Has your heart been broken alot...

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    Apr 22, 2011 8:49 PM GMT
    I swear ive been hurt by so many ppl in my life.. ppl i didnt think would of like friends and family.. i aint saying im pefect far from it.. but i treat all the people i no the best i can... and i always seem to let my guard... and they always take my kindness for weakness.. and im just at the point where i just wanna say fuck everybody.... so i guess the question is... have you been hurt by people you kare about whether its family or friends... and what do you do about it.. do you cutt them out of your life?
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    Apr 22, 2011 9:41 PM GMT
    I'm learning to never let my guard down anymore. I have recently went through something that has been very difficult for me to deal with. Finally I'm slowly getting myself back together. Honestly I will never ever trust anyone ever again no matter what. I'd rather be lonely and alone rather than hurt and depressed. You should do the same!
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    Apr 22, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    meemo21 saidI'm learning to never let my guard down anymore. I have recently went through something that has been very difficult for me to deal with. Finally I'm slowly getting myself back together. Honestly I will never ever trust anyone ever again no matter what. I'd rather be lonely and alone rather than hurt and depressed. You should do the same!





    Thats how i feel right now... i wont let my guard down again... its gonna take alot for me to open up to another person .. but i doubt i will... i agree with you when you said "I'd rather be lonely and alone rather than hurt and depressed" wise words..
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    Apr 22, 2011 11:06 PM GMT
    Doesn't sound wise to me, sounds kinda sad. Ya have to break some eggs to make an omelet.

    As Dan Savage says (and I have posted before), every relationship fails. Until one doesn't.
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    Apr 23, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    What is this "heart" of which you speak?icon_eek.gificon_question.gif
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    Apr 23, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    at this point of my life, i think i cant feel much anymore...not that i have been through alot...but that i just stop caring... :i
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    Apr 23, 2011 12:30 AM GMT
    my heart has been broken in seventeen places
  • Webster666

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    Apr 23, 2011 1:25 AM GMT
    Humans are largely incompatible creatures.
    For true love, get a dog.
    But, even then, your heart will break when he dies...

    I have friends who I see from time to time.
    But, I have come to realize that I was meant to live alone.
    Oh, the peace.
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    Apr 23, 2011 1:31 AM GMT
    Three times... you get over it.. a little more jaded maybe, but you get over it.
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    Apr 23, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    andrew_111 saidI swear ive been hurt by so many ppl in my life.. ppl i didnt think would of like friends and family.. i aint saying im pefect far from it.. but i treat all the people i no the best i can... and i always seem to let my guard... and they always take my kindness for weakness.. and im just at the point where i just wanna say fuck everybody.... so i guess the question is... have you been hurt by people you kare about whether its family or friends... and what do you do about it.. do you cutt them out of your life?


    Yes I have. Far too many times to count.

    Sadly, I have had to cut people out of my life many times but they deserved it as they treated me pretty badly while I have been nothing but cordial to them.

    The people I had to remove have been replaced with some really wonderful individuals---several of which are right here on RJ.

    OP, just kick 'em out. If they treat you like crap and you are giving 100 percent to them--you don't need them. Period.
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    Apr 23, 2011 1:52 AM GMT
    yeah, ive lost interest in it really
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    Apr 23, 2011 1:55 AM GMT
    It's scotch taped together
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    Apr 23, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    Pato_Rico saidyeah, ive lost interest in it really



    lost Intrest in what?
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    Apr 23, 2011 2:13 AM GMT
    turtleneckjock said
    andrew_111 saidI swear ive been hurt by so many ppl in my life.. ppl i didnt think would of like friends and family.. i aint saying im pefect far from it.. but i treat all the people i no the best i can... and i always seem to let my guard... and they always take my kindness for weakness.. and im just at the point where i just wanna say fuck everybody.... so i guess the question is... have you been hurt by people you kare about whether its family or friends... and what do you do about it.. do you cutt them out of your life?


    Yes I have. Far too many times to count.

    Sadly, I have had to cut people out of my life many times but they deserved it as they treated me pretty badly while I have been nothing but cordial to them.

    The people I had to remove have been replaced with some really wonderful individuals---several of which are right here on RJ.

    OP, just kick 'em out. If they treat you like crap and you are giving 100 percent to them--you don't need them. Period.


    Thanks!! i will try.... I did it once b4 to my older brother i aint talked to him since 2006 it was sorta hard to do.. but it was a must for the rele skrewed up stuff he did, to his own bloodd... so i think it'll be easier, if it's just ppl i met along the years..
  • tuffguyndc

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    Apr 23, 2011 2:15 AM GMT
    well buddy, do not wear them on your sleeves so much. i am sure you are a nice guy but no need to get beat down about it.
  • mybud

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    Apr 23, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    Dude....I bet everybody has been hurt from one time or another....you suck it up...take your licks and move forward...And watch out when puttin up your guard...you may build that wall so high...the truly good guys can't scale that bitch...just sayin...BUD
  • TrentGrad

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    Apr 23, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    Has my heart been broken? Oh yes! It's kind of the reason I dropped out of the "game" a while back, and why I don't seriously entertain the notion that there is a happy ending for me, so far as finding "Mr. Right" is concerned.

    But I have enough mountains to climb that I'm kept pre-occupied with other issues.
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    Apr 23, 2011 2:47 AM GMT
    andrew_111 said
    Pato_Rico saidyeah, ive lost interest in it really



    lost Intrest in what?


    In giving my heart away at all anymore
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Apr 23, 2011 3:38 AM GMT
    not so many times as alot just too many times makes it hard to open up but with time u do at least i did.
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    Apr 23, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidIt's scotch taped together


    Awww, c'mere I've got some duct tape that'll fix it. icon_smile.gif
  • rdberg1957

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    Apr 23, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    Loss is very painful, but it is inevitable. Some relationships are very bad which makes it feel like you wasted some part of your life. But I am glad that I loved the men I loved and members of my family. Even good relationships hurt some of the time. I think gay men have a harder time with intimate attachments because we grow up isolated in our own families to varying degrees. I really don't regret the relationships I've had even though things did not work out with David, Andrey, Randall, Mark, or Bill. A broken heart is the price we pay to love, to be human and vulnerable. If you have people who you trust, it can be bearable.
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    Apr 23, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    We all have... it's life. It sucks, it hurts. Sometimes it has hurt so bad I thought I'd never recover but I have and I have put myself out there again...

    In the words of Alanis Morisette:
    You live you learn
    You love you learn
    You cry you learn
    You lose you learn
    You bleed you learn
    You scream you learn

    You grieve you learn
    You choke you learn
    You laugh you learn
    You choose you learn
    You pray you learn
    You ask you learn
    You live you learn

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    Apr 23, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    collegekid2004 said
    Ariodante saidIt's scotch taped together


    Awww, c'mere I've got some duct tape that'll fix it. icon_smile.gif


    duct tape over my mouth please sir =/
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    Apr 23, 2011 5:29 AM GMT
    Pato_Rico said
    andrew_111 said
    Pato_Rico saidyeah, ive lost interest in it really



    lost Intrest in what?


    In giving my heart away at all anymore


    Aww thats sad.. im gettin to that point right now.. but hopefully i wont.. cause i kant hold the past to other people i meet in the future.. it aint fair.. but it will take a whole lot for me to open up i no that.....
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    Apr 23, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    My heart breaks every time I see a homeless person.