Finally met someone sane!! :D

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    Apr 11, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    Hi guys,

    I don't usually share like this on RJ, but I don't have facebook anymore and I need to vent.

    Just got back from a second date with a young, hot, funny/smiley cop. He's not stuck in the closet, open and at ease with who he is, has no commitment issues... good kisser. I'm excited! icon_biggrin.gif

    For years I've fallen for handsome, masculine dudes who, under closer inspection, weren't comfortable with who they were. I was starting to believe that I could only be attracted to these complicated/unhappy guys. Turns out there's hope!

    There's no guaranty that it'll work out with this guys, or that he'll ever be my boyfriend... but knowing that these sane/hot guys actually exist brings much comfort to my heart!

    I know there's alot of guys out there who have a hard time finding what they want in their local gay community. Just thought I'd share the story.
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:02 PM GMT
    Didja suck his dick?
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:04 PM GMT
    Congrats icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:05 PM GMT
    Anduru saidDidja suck his dick?


    LMAO! Way to lower the tone! icon_lol.gif

    Glad to hear it went well and he's a hot and good guy kkong, let us know how things go in the next few weeks and months!
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:06 PM GMT
    congrats! I'll give you 2 gay points if it lasts more then a month ( thats 10 years in gay time)
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    I'm happy for ya mate! icon_smile.gif Best wishes to you!!

    Make sure he uses the fake cuffs on you and not the real deal!! icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 3:37 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidI'm happy for ya mate! icon_smile.gif Best wishes to you!!

    Make sure he uses the fake cuffs on you and not the real deal!! icon_lol.gif



    haha We actually covered that subject

    Me: So were ur Exes really into the handcuff thing?

    Him: Dunno, I know I'm not.

    Me: Why's that?

    Him: Well with time you start to associate the cuffs with junkies and trashy hooligans, not something you want to bring to the bedroom.

    Ha!
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    Apr 11, 2011 6:45 PM GMT
    I'm excited for you!

    Have fun! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
    congrats! Now I'll go stand back in my spot in line and wait for my turn...icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 8:06 PM GMT
    Congrats Kkong. I hope it works out for you.

    ....Oh and a neck tie works too.icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    You scored a cop?! NICE!
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    Apr 11, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    Guys who work too hard at being "handsome, masculine dudes" often are insecure. sounds like you've found a real person. Congratulations, and all my best wishes!

    Hint? Be as real as you can back; honesty, courtesy, and openness work wonders if he's the guy he seems to be.
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    Apr 11, 2011 10:57 PM GMT
    alonelyplanet saidYou scored a cop?! NICE!


    LOL Cops are just normal guys...and normal handcuffs are not comfortable as it is, and he's got a point with that statement about relating them to the unpleasant people in the world.
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    Apr 11, 2011 11:02 PM GMT
    He's just pretending to be nice cause he's actually working undercover to find your stash of other cops in your basement.
    Or maybe he wants you to pretend to be his attacker so he can beat you off. icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 11, 2011 11:30 PM GMT
    In 1980 Robyn Moore Gibson had a thread with this same title.
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    Apr 11, 2011 11:35 PM GMT
    Nice story, but not to be a downer but I would give it more than 2 dates. 2 dates just isn't enough time to figure someone out.

    I usually get more comfortable when I get to dates 4, 5 and 6.

    And lay off the intensely close inspection of other guys. When you analyze anything too much then you look at all the negative things.
  • BardBear

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    Apr 11, 2011 11:39 PM GMT
    Celebrate whenever you can these days, that's my opinion...so good for you!

    Peace,
    Bardy
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    Apr 12, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    Congrats! I hope it works out for you.
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    Apr 12, 2011 10:53 PM GMT
    Good for you buddy!

    All the best with you two! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 12, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    Wow. This is so great to hear. I wish you every possible success in developing this into something lasting.
    HE is lucky to have you, btw. Just as I'm sure he's a great guy and worth your investing in further, remember to not only be the quality person he deserves, but be aware that he has to deserve you through his appreciation of you in turn.

    Don't be afraid to let him know how glad you are that he's a quality guy.

    Keep us posted. Hopeful news is ALWAYS welcome. (hopeful news with older brothers in Florida is even better....just sayin')
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    Apr 12, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    Awwww SO LUCKY!

    Good luck I hope everything works out! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 12, 2011 11:04 PM GMT
    cool. if you need help with the handcuff fantasy, give me a call before you get too serious. lol. ;-)
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    Apr 12, 2011 11:09 PM GMT
    Congratz man !!! .. make sure Appearance isn't everything ... icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 12, 2011 11:09 PM GMT
    MNandWI said
    alonelyplanet saidYou scored a cop?! NICE!


    LOL Cops are just normal guys...and normal handcuffs are not comfortable as it is, and he's got a point with that statement about relating them to the unpleasant people in the world.


    I wouldn't call cops normal. No offense to the officers out there, but I've been with 2 and my sister has been with 4, we have both had nothing but bad luck. Maybe there are some normal ones out there but ones I have found haven't been.
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    Apr 12, 2011 11:13 PM GMT
    cold saidI'm watching you...
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    Lol this was too funny.