Whenever someone Is interested in me...it scares me away?

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    Apr 18, 2011 12:10 AM GMT
    Since i came out, i've had afew guys wanting to get with me an at first i'm just cool with the whole friendship thing, but asoon as they tell me their into me (girls aswell) i run a mile? Even if i like them back i still runaway an just avoid who ever the person is. I'm not sure if i'm like this because of a past relationship :S When i was 16/17 i was in love with this girl an it was a nasty break up. It took me 2/half years to get over her an they were the worst two & half years of my life. Well ever since then i've just never been interested in getting close to someone again! Is it normal to be like this after being hurt so bad? Doya think that relationship is why i'm like this? :/
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    Apr 18, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    BREATHE, BRUTHER, JUST BREATHE.
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    Apr 18, 2011 2:45 PM GMT
    it may come out harsh, but i think its time you grow up. relationships are painful, first its fun and flirty then it becomes interesting as you know them, then they become a serious part of your life you might be throwing in the word "love". but hunny you got no trust right now. so instead of running away why not say hey lets go run together and get a cup of coffee. there's good memories and bad memories and same goes with guys. but a new man or heartbrake always bring you a piece of maturity so that when the right guy comes around this one only leaves your place in the morning to grab you both a cup of coffee icon_wink.gif