Advice needed - roomate situation

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    Apr 13, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    So I will be renting a house next month and I'm letting my friend move in with me with his wife and 2 year old daughter. It's a big house and I trust both of them so I'm not worried . However, there is a back apartment in the yard that we will be renting to my friends mother in law.

    Today be approached me and said his mother in law was being ridiculous yesterday, that although she was happy to move in she had concerns of if I'll bring men Over and if they trusted me around their kid. They said of course that's why their moving in and then she asked if we'd be sharing restrooms because if I shower with men we could leave AIDs in the shower.

    My friend was very upset and said she was being irrational and I'm doing them a favor but now I'm questioning letting the mother in law move into the back. What is really mind boggling is she has a gay son! She wnt be living in the house but rather in the apartment in the back and my friend says she never leaves her room. What do u guys think?

    My mom says I need to work on having a backbone and just say if u don't like it don't live here. But another thing I'm afraid of is if she gets crazy enough she may try to involve the kid and cause issues.

    Sorry if this post is messy I'm doing it from my iPhone. I just needed to vent any comments are appreciated

    Thanks
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    Apr 13, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    is it an all or nothing deal? do you need them financially? personally, i would not do it. it sounds like a recipe for drama and misery. you're not a 2nd class human being. i'd rent something myself alone.
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    Apr 13, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    waxon saidMy mom says I need to work on having a backbone and just say if u don't like it don't live here.
    Listen to your mom.
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    Apr 13, 2011 3:02 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    waxon saidMy mom says I need to work on having a backbone and just say if u don't like it don't live here.
    Listen to your mom.



    also listen to paul.


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    Apr 13, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    Well, I know I leave aids everywhere I go. It's a hobby.
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    Apr 13, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    Rubic0n saidWell, I know I leave aids everywhere I go. It's a hobby.


    hearing? marital? band?
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    Apr 13, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    BambinoRex said
    Rubic0n saidWell, I know I leave aids everywhere I go. It's a hobby.


    hearing? marital? band?


    I don't understand the question.
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 13, 2011 4:50 PM GMT
    Listen to your Mom, and Paul and Me.....You don't need the drama this is going to bring. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 13, 2011 5:07 PM GMT
    Rubic0n said
    BambinoRex said
    Rubic0n saidWell, I know I leave aids everywhere I go. It's a hobby.


    hearing? marital? band?


    I don't understand the question.


    Hearing-aid "the better to hear you" said Wolfie to Red
    Marital-aid You know, those vibrating thingys
    Band-aid For your boo boos when you fall down n scrape n cut yourself

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    Apr 13, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    You ARE charging her rent and your name is the one on the lease...right?

    Charge her an AIDS premium.

    In all seriousness, don't let someone who doesn't respect you move in.
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    Apr 13, 2011 5:59 PM GMT
    Find a place completely and solely for yourself. Period.
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    Apr 13, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    Your mother speaks the truth.