Lorac saidI can cuddle with friends (with some limits), both male and female, but they have to be friends. I can't really see myself cuddling with some random stranger off the internet.
For me, they have to be female friends who know Im gay. If not, it leads to bad times.
I love to cuddle and all... but if it's with a guy I'm kind of attracted to... I cannot stop my body.
Well, I'm bi but I can still cuddle with friends of both sexes, but as I said: with limits. I'm not talking about spooning in bed, just leaning and cuddling up while watching movies, heads on or arms around shoulders, that sort of thing.
I think the friends thing has something to do with it - I know these people, we've known each other for years and since there's been no sexual or romantic attraction so far, cuddling feels safe.