paulflexes saidIf I ever decide to have a monogamous relationship, I would PREFER he be involved in the adult industry. Sex on camera is not cheating...it's work...and those people are much less likely to cheat, because the STD risks could end their careers.
this is an very interesting perspective, and one i can empathize with readily. everyone has to have a job. some peoples' jobs just make more interesting dinner conversations than others, but in the end, a job is a job.
sex is not the equivalent of intimacy. although i cannot speak for anyone else, i know this from firsthand experience. when i was younger, or rather, less experienced with relationships (gay or otherwise), i thought they were the same idea, stupid silly me.