To the lover at 40's

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    Apr 17, 2011 11:41 AM GMT
    I am getting an impression these days that a gay man in his 40's or nearing 50's could be a perfect lover for a dude like me nearing his 30's.(This is purely based on my experience though).I mean let me face it. I am not that gorgeous and charming but i have tonnes and tonnes of love that i can flood you with.Sometimes i wonder i should not have born in this age.Yes, i have so many dissapointments.I dont seem to be fitting with majority people of my age with my lifestyle choice of love and affection.By this, i don't mean i have learnt controlling my sexual quench as i am single, yet i am trying to reflect the real me from within.I think having sex all the time is not sexy.Our souls getting connected, make more eye contacts, get featherly touched, feel from inside, that first hot breath feel, tension and kiss is more sexier. I am kinda having this feeling that only a person in his 40's or nearing 50's might long, look, live for love.I know he might have had a lot of sex with lot of guys. Let us move on and talk about the future.This guy in his 40's or 50's needs love, more than the playboy life.I am here for you to give you love,more affection than you expect, giving your own space. Let us try some adventures sports, get to know each other. Let us get lost in some remote place and let us laugh, hug, get frisky, horny, laugh, get wild, love, feel high, connect and sleep tight.

    I want to get up early to see you sleep, kiss your forehead and wake you up to see that genuine smile, hug you tighter, but kiss only after brushing your teethicon_smile.gif
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    Apr 17, 2011 12:11 PM GMT
    I was just in a local gas station yesterday that's owned by an Indian family. Everyone there has always treated me like family...more caring than any other store owners I've ever met around here. They even gave me stuff on credit when I was down and out (which is VERY taboo around here).

    As I was getting in my car to leave, I thought to myself "ya know, if I ever decide to settle down with one man, it's probably gonna be with a sweet cuddly guy from India. Every one I've ever met has been a total sweetheart." icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 17, 2011 12:50 PM GMT
    aaww here comes a bear cuddle for you:-)
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    Apr 17, 2011 2:06 PM GMT
    VenkyJock saidI am getting an impression these days that a gay man in his 40's or nearing 50's could be a perfect lover for a dude like me nearing his 30's.(This is purely based on my experience though).I mean let me face it. I am not that gorgeous and charming but i have tonnes and tonnes of love that i can flood you with.Sometimes i wonder i should not have born in this age.Yes, i have so many dissapointments.I dont seem to be fitting with majority people of my age with my lifestyle choice of love and affection.By this, i don't mean i have learnt controlling my sexual quench as i am single, yet i am trying to reflect the real me from within.I think having sex all the time is not sexy.Our souls getting connected, make more eye contacts, get featherly touched, feel from inside, that first hot breath feel, tension and kiss is more sexier. I am kinda having this feeling that only a person in his 40's or nearing 50's might long, look, live for love.I know he might have had a lot of sex with lot of guys. Let us move on and talk about the future.This guy in his 40's or 50's needs love, more than the playboy life.I am here for you to give you love,more affection than you expect, giving your own space. Let us try some adventures sports, get to know each other. Let us get lost in some remote place and let us laugh, hug, get frisky, horny, laugh, get wild, love, feel high, connect and sleep tight.

    I want to get up early to see you sleep, kiss your forehead and wake you up to see that genuine smile, hug you tighter, but kiss only after brushing your teethicon_smile.gif


    Wow Venkyjock......where do I sign up!! Im serious!
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 17, 2011 2:15 PM GMT
    Sounds like you are more caught up in the romantic fantasy of this rather than reality (not that it couldn't work under specific circumstances).
    Remember, age difference can present a road block in many respects....
    experience, energy, views... again, they can be overcome, but it must be
    delt with in the right way.
  • rnch

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    Apr 17, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    my most accepting, erotic and skilled lover (so far) has been my long term bf, a still sexy and fit man in his 40's.

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    Apr 17, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidSounds like you are more caught up in the romantic fantasy of this rather than reality (not that it couldn't work under specific circumstances).
    Remember, age difference can present a road block in many respects....
    experience, energy, views... again, they can be overcome, but it must be
    delt with in the right way.


    I think it is all a mindset, no matter the age difference. I was only thinking that everyone needs/craves for an emotional support over a period of time and this thought grows stronger with age.
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    Apr 17, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
    hardbody1519 said
    VenkyJock saidI am getting an impression these days that a gay man in his 40's or nearing 50's could be a perfect lover for a dude like me nearing his 30's.(This is purely based on my experience though).I mean let me face it. I am not that gorgeous and charming but i have tonnes and tonnes of love that i can flood you with.Sometimes i wonder i should not have born in this age.Yes, i have so many dissapointments.I dont seem to be fitting with majority people of my age with my lifestyle choice of love and affection.By this, i don't mean i have learnt controlling my sexual quench as i am single, yet i am trying to reflect the real me from within.I think having sex all the time is not sexy.Our souls getting connected, make more eye contacts, get featherly touched, feel from inside, that first hot breath feel, tension and kiss is more sexier. I am kinda having this feeling that only a person in his 40's or nearing 50's might long, look, live for love.I know he might have had a lot of sex with lot of guys. Let us move on and talk about the future.This guy in his 40's or 50's needs love, more than the playboy life.I am here for you to give you love,more affection than you expect, giving your own space. Let us try some adventures sports, get to know each other. Let us get lost in some remote place and let us laugh, hug, get frisky, horny, laugh, get wild, love, feel high, connect and sleep tight.

    I want to get up early to see you sleep, kiss your forehead and wake you up to see that genuine smile, hug you tighter, but kiss only after brushing your teethicon_smile.gif


    Wow Venkyjock......where do I sign up!! Im serious!


    lolz...don't make me blushicon_razz.gif
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    Apr 17, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    rnch saidmy most accepting, erotic and skilled lover (so far) has been my long term bf, a still sexy and fit man in his 40's.

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    you are one lucky charm. Have most fun and may love bind your souls together, forever icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 17, 2011 7:04 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidSounds like you are more caught up in the romantic fantasy of this rather than reality (not that it couldn't work under specific circumstances).
    Remember, age difference can present a road block in many respects....
    experience, energy, views... again, they can be overcome, but it must be
    delt with in the right way.
    Agree with HK. Seeing this from the other end of the spectrum, all you're fantasizing about it very romantic and something many guys, regardless of age, would love, however, there's much more to a relationship than romance and it's the 'real events' of life that you must be able to work through. Age does play a factor, just as the sunrise differs from the sunset.

    Having said that, I do think that older guys look more at the romance of a relationship rather than the sex (not that it isn't important or wanted). Romance is found to be very fulfilling, often with or without sex. With the right guy, sure it might be exactly your fit but as with any relationship, there's work involved. You just have to decide if it's worth the effort vs someone more your age.
  • rnch

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    Apr 17, 2011 7:08 PM GMT
    VenkyJock said
    rnch saidmy most accepting, erotic and skilled lover (so far) has been my long term bf, a still sexy and fit man in his 40's.

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    you are one lucky charm. Have most fun and may love bind your souls together, forever icon_smile.gif



    we both believe this and tell each other this over and over how lucky we are to have finally found each other.


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