LTR activities.

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    Apr 25, 2011 2:38 AM GMT
    Do you have any special activities that you've always wanted to share with someone?


    I've been a gamer since I was 4 years old, and the one activity I have ALWAYS wanted to do with a boyfriend is sit in bed (or on the couch, depending on your setup) on a rainy day and play video games. I don't like doing most things that "normal" people like doing... I don't drink and I don't like bars or clubs that much, I don't even really like getting out of the house a whole lot so being able to do something like this most weekends with a boyfriend is my ultimate dream relationship.

    Of course there are other activities that I would love to do that I have nobody to do it with... such as go camping. I haven't been camping since I was probably 12 years old, and I remember it being so much fun. Plus I craves smores like every fucking day of my life, and I need to be able to sit around a campfire and make real ones again. I don't think I could ever really do it with any of my friends, we're all delicate little flowers who don't handle bugs and mud and such very well; I would definitely need a "don't care if it gets dirty" wardrobe specifically for camping though haha.

    Oh and I want a guy that I can take home on holidays for him to enjoy my family with!! Since today was Easter I went home and we did our family & friends dinner thing, and I was introduced to 2 girlfriends, and I was like "wahhhh I wish I weren't gonna be the last person to bring someone home for the holidays icon_sad.gif"
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    Apr 25, 2011 2:43 AM GMT
    i've kind of always wanted to have a boyfriend who i can play online rpgs with but those games are so damn time consuming. the idea of relaxing in the house with your boyfriend and just kind of hanging around in a virtual place is fun though. it was fun with my friends so a boyfriend would probably even better. until he gets addicted to the damn thing.

    (i used to play ffxi, pretty over that game though, thinking about getting ffxiv is they fix it up good since it came out like shit)
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    Apr 25, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    I think I would want to pretty much share anything with a boyfriend. Playing xbox, camping, running, etc.. But see, I actually do drink and drinking and going out is something I would want to share haha. I love when someone will drink with me and we can go have a blast together. Then we can wake up the next morning and be hungover together and regret our lives. Sounds fun, doesn't it?? icon_lol.gif

    Oh and I love going to lakes during the summer so any guy that wants to be with me better be prepared to tube behind a boat with me, and he better be just as tough to throw off as I am!
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    Apr 25, 2011 2:57 AM GMT
    I've always wanted to wrestle with my boyfriend and give each other control at times. Increase aggressiveness, then passiveness. Random sexual touches and kissing in between variations of power.

    Also... I've always wanted a boyfriend who was into photography as much as I am, or as adventurous and wants to see the world as much as I do. I've never had a romantic kiss in the rain... watched the sunrise, looked up at the night sky...

    One I could make a bet with during a video game and just have fun with it.

    I'm ridiculous and sappy.
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    Apr 25, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    1. Take a jacuzzi bubble bath underneath the starlight at a tropical island and just, you know, stargaze. The greatest thing is that you can look into the sky full of stars or his eyes, and decide you want to gaze into his eyes.
    2. Sit in lounging chair and just watch/listen to the ocean waves together and relax. Holding hands.
    3. Take a helicopter ride together to see sights. I've actually done it and it is very romantic and exhilarating at the same time. I sincerely recommend it.
    4. White water river-rafting together. *sigh* My current bf would never do it. icon_sad.gif. He's too scared.
    5. Go skiing...but again he's too scared.
    6. Go camping...but he *hates bugs.
    7. Playing video games together...but he thinks we're too old for video games.

    Wait...when did this become a bitch session?
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    Apr 25, 2011 3:27 AM GMT
    Cityaznguy said5. Go skiing...but again he's too scared.
    7. Playing video games together...but he thinks we're too old for video games.

    Wait...when did this become a bitch session?

    I recommend this song:


    I'm afraid of skiing though because of 2 accidents I had when I was a kid.

    The video game thing... he can go die. NOBODY is too old for video games.
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    Apr 25, 2011 3:31 AM GMT
    Don't like taking my guy to gay clubs or bars since everyone there is on the prowl. I am a student and do most student things with the bf.. ex study, eat, class, workout, social events.

    It is good to have some stuff to yourself or you become one of those couples that do everything together.
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    Apr 25, 2011 3:35 AM GMT
    wowgamer92 saidIt is good to have some stuff to yourself or you become one of those couples that do everything together.

    I'm OVER spending time by myself. I barely even have friends. I don't go to "social gatherings" because they usually should be called "drunk douchebag fests".
    I sit alone in my room all day almost every day. It makes me want to kill myself.
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    Apr 25, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    Anduru said
    wowgamer92 saidIt is good to have some stuff to yourself or you become one of those couples that do everything together.

    I'm OVER spending time by myself. I barely even have friends. I don't go to "social gatherings" because they usually should be called "drunk douchebag fests".
    I sit alone in my room all day almost every day. It makes me want to kill myself.


    Sorry, wasn't directed at you. I am not a big party boy but sometimes do it to blow off steam.
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    Apr 25, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    Anduru saidDo you have any special activities that you've always wanted to share with someone?
    All of my hobbies.
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    Anduru said
    wowgamer92 saidIt is good to have some stuff to yourself or you become one of those couples that do everything together.

    I'm OVER spending time by myself. I barely even have friends. I don't go to "social gatherings" because they usually should be called "drunk douchebag fests".
    I sit alone in my room all day almost every day. It makes me want to kill myself.



    maybe that's not a good idea than? i've recently discovered the sun, i suggest sitting under it sometimes. it's good for your brain. but if you stay too long, it burns your skin or some shit, idk i dont really get it that's just how it is. and don't look directly at it! i did that shit for a minute. visions weird now.
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    Apr 25, 2011 3:51 AM GMT
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    Cityaznguy said5. Go skiing...but again he's too scared.
    7. Playing video games together...but he thinks we're too old for video games.

    Wait...when did this become a bitch session?

    I recommend this song:

    I'm afraid of skiing though because of 2 accidents I had when I was a kid.

    The video game thing... he can go die. NOBODY is too old for video games.


    LMAO!! That was like, the perfect song! Thanks Andrew you're the best! That made me feel so much better. And the video game thing? He would watch me play but he won't join me because HE SUCKS at it! *shrugs* oh well.
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    Apr 25, 2011 4:29 AM GMT
    wowgamer92 saidSorry, wasn't directed at you. I am not a big party boy but sometimes do it to blow off steam.

    ya no i was just saying, i totally wonna be attached at the hip with a boy haha.
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    Apr 25, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    rosco87 saidmaybe that's not a good idea than? i've recently discovered the sun, i suggest sitting under it sometimes. it's good for your brain. but if you stay too long, it burns your skin or some shit, idk i dont really get it that's just how it is. and don't look directly at it! i did that shit for a minute. visions weird now.

    I live in Toronto, the sun won't be out until June.



    loljk that's over-exaggerating but I live on campus in the sketchy area so not only is there nothing to do outside but I could also get mugged if I tried to walk anywhere remotely interesting.
    The only way I could get some outdoor activity would be to go downtown, which would take me an hour by public transit, and even then I would still be ALONE.
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    Apr 25, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    Cityaznguy saidLMAO!! That was like, the perfect song! Thanks Andrew you're the best! That made me feel so much better. And the video game thing? He would watch me play but he won't join me because HE SUCKS at it! *shrugs* oh well.

    LOL
    if he ever says you're too old for it just say "don't be bitter just because you're handicapped"
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    Apr 25, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    1. tough mudder
    2. crossfit games
    3. dining
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    Apr 25, 2011 4:44 AM GMT
    Anduru said
    Cityaznguy saidLMAO!! That was like, the perfect song! Thanks Andrew you're the best! That made me feel so much better. And the video game thing? He would watch me play but he won't join me because HE SUCKS at it! *shrugs* oh well.

    LOL
    if he ever says you're too old for it just say "don't be bitter just because you're handicapped"


    lol win! Aww if I can give you a hug I would. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 25, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    KSUOWL said I love when someone will drink with me and we can go have a blast together. Then we can wake up the next morning and be hungover together and regret our lives. Sounds fun, doesn't it??


    I could never do that with a bf. i have too much fun getting waaay too slutty (nothing that would be considered cheating of course) when I go out and party. I actually prefer that he does not come with me.
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    Apr 25, 2011 6:21 AM GMT
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    KSUOWL said I love when someone will drink with me and we can go have a blast together. Then we can wake up the next morning and be hungover together and regret our lives. Sounds fun, doesn't it??


    I could never do that with a bf. i have too much fun getting waaay too slutty (nothing that would be considered cheating of course) when I go out and party. I actually prefer that he does not come with me.


    Well fine then I guess you just discounted any future relationship between us where we make cute little asian babies icon_cry.gif
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    Apr 25, 2011 7:06 AM GMT
    Cityaznguy said
    Anduru saidLOL
    if he ever says you're too old for it just say "don't be bitter just because you're handicapped"


    lol win! Aww if I can give you a hug I would. icon_biggrin.gif

    E-HUGS!@!!
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    Apr 25, 2011 7:07 AM GMT
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    AvadaKedavra saidI could never do that with a bf. i have too much fun getting waaay too slutty (nothing that would be considered cheating of course) when I go out and party. I actually prefer that he does not come with me.


    Well fine then I guess you just discounted any future relationship between us where we make cute little asian babies icon_cry.gif

    Good, because those are my half-asian babies that are destined to be born.
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    Apr 26, 2011 11:23 AM GMT
    When I start traveling the world and behold the most breathtakingly beautiful sight I have ever seen I will go back home and seek out for the man who captures my soul. Even if it takes me my entire lifetime I will seek out for him.

    When I find this man, I will then take him to this terrestrial paradise and let him witness with his own two eyes just how beautiful it really is, and when he comes to realize just how stunning the scene is, and only then, not one second earlier, I will grab him, hold him, and look deep into his eyes and into the depths of his very soul and tell him that even this paradise pales in comparison as to how beautiful he truly is. I would also let him know that being with him anywhere, is like being in paradise in and out of itself.

    Playing video games is also cool. Nazi zombies anyone?

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    Apr 26, 2011 11:56 AM GMT
    rosco87 saidi've kind of always wanted to have a boyfriend who i can play online rpgs with but those games are so damn time consuming. the idea of relaxing in the house with your boyfriend and just kind of hanging around in a virtual place is fun though. it was fun with my friends so a boyfriend would probably even better. until he gets addicted to the damn thing.

    (i used to play ffxi, pretty over that game though, thinking about getting ffxiv is they fix it up good since it came out like shit)


    Awesome, something I did with the ex all the time. He got me into wow, we achieved lvl 60 in 3 weeks then by that time I had gotten better than him at his own game. My 60 mage would kick his warlocks ass every time, same for the death knight.

    Then of course I introduced him to resident evil. It was so entertaining to watch him play, but he got so scared that he stopped within an hour. So I developed a deal system, I would convince him to play time slots of resident evil 2 when I did something for him. Was ingenious and fun times, I gave up eventually cause he just began to put off playing and while it was entertaining to watch him yell and throw the remote in the air I wanted him to enjoy it at least icon_twisted.gif.

    BTW: I play ffxi why did ya stop? I got a little level 90 tarutaru rdm icon_biggrin.gif. Don't do ffxiv yet, it's no good and they need time to patch that thing up.
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    This thread is now about hugs.
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:50 PM GMT
    Well, then, hugs.

    When you're in a long term relationship, lots of things can be fun to do together, even stuff that is boring on your own. For example, I LOVE grocery shopping with my partner. We always just have a good time. Long walks/talks are great, too.

    It can be fun to share stuff even if it's not a common interest. My partner groans when I pull out my Space: 1999 DVDs (I know, I know), but he gamely watches anyway. Even if he does do a highly disrespectful dance when the theme music starts. And yells at the screen several times an episode that Barbara Bain is so f**king ugly.