Are you turned off when a guy smokes cigs or weed(not a alot of weed just a joint once in awhile) but dosent do no other drugs or drink..

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    Apr 13, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    Sorry if this question has been asked b4..
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    Apr 13, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
    Yes. I naturally gravitate AWAY from those who do anything to harm their body on purpose.
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    Apr 13, 2011 6:51 PM GMT
    I don't date guys who don't smoke pot. I'm sure nobody wants to sit around me when I'm stoned out of my mind when they're sober.
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    Apr 13, 2011 6:52 PM GMT
    I'm with Mo on this one. Personal choice...
  • rnch

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    Apr 13, 2011 6:53 PM GMT
    an occassional shared joint is No Big Deal for me....it takes sex to a different level for me.

    a pak a day of cigs is a deal breaker.
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 13, 2011 7:00 PM GMT
    I'm not a nice guy, but everyone thinks I am. I'm looking for someone who wants to go out to dinner, and have sex a couple nights during the week, and maybe hang out a day on the weekend. I do not want to call you every day, or to meet your mom and dad. I like to be left alone, and I don't care if you travel often but I'll make it all worth your while. 420 friendly. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 13, 2011 7:03 PM GMT
    malefeet saidI'm not a nice guy, but everyone thinks I am. I'm looking for someone who wants to go out to dinner, and have sex a couple nights during the week, and maybe hang out a day on the weekend. I do not want to call you every day, or to meet your mom and dad. I like to be left alone, and I don't care if you travel often but I'll make it all worth your while. 420 friendly. icon_wink.gif




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    Apr 13, 2011 7:08 PM GMT
    malefeet saidI'm not a nice guy, but everyone thinks I am. I'm looking for someone who wants to go out to dinner, and have sex a couple nights during the week, and maybe hang out a day on the weekend. I do not want to call you every day, or to meet your mom and dad. I like to be left alone, and I don't care if you travel often but I'll make it all worth your while. 420 friendly. icon_wink.gif


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    Huh...interesting.icon_smile.gif

    I think anything in moderation I can handle. I've been with a guy who smoked, for the most part it didn't bug me. I just hated 1. if he tried to kiss right after, I would rather not fee like I'm licking the bottom of an ash tray. 2. My clothes would absorb the smell and have to be washed when I got home. As far as pot goes..again not a deal breaker. I will on occasions if its around, but I don't go out looking for it.
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 13, 2011 7:10 PM GMT
    rnch said
    malefeet saidI'm not a nice guy, but everyone thinks I am. I'm looking for someone who wants to go out to dinner, and have sex a couple nights during the week, and maybe hang out a day on the weekend. I do not want to call you every day, or to meet your mom and dad. I like to be left alone, and I don't care if you travel often but I'll make it all worth your while. 420 friendly. icon_wink.gif




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    Apr 13, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    yeah, i notice when i go on adam4adam a lot of guys will have things like "420 friendly"
    lol, its code for "I smoke weed, so lets get high"

    I think its kinda corny, like is weed such a big part of ur life that u need to advertise it on a profile?

    I'll smoke weed every once in a while, but dont make it like a prereq for meeting ppl
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    Apr 13, 2011 7:18 PM GMT
    I'll take a smoker or pothead over someone who constantly eats unhealthy processed food every day. That'll kill ya much faster than smoke. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 13, 2011 7:19 PM GMT
    I won't don't a guy who won't share the weed.
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:10 PM GMT
    Not at all. Smoking pot is not that big of a deal and I do it every so often. However, it would bother me if the guy smoked every single day and it consumed his life. Doing it like a few times a week is not bad at all.

    I actually smoke every weekend with my sister and friends. We will usually take gravity hits or roll up a joint and go see a movie or something. Smoking weed is fun stuffficon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 13, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
    if he smokes weed everyday he's probably too lazy to make me sandwiches when i want them.

    and cigarettes are just a waste of money, smell bad, etc. i guess they look a little cool.... not enough though....
  • Webster666

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    Apr 13, 2011 10:14 PM GMT
    Yes, I'm afraid so.
    Many times, I've seen a great looking guy, then noticed that he was smoking, and thought that that was too bad. I wouldn't rule them out, but I'd definitely prefer a non smoker.
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    Apr 13, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    I'm extremely turned off by it!!
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    Apr 13, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    I am not a smoker.

    I do not like the smell of smoke in my house or on my clothes. People who smoke ruin the scent of cologne and their belongings constantly reek. Maybe it's a genetic thing but nobody in my immediate family smokes, although I have a couple of relatives who do. They must be adopted icon_razz.gif

    I've met some 'clean' smokers who don't very often and you can't really tell they do. To me that's negotiable. It's the ones who smoke a pack a day and every time you see them they have a cigarette in their mouth.

    I'm not big on weed either, dated a guy who was a mild pothead and next thing I know he's asking me for money for weed.
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    Apr 13, 2011 11:45 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI'll take a smoker or pothead over someone who constantly eats unhealthy processed food every day. That'll kill ya much faster than smoke. icon_wink.gif


    Yeah but smoking kills you and him. even if you don't smoke. That's the problem.

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    Apr 13, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    after dating a pothead, i officially STAY THE FUCK AWAY from em. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 14, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    brianindenver saidPeople who smoke ruin the scent of cologne and their belongings constantly reek...

    I'm not big on weed either, dated a guy who was a mild pothead and next thing I know he's asking me for money for weed.


    People who use cologne ruin the scent of everything around them though.

    As for asking money for weed, that's just wrong... If he can't afford it, he shouldn't be doing it.
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    Apr 14, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    Weed ? yeah i think so ...
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    Apr 14, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    Cigs, yea I probably wouldnt date someone who smoked. Just isnt my thing really. I have friends who smoke though.

    As for pot, considering I like to indulge once in a while I dont mind, but I dont think that I could date someone who was constantly high.
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    Apr 14, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    I will mostly try to look at other things about the guy to determine his datability. But cigarettes would be a pretty big turn off because I hate the constant smelling like smoke and when I feel like I am kissing an ashtray.

    As far as pot, if he smokes but very rarely then I wouldn't really mind. I just had roommates in college for a year that literally smoked at least 5 times a day, if not 10. I will definitely not deal with that because you never get to be with the actual person. They are either high or coming down from their high, but then they just get high again, so they are never in their natural state. But if my guy wanted to smoke with his friends or something every once in a while, its his choice but I wouldn't be doing it with him.
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    Apr 14, 2011 3:38 PM GMT
    I'm very allergic to cigarrette smoke. Most of the smokers I've dated have felt that I should "just deal with it" so now I don't, automatic dealbreaker, especially if you lie about it. Pot, I can deal with someone taking a hit every now and again. I'd define every now and again as a couple of times in a year to the point it's not worth mentioning, not every weekend. Same with drinking, I don't want to hang out with someone who's drunk everytime we're together. If I wanted to babysit, I'd go work in a daycare center.
  • needleninja

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    Apr 14, 2011 3:43 PM GMT
    turned off, end of story. :3