11, 2011 1:24 PM GMT
    It could be an intimate thing but doesn't have to be. Sometimes I grab one of my girlfriends and make out with them for a little while.
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    Apr 11, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    I only make out with someone that I am intensely attracted to. Kissing is important because its the only way to really rev my engine! icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 2:02 PM GMT
    I consider kissing very intimate, and I don't get into it with someone I've just met. That means generally no kissing with NSA hookups (with extremely limited exceptions).
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    Apr 11, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    _Mohammed_ saidI equate it to intimacy and because I will only be intimate with my relationship partner it is a HUGE deal for me.


    Agree
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    Apr 11, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    huge deal, its intemacy
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:02 PM GMT
    I'll make out with a guy on the first date if things go that way. I LOVE making out and will take any opportunity to do so with someone attractive.
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    No its pretty much like shaking hands to me. Haha but in all seriousness, I don't think I can honestly say I think making out is a big deal since it doesn't take much for me to do it.

    Wow I sound like a whore haha. I mean, it takes A LOT for me to do anything sexual with a guy, even minor foreplay, but I will make out with guys I find attractive if they want to because for some reason it isn't a big deal to me... icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    So many Victorian ladies on this site! icon_lol.gif
  • Avron88

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    Apr 11, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidNo its pretty much like shaking hands to me. Haha but in all seriousness, I don't think I can honestly say I think making out is a big deal since it doesn't take much for me to do it.

    Wow I sound like a whore haha. I mean, it takes A LOT for me to do anything sexual with a guy, even minor foreplay, but I will make out with guys I find attractive if they want to because for some reason it isn't a big deal to me... icon_redface.gif


    There's nothing wrong with that! icon_lol.gif

    I've only made out with a few people...... and the only person who I actually made out passionately with was someone who I knew really well.

    That's when it actually felt good.

    I agree that the other times it just felt like a handshake.
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    I don't see a big deal with making out, honestly. I've only done one thing with one guy ever. Although, now that I think about it it would be the best to make out with someone who you truly like instead of just casual hook-ups. It's just more passionate and deep.
  • Karnage

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    Apr 13, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidNo its pretty much like shaking hands to me. Haha but in all seriousness, I don't think I can honestly say I think making out is a big deal since it doesn't take much for me to do it.

    Wow I sound like a whore haha. I mean, it takes A LOT for me to do anything sexual with a guy, even minor foreplay, but I will make out with guys I find attractive if they want to because for some reason it isn't a big deal to me... icon_redface.gif


    Haha, I kind of the same way about making out - it's not uncommon for me to make out with someone random I meet at a club. I don't think that sex has to mean anything either. I've definitely done that more than a few times with random hookups.

    That being said, whenever I am actually dating a guy, even the first kiss means something. I think that the meaning of sexual acts is really all in the context.
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
    Drunk and making out = not a big deal

    Sober and making out = big deal
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:13 PM GMT
    i love making out, probably my favorite thing to do with a guy, for starters.

    i think you should just go into it with ease, then there's no pressure-- just enjoyable
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:14 PM GMT
    If I'm at a bar and talking to a guy that I'm getting interested in then sure why not? I'd honestly rather take a chance on it and find out whether or not he's a good kisser in the first place then wait until the 4th date, that would be awful.
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:22 PM GMT
    Nope, for me making out is a pretty simple thing and enjoy doing it. Of course at the same time not going to do it in public or anything, do believe it should be saved for when you are alone.
  • SactownItalia...

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    Apr 13, 2011 10:24 PM GMT
    It can be both. icon_biggrin.gif at least for me. I love kissing icon_biggrin.gif probably my favorite thing to do.
    If i am making out with someone I love, then obviously its more intimate.

    That does not mean that I can't make out with a guy that I just met and have it just be for fun.

    Heck I make out with my girlfriends just for kicks ;)
  • Stormtrooper

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    Apr 13, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    I made out with many girls and it wasnt serious, even though since I came out, my point of view on sexual relationship changed a lot. It's maybe because im still virgin on the gay side, but my first time will be a BIG DEAL!
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:29 PM GMT
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    Making out is fun, and it means I'm attracted to the guy which is a good thing. It can mean more, but doesn't have to.
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    Of course .... Making out is really important for a successful relationship ...all the intimate moments are ... and Making out is one of them icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 13, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    I think it's a romantic thing.
    But also, I do do that on the first date.

    But yeah, it's important.
  • Karnage

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    Apr 16, 2011 3:36 AM GMT
    CJ567 saidDrunk and making out = not a big deal

    Sober and making out = big deal


    Yup, I think that pretty much sums it up
  • rebelbeard

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    Apr 16, 2011 3:39 AM GMT
    Making out is not a big deal, nor should it be confined to romantic or casual. It can be both! Why limit yourself?