Have you ever had a girl obsess over you?

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    Apr 12, 2011 10:28 AM GMT
    At my school there is a girl who "used" to like me. She thought I was going to ask her out to Homecoming and when I didn't she got so angry at me haha. She is now apparently over me and has a new boyfriend that she purposely pets but she has no idea that I am gay and I don't give a damn about what she does. I find it so funny that I never did anything to lead her on (at least I don't think I did) and she is always trying to get my attention. It's the worst when I glance over at them and she is purposely sitting on his lap or doing something to get my attention. I honestly feel bad for the guy. I've been trying to just make it so obvious that I'm gay by commenting on guys' appearances and such. One of my friends even told her that I'm gay but she is taking that the wrong way and thinks, "Wow. This guy is so sure of himself that he is not afraid to admit that he admires other guys' looks. That's an attractive trait. I'm going to pursue him." I swear, this is what she thinks!

    Anyway, have you ever had something like this happen where a girl really likes you but you don't share the same feelings? Feel free to post stories.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 12, 2011 10:54 AM GMT
    Hmm, yeah i've had a few. I had a girl in high school - she was the school druggie/bully/gothic/witch - and she used to call me everyday at home. She said she could read my dreams, and boy was that scary (especially as a horny, closeted teen)! She was a total softie at heart though, and we had an interesting friendship to say the least. When she realised nothing was gonna happen she gracefully moved on.
    I had another girl, actually a close friend, who asked me out in high school - i turned her down.. She must have asked again about 5 times in 3 years, and she made so many passes at me, like trying to hold my hand, etc. - i felt so dirty and guilty for possibly leading her on. But in the end, it's you're responsibility to tell her that you're not interested...the rest is on her.
    There was also this other girl, totally psychotic, who liked me and tried to make me jealous of this guy she was seeing by creating some sort of rivalry/hatred between us...things got ugly and we don't talk anymore.

    There are more lol, but i think you get the message.
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    Apr 12, 2011 11:10 AM GMT
    I had a girl during grade school who had a big crush on me, and even goes to my house and ask if I'm around.

    She's the one that gets picked on and teased all the time. I just wish she's doing well than those who made her life miserable (I think that includes me coz I try to avoid her all the time, like she's a crazy lunatic)
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    Apr 12, 2011 12:49 PM GMT
    Yes.
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    Apr 12, 2011 12:50 PM GMT
    Yes, and as mean as it sounds, I actually had to suck my boyfriend's (at the time) cock in from of her to get the message through that she really had no chance with me.
  • Bunjamon

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    Apr 12, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    Nah, once I've let them know I play for the other team they've always acted very maturely about it. I guess I don't get any of the crazies.
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    Apr 12, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    Jaysonian saidYes, and as mean as it sounds, I actually had to suck my boyfriend's (at the time) cock in from of her to get the message through that she really had no chance with me.


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    Apr 12, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
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    Jaysonian saidYes, and as mean as it sounds, I actually had to suck my boyfriend's (at the time) cock in from of her to get the message through that she really had no chance with me.


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  • Aus92

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    Apr 12, 2011 3:28 PM GMT
    I've had two notable ones...

    First one wasn't too bad... She was taking photos of me while I was at work... Kinda creepy...

    Second one though... Omfg. She would call me non-stop, when I wouldn't answer she some how got my mums mobile number and text me through her, then when my mum told her to stop she went through the phone book, found my surname and called every house with the same name until she found mine... AND THEN... She gave me a love letter... Laminated.. An it had one of those old myspace bulletin quizzes on it.. First question; what would you do if I committed suicide? Scared the fuck out of me...

    Kinda sat her down and told her to stop and she kept asking to 'give it a chance' I said no so she ran home crying... Unfortunately I worked with her but luckily I got away with just saying hi then leaving whenever I saw her and nothing else came of it...


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  • mynyun

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    Apr 12, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    Yes.



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  • MagillaNectar

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    Apr 12, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    Oh yea. Best ego boost in the world. Although, it always put in me awkward situations when I wasn't out and had to come up with bullshit reasons why I wasn't into them.

    I knew one girl who I told I wasn't ready for a relationship - I saw her at a party 6 months later assuming she moved on and said, I think I'm going to start trying to date now, she got excited, and asked me out. I then realized she's been waiting all this time and I was like, holy shit I... I... I... um just not that into you, I'm sorry. She immediately ran away and had a boyfriend one week later.

    I also, was drunk at a party once - had a group of girls come up to me - one of them said I'm in your (insert title here) class and all of a sudden I was taking a picture with her and they were gone. Still don't remember her name, nor what class she was talking about. She was indian... that's all i got.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 12, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    Several times.... and one that lasted for years when I was in college.

    She was the most self centered person I'd ever met. Told her "life's story" to everybody. It was a huge joke in school despite the fact I never did anything to lead her on. My fraternity bros. sent her flowers with my name attached as a joke one year. She loved it! She got married several years after we were out of school (as she put it, she "finally gave up on me").
    It is a troubled marriage and she used to routinely tell me her marriage troubles.

    And she is still totally clueless about me (despite the fact she met my bf).
    He refuses to ever be around her again.....and I keep my exposure limited.
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    Apr 12, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    Yes i have had several women who obsessed over me..One even transfered into my airline city,just to be near me.
    She left her husband at the time to come to Miami,and tell everyone that i had never been with a real woman.[Spoken like a true Texan]..lol

    Ever hear of the movie called [Fatal Attraction].this woman was a carbon copy of the Glen Close chater..

    I allowed this woman to play her game..She knew i was gay,and she made it her mission in life to change me..
    I fucked her for 3 years,then i would fuck my boy friends also in that time span..Sex was awesome,no matter where we traveled around the globe..Sex was awesome.

    She met my family,they were of extreme caution of her..
    She would cry ,and carry on at work about me,saying [Does he not know i love him]..My coworkers would tell her that Jimmy is gay..No he is not..He is just foolinig all of you. The fool was her.

    She finally got the hint,and moved on to her next victim..

    She is now a big D.A. laywer in Dallas..God bless the man she keeps out of jail..
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    Apr 12, 2011 4:15 PM GMT
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    DOMINUS said
    Jaysonian saidYes, and as mean as it sounds, I actually had to suck my boyfriend's (at the time) cock in from of her to get the message through that she really had no chance with me.


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    Apr 12, 2011 4:18 PM GMT
    OMG I have the worst story EVER about this!

    In high school this little Filipino girl was completely in love with me. Of course, I was oblivious to this cus I thought we were just good friends. Eventually she asked me to prom like 4 months early, and I said yes because I really didn't care who I went with. Well at prom she started getting incredibly clingy and tried to kiss me on several occasions. I freaked out and forced my friend to ride back home with me and her cus I didn't want to be alone with her. The day after I asked one of her friends why she was being so weird and she said that apparently she had made the plan that after prom we would hook up and start dating. This was news to me so I started doing everything I could to not lead her on. Fast forward another year and we're going to the same college. She's living with two other friends of mine and they keep telling me how desperately in love she is with me and about how every time I come over she gets all giddy and excited and starts talking about me constantly. It got pretty weird pretty fast so basically I had to tell her outright that I wasn't interested...wow was that a bad idea. She freaked out completely, became depressed, started struggling in class (she was a 4.0 student in high school), and eventually dropped out. Then I hear she is engaged to some fat, 40 year old, balding Puerto Rican on a work visa across the country who has a kid a year younger than her who she met on the internet. Three months later they are married and she gets pregnant. So everyone who knew her was like WTF?!?! I called her best friend and asked what was up because no one could get a hold of her after she ran away with the guy. She told me that she was in love with me (which was obvious) and that she had gone to the same school as me to be near me, and that my rejection might be the problem why she got depressed. So basically I was told that I was the cause of her fucking up her life...

    I still talk to her occasionally, but she doesn't know I'm gay. I'm hoping that when she finds out she'll be like "OH! That's why he doesn't love me! I feel totally better now!" and get a divorce and go back to school and have a normal life. Haha
  • wellwell

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    Apr 12, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    ...still happens . . .
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    Apr 12, 2011 4:51 PM GMT
    Girls love the Gays!


    We are what they want in a man!
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    Apr 12, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    Yea, mostly because they think I am straight.
    when I tell them I am actually a homosexual, they change the "oooo yum" look to the "oooo wanna be friends?" look.
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    Apr 12, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    hazardous saidOMG I have the worst story EVER about this!

    In high school this little Filipino girl was completely in love with me. Of course, I was oblivious to this cus I thought we were just good friends. Eventually she asked me to prom like 4 months early, and I said yes because I really didn't care who I went with. Well at prom she started getting incredibly clingy and tried to kiss me on several occasions. I freaked out and forced my friend to ride back home with me and her cus I didn't want to be alone with her. The day after I asked one of her friends why she was being so weird and she said that apparently she had made the plan that after prom we would hook up and start dating. This was news to me so I started doing everything I could to not lead her on. Fast forward another year and we're going to the same college. She's living with two other friends of mine and they keep telling me how desperately in love she is with me and about how every time I come over she gets all giddy and excited and starts talking about me constantly. It got pretty weird pretty fast so basically I had to tell her outright that I wasn't interested...wow was that a bad idea. She freaked out completely, became depressed, started struggling in class (she was a 4.0 student in high school), and eventually dropped out. Then I hear she is engaged to some fat, 40 year old, balding Puerto Rican on a work visa across the country who has a kid a year younger than her who she met on the internet. Three months later they are married and she gets pregnant. So everyone who knew her was like WTF?!?! I called her best friend and asked what was up because no one could get a hold of her after she ran away with the guy. She told me that she was in love with me (which was obvious) and that she had gone to the same school as me to be near me, and that my rejection might be the problem why she got depressed. So basically I was told that I was the cause of her fucking up her life...

    I still talk to her occasionally, but she doesn't know I'm gay. I'm hoping that when she finds out she'll be like "OH! That's why he doesn't love me! I feel totally better now!" and get a divorce and go back to school and have a normal life. Haha


    Dude, you should just tell her. I had a similar thing happen, this girl held out for me for 2 years!! I finally realized just how ridiculous and out of hand it was, so I just straight up told her I'm not into chicks. She started bawling and fled! A week or so later, she called me and said, "It all makes sense now, but I really wish you would have told me sooner." Now we're pretty good friends, although sometimes when we go out and she has a few drinks, her hands wander, but I can live with that.

    Per her out of her misery.
  • JayneCobb

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    Apr 12, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    I have more girls that are into me than I can even count. If I was straight I would have no idea what to do with myself with all of 'em.

    You should see the look of pain on their face when they find out I'm gay.. it's almost sad... granted about half of them after they find out still try to get with me and "turn me". icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 12, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    I had a girl who mistaken my kindness and thought I liked her for the longest. So she told all her friends that she liked me. You know how people gossip around in highschool and people talk, eventually my buddies would always bring it up and ask me why I wouldnt hit it for the longest. Then out of no where during lunch one day, a group of like 15-20 chicks I knew who I was friends with, marched towards the basketball courts since me and friends would usually kick it there, and her friends basically made a scene. One of her friends got out of the crowd towards the crowd of guys I usually hang around and basically started saying why I dont like her. Me being a basically asshole in high school since I was around my guys, I just said that she was ugly and started busting out jokes. I remember all my friends were laughing mad crazy, and then out of no where I didnt know that she was hiding behind the crowd of girls started crying and I was like, "oh shit." From then on, I remember I havent spoke to her ever again and later on that year she started doing a lot of drugs and basically dropped out of high school by sophomore year. I knew that she was insecure (wasnt the best looking chick on the block) and found out through facebook that she got pregnant. I saw her at target too! AWKWARD! (no joke, this is for reals) But most of the chick in my high school got pregnant so it was normal, I think there was like 20 of them, some kind of trend or something.

    Girls are pretty weird, especially when your nice to them they mistake it ask liking them and become obsessed with that fact. Especially not the "hot" or "good looking" ones, they are pretty crazy. Had this happen a few time when being nice is mistaken as love.
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    Apr 12, 2011 11:03 PM GMT
    Long story short: a girl that I went to high school with got married moved to CA with her husband and had a few kids. She started calling me telling me that she's had a crush on me since she met me and that her husband wouldn't care if we hooked up. I never responded. A few months later she showed up at my front door while I was home for lunch to tell me that she was leaving her husband so we could be together. Keep in mind that I had never done anything with her besides talk to her a few times in school. After that she would try to call me every day and bring her kids to where I worked, etc. I'm glad she finally gave up. I'm excited to tell her I'm gay at our 10 year reunion.
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    Apr 12, 2011 11:31 PM GMT
    Jaysonian saidYes, and as mean as it sounds, I actually had to suck my boyfriend's (at the time) cock in from of her to get the message through that she really had no chance with me.


    that's kinky
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    Apr 13, 2011 6:19 AM GMT
    Damn, I guess mine is nothing compared to some of your guy's experiences...but that's crazy; girls getting pregnant immediately, leaving their husbands...damn lol.
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    Apr 13, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    my now best friend yeah, once i told her i was gay we were/are inseparable.