..... GAYEST SITUATION EVER lol!(Please Read Carefully!)...( Betrayed )

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    Apr 17, 2011 9:20 PM GMT
    I have been Betrayed by a guy ... here on This site .. he Claimed that he loved me ... for weeks ... While he was doing the same with other guy with the same shit ... and here is my Story ..( ima call the guy i used to love with X) and The other guy who was with the same situation as mine with Y)

    ... (X) MSG me with ..'' Hi u r so cute ... ur the one i have been dreaming everyday .. i would love to know u more '' ... ( Was his 1st Msg from him to me )

    i talked with him .. Hi ... How r u ? , him: fine thanks ... i really like u and those bla bla ...
    2~3 days he influenced me with his great words .. i believed him ..

    he made me love him so fast .. great words .. he looks cute .. (even if its him idk ... )
    For 3 Weeks we have been talking about love and sex .. and talking about our Future and having kids or no .. where we would stay .. we talked about work .. everything u can imagine lol ... i spent lots of time on him , I have gone top for him and i am Bottom/Verse... Skipped School for him ... Ignored Studying for him ...Planned to Fly to him ,but last week i noticed there is a guy having crush on him(Y) .. i said its ok maybe just crush ...
    Today ...i saw that guy(Y) .. having his pic and (x)'s Name on it with a (<3) .. i said to myself wow thats not right ... i gone to ask (X) ..''Why that guy(Y) having ur name on his pic ?'' he answered its not me .. its the other one .. we used to talk about him ... ( the other guy have the same name as X) i said hmm okay .. but i didn't feel right .. i MSG the guy (Y).. asked ...'' Hey Nice picture'' whose name is this ? ... later while .. the guy msg me saying its (X) ... and it was his name ... the guy i used to love name .. i said WOW ... r u kidding me ?
    fk off he is my BF ...Later he msg me(Y) ..'' WHAAAAT ? How come .. he is my bf .. i dont believe this .. lets talk about it '' ... i opened my IM and gone to talk to that guy ... i found the guy i used to love(X) .. was telling him the same words ... Exactly the same words ... Each words ... i was like WTF ?! ... i couldn't believe .. that guy kept telling the same words he used to tell him ..( Love Words .. Like .. i adore u .. i worship u and those words that should be told for ur BF only lol)
    When i asked .. he couldn't give a right answer .. he told me my account on RJ is available .. i told him ... really -,- ? and told me .. see that guy hacked my account ... bla bla bla bla
    - All i wanted is Romance and REAL LOVE ... and thats what i have got ..
    Do u think i would believe in gay love anymore ?!
    That guy that i used to love in this site .. so take care please ..
    ( Broken Heart)...... Feel so bad and Dumb ! >,>

    Updates: A Guy With Strange name ... MSG me about josh if i know anything about him ... i told him no..and i dont want to know ..cuz he cheated on me .. He said he loved u and he told me That ... but i dont think so .. as we used to to Listen to our mum When she says don't listen to Stranger Specially when they r not Verified and got no PIC lol
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    Apr 17, 2011 9:39 PM GMT
    Please take care ... if u feel someone doing this with u .. then Dig after him n see .. and anyone want to know his name just Msg me ..
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    I don't know about anyone else, but I'm super confused.
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:04 PM GMT
    deltalimen saidI don't know about anyone else, but I'm super confused.


    about !?
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:06 PM GMT
    I really don't understand what you are trying to tell us.
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:07 PM GMT
    You got played. Welcome to the interwebs.
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:20 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidYou got played. Welcome to the interwebs.



    Yeah ... and i feel so bad .. i wish none be in the same Situation

    So please take care !
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:27 PM GMT
    I read the story but im confused too. Could you just give a quick summary?
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    Daelin saidI read the story but im confused too. Could you just give a quick summary?


    It seems he met this guy online, they developed a friendship that turned into more than a friendship and then he found out that he was not the only one icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:35 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    Daelin saidI read the story but im confused too. Could you just give a quick summary?


    It seems he met this guy online, they developed a friendship that turned into more than a friendship and then he found out that he was not the only one icon_wink.gif

    Bing bing bing!
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    Daelin saidI read the story but im confused too. Could you just give a quick summary?


    It seems he met this guy online, they developed a friendship that turned into more than a friendship and then he found out that he was not the only one icon_wink.gif



    Yup and not only with 2 i think .. i bet he did with a lot ... And sorry for my FAIL English ..
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
    I find it interesting how we can be so willing to emotionally invest in these internet relationships. I've done it myself. In hindsight, it seems as though much of it was me getting carried away with myself. He said the right words. I gave them meaning, though it may not have been the meaning he intended. Perhaps he was just saying what he thought sounded good in the moment. I don't know. I'll stop rambling now.
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    I am trying to convince myself that Internet Relationship is possible and can come true ... but .. looks hard ... and if u going to ask why don't get someone near ya .. i will tell u check my country lol !
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
    I'm not sure if this is a gay problem, or a more general Internet problem. Online freaks are not confined to any particular sexual orientation.

    The Internet is a face mask they get to wear, and indulge their worst behaviors. I've fallen afoul of them myself, though always smell them out before it's been too late. But it does frighten me to think that people like this openly walk the streets with me.

    It's sorta like an Alfred Hitchcock movie -- who's the psycho next door to you? And how often do we see it on TV news, the interview with the neighbor: "He seemed friendly, a really quiet, nice guy. I would never have suspected he had 12 bodies buried in his basement." icon_eek.gif

    So should Internet freaks surprise us? They're more common than we suppose.
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    Apr 17, 2011 10:55 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidI find it interesting how we can be so willing to emotionally invest in these internet relationships. I've done it myself. In hindsight, it seems as though much of it was me getting carried away with myself. He said the right words. I gave them meaning, though it may not have been the meaning he intended. Perhaps he was just saying what he thought sounded good in the moment. I don't know. I'll stop rambling now.

    No, this is quite correct.

    I did a Psych paper on it as a Freshman and my teacher was like, "Whoa! Wow" because I wrote from experience.

    My first infatuation was with someone I didn't even know if they were real and still don't till this day. It's the eagerness... idealistic thoughts and values we place in another person. Whether they're who they say they are or not. Too bad the genuine factor isn't higher, otherwise it wouldn't be so frowned upon to look for someone online and invest emotion into them.
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:01 PM GMT
    You were in "love" in 3 weeks???? ... You deserve to be played.
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:11 PM GMT
    Caslon18000 saidYou were in "love" in 3 weeks???? ... You deserve to be played.



    I know 3 Weeks r not enough but for Romantic guy like me seeking for love ... wasn't short :S
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    Caslon18000 saidYou were in "love" in 3 weeks???? ... You deserve to be played.


    Caslon18000.......Hush....68.gif
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:16 PM GMT
    TrevorMark saidMy first infatuation was with someone I didn't even know if they were real and still don't till this day. It's the eagerness... idealistic thoughts and values we place in another person. Whether they're who they say they are or not.


    How long ago did this happen?
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:17 PM GMT
    Did X happen to be from Ghana??
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    NJDewd saidDid X happen to be from Ghana??


    Nope New York ... USA ... as he claimed ...
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    but these kind of ppl r having lots of accounts and lots of fake Pictures ... so might be him and might be not
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:45 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    TrevorMark saidMy first infatuation was with someone I didn't even know if they were real and still don't till this day. It's the eagerness... idealistic thoughts and values we place in another person. Whether they're who they say they are or not.


    How long ago did this happen?

    When I was 19 or 18 I believe. Via Myspace and he did have a lot more than 1 picture... but he was stunningly gorgeous, paying attention to me and have an e-boyfriend from Colorado who was flying to see him and they mysteriously deleted their accounts at the same time.
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    You said you met him here on RJ right? Was he verified?

    @Trev awww I'm real sorry that sucks. These people don't realize that there are real feelings involved sometimes. Bastards.
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    Apr 17, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    Cityaznguy saidYou said you met him here on RJ right? Was he verified?

    @Trev awww I'm real sorry that sucks. These people don't realize that there are real feelings involved sometimes. Bastards.

    Heh. Yeah. The way I really feel about it I'll keep out of the thread. You can mail me though. I've already derailed this enough.