Stop conniving to kick me off RJ: I'm calling out your bullshit

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    Apr 15, 2011 7:12 AM GMT
    Whoever is IMing people to "report abuse" on my profile because I'm comparing the word "n*gger" to the word "faggot," or because I called someone "AIDS face" after he called me a "kyke," stop it. You know damn well that you're doing this because I put you on ignore and aren't paying attention to you in the forums. And now you know my acts are rational and not ban-worthy. Read on:

    #1
    Recently, Kobe Bryant used a pejorative word to expressive frustration that incidentally hurt a group of people which he didn't belong. I explained that the best way for him to learn his lesson is for him to be the incidental recipient of a pejorative word against his race from a non-Black homosexual. This sounds insulting and crass, but I think this is the best way he can truly feel how he made some homosexuals feel. I'm not even advocating any penalty or this ridiculous $100,000 fee for his actions, just advocating putting him in his place. If you think I'm racist because of this then go cry to Al Sharpton.

    #2
    I made an AIDS joke two years ago on RJ. An RJ member has since multiple times trolled me in several threads bringing up this incident as if it had anything to do with the present conversation, which it never did. But he's tried to make it relevant by saying things like, "Don't believe what Jake Benson says he's a bigot. He made an AIDS joke." Yeah and don't enjoy Family Guy either because they make AIDS jokes too. Anyway, recently after resurfacing again with the "Jake make an AIDS joke (two years) ago" tangent this same dude called me a "kyke" so I called him "AIDS face" in retaliation. If you are someone with HIV and you find "AIDS face" offensive then I'm sorry, but that's just about as offensive as calling a Jew a "kyke." Either way I applied the same method I advocated in point #1 here: put someone in their place by using the same method of offense they used. Moreover I don't appreciate someone using their HIV status as a reason to start a flame war. That's called using your minority status as a crutch. Doesn't fly with me and shouldn't with any logical individual.

    In result someone or someones (or something) is running around trying to get me banned now that I've put people on "ignore" and consequentially don't respond to their flames in threads. But you should know this: in reality I don't make fun of people with AIDS. I have HIV pos friends (in reality, not on RJ) and in general they're nicer than my HIV negative friends. But I do insult people on RJ in retaliation with ad hominem attacks if they ignite ad hominem attacks against me first. If you have a problem that I retaliate using the same method you use, then do yourself and stop provoking me. I've tried doing the same thing (i.e. halting the provoking) by putting people on "ignore," such as the person in #2.

    In summary, yes words like n*gger, faggot, kyke, and AIDS-face hurt, but don't try to get me banned when I make a LOGICAL point (as in #1), or use the SAME method you use (as in #2). If you and your buddy's get offended because suddenly you're the recipient of a slur but pay no attention to the fact that I'm being called a kyke, then you're probably more naive than Kobe Bryant.


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    p.s. LOL if you look at my profile picture when you read this post, it makes it funnier.
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    Apr 15, 2011 7:36 AM GMT
    cold saidWe reap what we sow.


    I don't understand fortune cookie proverbs. Dumb it down to Jake Benson speak please.
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    Apr 15, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    cold said
    JAKEBENSON said
    cold saidWe reap what we sow.


    I don't understand fortune cookie proverbs. Dumb it down to Jake Benson speak please.


    THE HARVEST IS COMING.

    Just kidding. What I'm saying is that this is happening to you because you antagonise people. Regardless of who started the name calling bullshit, you need to learn when to stop. To me, this thread is basically you simultaneously fanning the fire while complaining about getting burnt.

    I'm not taking sides nor am I attacking you, but think about it - if you genuinely want this person to stop conspiring against you, creating this thread is not going to achieve that goal.


    Yes I learned when to stop. I put users on ignore. And their response is trying to get me banned because they're upset I don't respond to them.

    No, I don't want to continue the flaming, but it will happen because I'm calling bullshit on people trying to garner RJ members privately to "report user" on my profile. I want to bring this to everyone's attention to hopefully embarrass them and get them to stop. And hopefully if someone's goal is to get people to ban me and has to work hard privately to accomplish other people hitting the "report user," then I hope he gets banned.

    *and scene* (applause)
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    Apr 15, 2011 8:16 AM GMT
    cold saidWhat I'm saying is that this is happening to you because you antagonize people.


    No offense to J.P., but I have noticed that a number of the more verbally exotic posters have toned it down a bit.....must be something in the air. drunksmiley5.gif
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    Apr 15, 2011 8:26 AM GMT
    Who is J.P.?
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    Apr 15, 2011 8:28 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidWho is J.P.?

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    Apr 15, 2011 8:29 AM GMT
    Jake, you're an awesome man and I do think that the person is taking it too far by telling people to report you.

    He is clearly butthurt that your famous and he isn't.. .trust me, when you are famous in the "homosexual" world, a lot of people get jelly.

    Just don't worry about it and send an email to the RJ admins telling them that this is still occuring so they are aware that people are randomly reporting you because one guy just despises you.

    Anyways, hopefully, this thread will reduce the amount of people who do that or eliminate it. Kudos to you for speaking out about it.

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    Apr 15, 2011 8:39 AM GMT
    I Agree, U are an awesome dude JakeBenson; I still remember u reminding me to always put my threads on appropriate titles. icon_razz.gif yes i admire ur bitchiness(i a good way). and yes, i think u OutPWN any1 here. Whoever is trying to report are Dumbfucks or buch of Monsterfuckers. icon_eek.gif LOL! sorry for the language. icon_razz.gif hehehee

    JAKEBENSON RULES >=D , Oh i remember that you Love BLUEEE! XD
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    Apr 15, 2011 2:38 PM GMT
    I've always admired your blunt humor and readiness to call out members on their hypocrisy. Those that report you for abuse don't get that people put up fronts counter to their genuine nature, whether it be nice or nasty. They'd do well to review your posts which expose both you and others for who they really are. The 10:43pm post in an old thread of mine, where you not only made great contributions but stood up for me in your response to a popular member who typically deletes posts he writes which reflect badly on him even as they're captured in quotes, is a good example: http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1058891/

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    Apr 15, 2011 2:47 PM GMT
    jakebenson dude is getin heated lol, dude wrote a fucking novel about it haha
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    Apr 15, 2011 2:48 PM GMT
    I don't want to fan any flame wars, as I'm tired of the bickering myself. But there is something I've noticed around here...people get attacked for expressing their views, sometimes personally and aggressively, only because they have a differen't viewpoint, or set of viewpoints. I just ask that this please stop...it's abuse, people are allowed to believe a different thing and deserve the same respect as anyone else for their beliefs. There are many ways to express disagreement with someone without resorting to patronizing, demeaning remarks - which set off chain reactions; and the person, or persons who felt attacked will almost always respond back because they feel they have been mistreated unfairly. There shouldn't be a bunch of fighting all the time.

    That's all I have to say.
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    Apr 15, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    Calling a Jew the K word is not cool at all. It's like calling a guy with Asian heritage a ch*nk. I can see 100% why Jake would retaliate cuz I would (maybe not with the same level of abrasiveness but that's probably due to personality differences though). You gotta defend your honor man.
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    Apr 15, 2011 3:09 PM GMT
    you're so jewish ...;p
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    Apr 15, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
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    Wouldn't it be funny if the person who sent you this message was just pulling your tail?
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    Apr 15, 2011 3:23 PM GMT
    I dunno how someone would want to kick him off.... He's hilarious! I love his " I am going crazy" video

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    Apr 15, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    If you can't take the heat, don't dish it out and then come crying. *shrug*

    /Flamesuit on
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    Apr 15, 2011 5:15 PM GMT
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    Apr 15, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    LEAVE JAKEBENSON ALONE.

    LEAVE HIM ALONE.

    HE IS JUST A HUMAN BEING.


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    Apr 15, 2011 6:07 PM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidWhoever is IMing people to "report abuse" on my profile because I'm comparing the word "n*gger" to the word "faggot," or because I called someone "AIDS face" after he called me a "kyke," stop it. You know damn well that you're doing this because I put you on ignore and aren't paying attention to you in the forums. And now you know my acts are rational and not ban-worthy. Read on:

    #1
    Recently, Kobe Bryant used a pejorative word to expressive frustration that incidentally hurt a group of people which he didn't belong. I explained that the best way for him to learn his lesson is for him to be the incidental recipient of a pejorative word against his race from a non-Black homosexual. This sounds insulting and crass, but I think this is the best way he can truly feel how he made some homosexuals feel. I'm not even advocating any penalty or this ridiculous $100,000 fee for his actions, just advocating putting him in his place. If you think I'm racist because of this then go cry to Al Sharpton.

    #2
    I made an AIDS joke two years ago on RJ. An RJ member has since multiple times trolled me in several threads bringing up this incident as if it had anything to do with the present conversation, which it never did. But he's tried to make it relevant by saying things like, "Don't believe what Jake Benson says he's a bigot. He made an AIDS joke." Yeah and don't enjoy Family Guy either because they make AIDS jokes too. Anyway, recently after resurfacing again with the "Jake make an AIDS joke (two years) ago" tangent this same dude called me a "kyke" so I called him "AIDS face" in retaliation. If you are someone with HIV and you find "AIDS face" offensive then I'm sorry, but that's just about as offensive as calling a Jew a "kyke." Either way I applied the same method I advocated in point #1 here: put someone in their place by using the same method of offense they used. Moreover I don't appreciate someone using their HIV status as a reason to start a flame war. That's called using your minority status as a crutch. Doesn't fly with me and shouldn't with any logical individual.

    In result someone or someones (or something) is running around trying to get me banned now that I've put people on "ignore" and consequentially don't respond to their flames in threads. But you should know this: in reality I don't make fun of people with AIDS. I have HIV pos friends (in reality, not on RJ) and in general they're nicer than my HIV negative friends. But I do insult people on RJ in retaliation with ad hominem attacks if they ignite ad hominem attacks against me first. If you have a problem that I retaliate using the same method you use, then do yourself and stop provoking me. I've tried doing the same thing (i.e. halting the provoking) by putting people on "ignore," such as the person in #2.

    In summary, yes words like n*gger, faggot, kyke, and AIDS-face hurt, but don't try to get me banned when I make a LOGICAL point (as in #1), or use the SAME method you use (as in #2). If you and your buddy's get offended because suddenly you're the recipient of a slur but pay no attention to the fact that I'm being called a kyke, then you're probably more naive than Kobe Bryant.


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    p.s. LOL if you look at my profile picture when you read this post, it makes it funnier.

    How come the word "nigger" gets an astericks, but "faggot" gets spelled out? Seems like you are conceding that "faggot" is not as offensive.
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    Apr 16, 2011 6:25 AM GMT
    Caslon18000 saidHow come the word "nigger" gets an astericks, but "faggot" gets spelled out? Seems like you are conceding that "faggot" is not as offensive.


    Oh I'll write out the word n*gger when it's appropriate, usually (though not always) if I'm responding to someone else who used it first and it's not being directed at anyone. However I am not Black, but I am gay. So I own the word faggot and I will spell out those letters every time I spell it. As for the word n*gger, I can't write that out in most cases because it makes me sound like a stupid racist. I did write it out when explaining seeking retribution for Kobe Bryant's slur. That circumstance broke the "Black own the word n*gger and fags own the word faggot" decorum. If a heterosexual Black person can say "faggot," then a non-Black heterosexual can retaliate with "n*gger."
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    Apr 16, 2011 6:29 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI've always admired your blunt humor and readiness to call out members on their hypocrisy. Those that report you for abuse don't get that people put up fronts counter to their genuine nature, whether it be nice or nasty. They'd do well to review your posts which expose both you and others for who they really are. The 10:43pm post in an old thread of mine, where you not only made great contributions but stood up for me in your response to a popular member who typically deletes posts he writes which reflect badly on him even as they're captured in quotes, is a good example: http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1058891/



    Hahaha, oh "Friendrbetter." He's a nut job. He messaged me 5 times in less than one day and it went from "Hi I like you" to "Fine I don't want to be your friend." I made a point of this in a thread and members were like "how DARE YOU JAKE BENSON take something private and make it public!" And I was like WHAT?!?

    Anyway, yeah I got anyone's back who makes a logical point and then gets bullied by morons.
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    Apr 16, 2011 6:40 AM GMT

    Love it.
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    Apr 16, 2011 6:40 AM GMT
    Wow this thread has turned out way better than I thought it would. I was aiming for flame wars.
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    Apr 16, 2011 6:42 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidWow this thread has turned out way better than I thought it would. I was aiming for flame wars.

    You're a terrible aim.
    You're better at flaming people yourself.
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    Apr 16, 2011 6:43 AM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    You're a terrible aim.

    You should see me trying to pee.