THE GUY WHO PLAYS ME LIKE A YO-YO

  • vhalonwalker3

    Posts: 10

    Apr 12, 2011 12:56 PM GMT
    SO I MET THIS REALLY NICE GUY ABOUT SIX MONTHS AGO AND HE IS A VERY PROFESSIONAL PERSON. WE MET ONLINE AND SEEMED TO GET ALONG VERY WELL WHEN WE MET. WE BOTH HAD SIMILAR INTEREST- WE BOTH WITH TIME STARTED GOING OUT TOGETHER TO DINNER AND THEN WE WENT TO ALOT OF SOCIAL EVENTS TOGETHER. IN MY MIND EVERYTHING WAS GOING WELL-T HEN OUT OF THE BLUE AS SOON AS I WOULD TRY TO GET A LITTLE CLOSER TO HIM HE WOULD PUSH ME AWAYAND NOT CALL FOR A WEEK OR EVEN TWO WEEKS AND THEN OUT OF THE BLUE CALL ME AND SAY HE WOULD WANT TO GET TOGETHER.

    JUST RECENTLY WE HADN'T SEEN EACH OTHER FOR A FEW WEEKS AGAIN AND WE ENDED UP HAVING SEX TOGETHER FOR THE FIRST TIME AND IT WAS GOOD- THEN THE NEXT MORNING WHEN WE WOKE UP HE TOOK ME HOME AND THEN DIDNT CALL ME FOR A DAY AND THEN PROCEEDED TO TEXT ME AND TOLD ME THAT HE NEVER WANTED TO SEE ME AGAIN.

    AM I A SUCKER FOR PUNISHMENT? AM I MISSING SOMETHING HERE? WAS I BEING USED BY SOMEONE WHO CAME ACROSS AS LOVING TOWARDS ME?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Apr 12, 2011 1:09 PM GMT
    TYPING IN ALL CAPS IS SOOOO MUCH FUN RIGHT?
    *sarcasm*
    no but seriously, is your caps lock button stuck or something?

    as for your post, you got USED for your body.

    He knew you wanted him to call you, so when he wanted to fuck you, he called you and pretended to care about you and then once he got what he wanted, he let you slide down the drain.

    I know it sounds awful, but that's the blunt truth.



    So yea, you were cuaght in a situation where you got used.
  • vhalonwalker3

    Posts: 10

    Apr 12, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
    WOW
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Apr 12, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    He didn't think you were a good lay.
  • vhalonwalker3

    Posts: 10

    Apr 12, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
    OH COME ON- THATS JUST HURTFUL icon_sad.gif

    AND TOTALLY NOT TRUE icon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Apr 12, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    vhalonwalker3 saidOH COME ON- THATS JUST HURTFUL icon_sad.gif

    AND TOTALLY NOT TRUE icon_smile.gif



    I'm going to need some proof.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Apr 12, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    "I'm going to need some proof."

    LoL!!

    On a serious note, yes you were being used. The guy's either confused/conflicted or a dirtbag. Get over him - beat into a pillow or yell or something if you can't confront him. And if he has the nerve to contact you again to hookup, ask him to choke up his own ass.

    Take this as a learning experience - Be more alert in the future and wake up soon when you feel someone might be playing you.
  • vhalonwalker3

    Posts: 10

    Apr 12, 2011 11:42 PM GMT
    Thanks tj- i was really hurt- it just seemed that he really had feelings for me. Just sucks when you put yourself out there only to be hurt icon_sad.gif Lesson learned -Thanks guys icon_smile.gif
  • MrNomis

    Posts: 268

    May 28, 2011 7:01 PM GMT
    I wont be an asshole as the other guys out there, but i will say that it just wanst meant to be. Your first sign was the one where he stray away and you just didnt know what was going on.. i know this guy that was into me and or acted like it but seriously wasn't. I am no fool and i learned that if i have to work hard for it then it is not meant to be. the relationship road is a three way street. the one you travel the one he travels and then the one you both travel together. Just keep in mind Karma is a Bitch and well when his day come which it will he will feel it and probably remember the ones he hurt...Keep your chin up and know you are a very handsome man, very smart, and i am very sure any man will be honor to have you as a friend and or bestfriend (life partner)... And also know You have friends near and far that can prob help you dig a hole if necessary! lmao.. jk
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 28, 2011 7:09 PM GMT
    As hurt as you may feel right now, I would move on ASAP. The problem lies with your friend, not you.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 28, 2011 7:13 PM GMT
    _Mohammed_ saidTYPING IN ALL CAPS IS SOOOO MUCH FUN RIGHT?
    *sarcasm*
    no but seriously, is your caps lock button stuck or something?

    as for your post, you got USED for your body.

    He knew you wanted him to call you, so when he wanted to fuck you, he called you and pretended to care about you and then once he got what he wanted, he let you slide down the drain.

    I know it sounds awful, but that's the blunt truth.



    So yea, you were cuaght in a situation where you got used.


    Plus 1
  • XxXxXxAZNxXxX...

    Posts: 615

    May 28, 2011 7:24 PM GMT
    yeah I feel like this is a fuck em and leave em kind of deal. I think this sounds more like fuck buddies. I wouldn't try to make it more than it is because u might get hurt. icon_sad.gif

    Hope all goes well