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    Apr 21, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    What does it take for you to tell someone who should have any type of self-respect that you don't want them, will never accept an IM, will never unlock photos, and will never converse with them if you are not intrested in them. I mean seriously does anyone know what it will take to let some know bluntly to back off lol icon_razz.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_smile.gif
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    Apr 21, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    Can't say I have been in that situation.
    I am blunt if I need to be but I won't use that to be rude.

    If I am not interested I will say to them: "I think we make great buddies but I don't think we have enough in common to be in a relationship..."

    blunt enough to tell them I am not interested in being in a relationship with them, yet I make them aware that I think they are a great person and that just because we are different in certain areas doesn't mean I dislike them.

    Everyone has specific tastes in men.... some like steak, some like chicken, some like fish... some like a mix of all three, some like it without the sauce....etc...

    People understand that and will respect you more if you tell them upfront what is going on or what you see in terms of a relationship with them.

    No one likes to be dragged into a mess that may have been avoided with simple communication.
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    Apr 21, 2011 4:15 PM GMT
    _Mohammed_ saidCan't say I have been in that situation.
    I am blunt if I need to be but I won't use that to be rude.

    If I am not interested I will say to them: "I think we make great buddies but I don't think we have enough in common to be in a relationship..."

    blunt enough to tell them I am not interested in being in a relationship with them, yet I make them aware that I think they are a great person and that just because we are different in certain areas doesn't mean I dislike them.

    Everyone has specific tastes in men.... some like steak, some like chicken, some like fish... some like a mix of all three, some like it without the sauce....etc...

    People understand that and will respect you more if you tell them upfront what is going on or what you see in terms of a relationship with them.

    No one likes to be dragged into a mess that may have been avoided with simple communication.
    Thanks for the advice icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 21, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    AaliyahFan2011 said
    _Mohammed_ saidCan't say I have been in that situation.
    I am blunt if I need to be but I won't use that to be rude.

    If I am not interested I will say to them: "I think we make great buddies but I don't think we have enough in common to be in a relationship..."

    blunt enough to tell them I am not interested in being in a relationship with them, yet I make them aware that I think they are a great person and that just because we are different in certain areas doesn't mean I dislike them.

    Everyone has specific tastes in men.... some like steak, some like chicken, some like fish... some like a mix of all three, some like it without the sauce....etc...

    People understand that and will respect you more if you tell them upfront what is going on or what you see in terms of a relationship with them.

    No one likes to be dragged into a mess that may have been avoided with simple communication.
    Thanks for the advice icon_smile.gif


    my pleasure! <3

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    Apr 21, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    Just block him. He can send you all the emails and IMs he wants, but you will never see them.
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    Apr 21, 2011 5:08 PM GMT
    I simply ignore them, and block if they become persistent. Unsolicited requests for my private pics, most typically from guys who just joined here and with whom I've never chatted before, don't deserve a response.

    I get one almost every day, including one this morning. It's not my looks, obviously, usually non-US citizens whom I suspect assume I have money. Man, are THEY wrong! LOL!
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    Apr 21, 2011 5:28 PM GMT
    Thanks everyone icon_smile.gif