two issues with anal

  • newbiebottom

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    Apr 21, 2011 8:21 PM GMT
    new bottom, been working on in for a month or so, ie dildo, etc.
    so my bf topped me last night, and while i am much better and letting him inside and enjoying that feeling when he goes in and out, (feels like i am taking a shit), when he goes in deep, the end of his dick hits something, like the wall of my bowel. that fucking hurts.

    it takes him a while to cum, so we fuck for a while, ( i wish it were shorter), and we used plenty of lube). but this morning, it felt like i have paper cuts all over my ass. small cuts i am sure.

    what do i do now.
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    Apr 21, 2011 8:33 PM GMT
    Stop having sex with men, this is a sign that you are straight icon_cry.gif

    But if you choose to persist, take it slow and remember though we were born gay,our bodies weren't designed for taking it in that specific hole with ease... So get your practice in, be slow, and you will maybe get used to it.

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    Apr 21, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    Jay0416 saidStop having sex with men, this is a sign that you are straight icon_cry.gif

    But if you choose to persist, take it slow and remember though we were born gay,our bodies weren't designed for taking it in that specific hole with ease... So get your practice in, be slow, and you will maybe get used to it.



    How the hell is that a sign that he's straight? I don't engage in any kind of anal sex, but I'm no less of a homo.
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    Apr 21, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    COLORED TEXT GOES HEREmy first time hurt some, especially the next day. but if this is what you want, just go slow and enjoy the moment of becoming one with him. let him know how your feeling and don't have him go so deep until you get used to it. hope that helps.
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    Apr 22, 2011 5:40 PM GMT
    Chattman91 said
    Jay0416 saidStop having sex with men, this is a sign that you are straight icon_cry.gif

    But if you choose to persist, take it slow and remember though we were born gay,our bodies weren't designed for taking it in that specific hole with ease... So get your practice in, be slow, and you will maybe get used to it.



    How the hell is that a sign that he's straight? I don't engage in any kind of anal sex, but I'm no less of a homo.


    I was totally kidding, I don't really think it's a sign of anything other than a testimony to how much it hurts some guys...
    And as for you sir, what about that ex who wants some more... you may not take it, but I'm sure you give it icon_wink.gif and if you don't do either, kudos on possessing a superpower!
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    Apr 22, 2011 6:51 PM GMT
    Ew... that sounds so gross.
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    Apr 22, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    Jay0416 said
    Chattman91 said
    Jay0416 saidStop having sex with men, this is a sign that you are straight icon_cry.gif

    But if you choose to persist, take it slow and remember though we were born gay,our bodies weren't designed for taking it in that specific hole with ease... So get your practice in, be slow, and you will maybe get used to it.



    How the hell is that a sign that he's straight? I don't engage in any kind of anal sex, but I'm no less of a homo.


    I was totally kidding, I don't really think it's a sign of anything other than a testimony to how much it hurts some guys...
    And as for you sir, what about that ex who wants some more... you may not take it, but I'm sure you give it icon_wink.gif and if you don't do either, kudos on possessing a superpower!


    I already told him I don't do that, but he keeps trying to convince me to try it. It's really disgusting how persistent he is about this. I almost think he got an STD and wants to give it to me. icon_confused.gif
  • Beeftastic

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    Apr 23, 2011 6:18 AM GMT
    This is on the outside of your ass? Or inside?

    Could be a latex allergy? A lot of guys are allergic to latex condoms. Or maybe the lube?

    Try a non-latex condom like Skyn or Bare?
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    Apr 23, 2011 8:20 AM GMT
    Use more lube. And pump your ass until you have a rosebud you can put a rubber band around.
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    Apr 23, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    newbiebottom saidnew bottom, been working on in for a month or so, ie dildo, etc.
    so my bf topped me last night, and while i am much better and letting him inside and enjoying that feeling when he goes in and out, (feels like i am taking a shit), when he goes in deep, the end of his dick hits something, like the wall of my bowel. that fucking hurts.

    it takes him a while to cum, so we fuck for a while, ( i wish it were shorter), and we used plenty of lube). but this morning, it felt like i have paper cuts all over my ass. small cuts i am sure.

    what do i do now.


    Those cuts are tears in your sphincter.

    Physical damage to your rectum is an unavoidable consequence of anal sex. It's always injurious to the physical structures in the recipient.

    What you can do is accept this truth and avoid anal or you can persist in the mass delusion that insists upon anal.
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    Apr 23, 2011 9:59 PM GMT
    Chattman91 said
    Jay0416 said
    Chattman91 said
    Jay0416 saidStop having sex with men, this is a sign that you are straight icon_cry.gif

    But if you choose to persist, take it slow and remember though we were born gay,our bodies weren't designed for taking it in that specific hole with ease... So get your practice in, be slow, and you will maybe get used to it.



    How the hell is that a sign that he's straight? I don't engage in any kind of anal sex, but I'm no less of a homo.


    I was totally kidding, I don't really think it's a sign of anything other than a testimony to how much it hurts some guys...
    And as for you sir, what about that ex who wants some more... you may not take it, but I'm sure you give it icon_wink.gif and if you don't do either, kudos on possessing a superpower!


    I already told him I don't do that, but he keeps trying to convince me to try it. It's really disgusting how persistent he is about this. I almost think he got an STD and wants to give it to me. icon_confused.gif


    That would be extremely humorous if it weren't so fucked up. icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 23, 2011 10:00 PM GMT
    Jay0416 saidStop having sex with men, this is a sign that you are straight icon_cry.gif

    But if you choose to persist, take it slow and remember though we were born gay,our bodies weren't designed for taking it in that specific hole with ease... So get your practice in, be slow, and you will maybe get used to it.



    Yeah, born this way but that doesn't mean also born to give/take it up the butt.