• trl_

    Posts: 994

    Apr 17, 2011 12:44 AM GMT
    whaaaa, you guys can call the whaaaambulance if you want since i'm about to whine.

    but guys never approach me at bars and i don't know why
    yeah, i know that i have to take the initiative sometimes but being pursued is fun

    do i look mean? in the past lots of people had told me they thought i was judging them from afar when they didn't know me. how do i remedy this?
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    Apr 17, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    Lots of threads on this. Start by smiling and looking in the direction of guys that interest and keep the gaze for 30-45 secs. Don't fold your arms. Joke around with those standing and/or sitting near you.
  • michaelsloan

    Posts: 54

    Apr 17, 2011 1:35 AM GMT
    same thing happened to me. that was my time in a gay bar, and with many straight