ADVICE: How would you, or have you, gotten over a "being in lust" crush that you cannot avoid?

  • ChicagoCarl

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    Apr 17, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
    I do not want to date the guy, just have some fun. He knows this and has the same interest in me. He is partnered, so this is more of a game to him I believe. Unfortunately I cannot avoid the guy entirely so is there a way for me to get over the fact that I cannot stop fantasizing about him.

    They have an open relationship, from what he is told me, so I feel no guilt about that aspect. This is more for my well being and mental health.
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    Apr 17, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    ChicagoCarl saidI do not want to date the guy, just have some fun. He knows this and has the same interest in me. He is partnered, so this is more of a game to him I believe. Unfortunately I cannot avoid the guy entirely so is there a way for me to get over the fact that I cannot stop fantasizing about him.

    They have an open relationship, from what he is told me, so I feel no guilt about that aspect. This is more for my well being and mental health.


    Sure the solution is extremely easy. Just find an even HOTTER guy to fantasize about. But this time, find one that you can avoid.