msuNtx saidSo I learn tonight that one of my best girlfriends who I havent yet told I was gay, is practially in love with me. She broke up with her boyfriend because she has such strong feelings for me, and I just realize this tonight. I will tell her soon that I'm gay, but I feel horrible, finding out how much she cares about me... What to do ??
I dunno. One of the negative consequences of our not coming out publicly.
I know, lots of reasons we can't. But it sure does mess things up all around, doesn't it?
I think you're gonna hafta bite this bullet, and endure her wrath. Be prepared for it. Reminding her that you didn't lead her on probably won't help, not in her own mind.
But yah gotta do it. Otherwise it'll only get deeper & worse. My heart really does go out to you both. Be a man, see it through. Damn...