What did your first crush look like and did later guys look the same?

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    Apr 26, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    For me, I was in 8th grade and he was much shorter than I was, had blond hair, blue eyes, and very fair skin. (He was also quite brilliant.) He turned out to be straight. We were friends, but even though we did nothing, I'm STILL really turned on by his type! Now, I also go for a taller more masculine version too not to mention guys with brown eyes or hair.
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    Apr 26, 2011 1:52 AM GMT
    This isn't even fair. Mine stuck with me until I graduated and left him to go to college. He was shorter, scruffy fucker, stronger than me by far, deep blue eyes you get lost in. When I came back after the third year of college we ended up running into each other and he is now married to a girl I used to hang out it high school.

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    Apr 26, 2011 1:54 AM GMT
    Honeydew saidThis isn't even fair. Mine stuck with me until I graduated and left him to go to college. He was shorter, scruffy fucker, stronger than me by far, deep blue eyes you get lost in. When I came back after the third year of college we ended up running into each other and he is now married to a girl I used to hang out it high school.

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    Ouch! I never did anything with my crush cause he was straight, but to have a relationship and then watch him play family man just bites.
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    Apr 26, 2011 1:57 AM GMT
    Blond hair, blue eyes, lean ripped tight smooth vascular body.
    He was/is bi.
    We were both 16.
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    Apr 26, 2011 1:58 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidBlond hair, blue eyes, lean ripped tight smooth vascular body.
    He was/is bi.
    We were both 16.


    He sounds hot. Who was taller, who was bigger, and was the top?
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    swimguychicago said
    Honeydew saidThis isn't even fair. Mine stuck with me until I graduated and left him to go to college. He was shorter, scruffy fucker, stronger than me by far, deep blue eyes you get lost in. When I came back after the third year of college we ended up running into each other and he is now married to a girl I used to hang out it high school.

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    Ouch! I never did anything with my crush cause he was straight, but to have a relationship and then watch him play family man just bites.


    Well I don't think he was playing family man, he really is a family guy. We were really close and we actually still talk on occasion (he is a really great guy). He is going to be a great dad one day and he actually seems really happy.
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:12 AM GMT
    I misunderstood I thought you had a relationship. Still it's hard to watch your dreamboat take a different fork in the river.
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:15 AM GMT
    My guy was a guy in my 7th grade math class, I didnt realize I was gay until 10th grade. but I used to watch how the outlines of his chest under his shirt looked cool.

    I don't think he's gay, but he went on to be the most attractive, nicest, well to do foot ball player in high school. And is now in like switzerland doing an NBA business. Man... I wish that guy was gay. Such a cool guy.

    Some of his friends videotaped him geting tacobell with his shirt off as a joke, and it got found and featured on a gay porn website...
  • tuffguyndc

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    Apr 26, 2011 2:18 AM GMT
    mine was at my job in a gym. he was brazilian and smoking hot. he was gay but he wasn't single. the story of my life. ha ha ha ha
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:44 AM GMT
    5th grade. tall guy that everyone wanted to be around. party kind a guy. a grade higher than me. know him since 1st grade to 12th. never got farther then a small conversation with him. ended up being str8
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:48 AM GMT
    ughhhh, sooo pretty....

    6 foot-ish
    naturally blond hair with brown streaks
    brownish blue eyes
    hockey team, therefore...hockey butt icon_wink.gif
    made our highschool uniform actually look good
    wasn't the typical cocky athlete


    soooo pretty (i repeat)

    he added me to facebook a few months ago, why, i have no idea, since we never said a word to eachother. oh well, lets me admire since he loves shirtless pics, yay!

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    Apr 26, 2011 2:58 AM GMT
    Light brown hair, blue eyes, lightly-tanned skin, quirky personality. We were both in 7th grade, though I wouldn't have admitted it was a crush at the time. I moved, changed schools and lost track of him after that. He could be homo.
  • laxdude25

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    Apr 26, 2011 3:04 AM GMT
    6'1", blond, blue, muscular, rowed varsity crew at college while I played soccer. He was my best friend through college, I assumed he was totally straight, but the first guy I had some sexual tension feelings for. I was living with my gf more or less, one night after some beers he hit on me spring term senior year. I turned him down. Fortunately, I had a second chance after graduation when I was living in DC and he came down for a regatta at Georgetown. He stayed with me, hit on my again, and this time I hit the bid. Fireworks.
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    Apr 26, 2011 3:08 AM GMT
    pat3rob saidughhhh, sooo pretty....

    6 foot-ish
    naturally blond hair with brown streaks
    brownish blue eyes
    hockey team, therefore...hockey butt icon_wink.gif
    made our highschool uniform actually look good
    wasn't the typical cocky athlete


    soooo pretty (i repeat)

    he added me to facebook a few months ago, why, i have no idea, since we never said a word to eachother. oh well, lets me admire since he loves shirtless pics, yay!



    Feel free to share!
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    Apr 26, 2011 4:02 AM GMT
    swimguychicago said
    pat3rob saidughhhh, sooo pretty....

    6 foot-ish
    naturally blond hair with brown streaks
    brownish blue eyes
    hockey team, therefore...hockey butt icon_wink.gif
    made our highschool uniform actually look good
    wasn't the typical cocky athlete


    soooo pretty (i repeat)

    he added me to facebook a few months ago, why, i have no idea, since we never said a word to eachother. oh well, lets me admire since he loves shirtless pics, yay!



    Feel free to share!





    I was debating it.....but i feel like itd be unethical to post someone elses pics on here.....is it? ...??
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    Apr 26, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    Yes its unethical...
    I found the facebook of my first crush the other day but no idea what is up with him. I didnt know him very well
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    Apr 26, 2011 5:55 AM GMT
    my first crush was freshmen year of high school and it was on the varsity qb my best friends older brother. 6'1" about 205 and just hot all around. he had blond hair and brown eyes also. turned out he got married and has 4 kids. i was 15 and he was 18 and did i say hot also lol lol.
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    Apr 26, 2011 6:01 AM GMT
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    We had a falling out about 5 months after I met him and I didn't know he was gay until afterwards.

    Damn shame.
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    Apr 26, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    He IS a beautiful swimmer, keeps even his arms shaved, muscular but not built, perfect full tan, aquamarine eyes, pretty smile, masculine face, quiet but popular and a partier, and thus untouchable. Same grade.
    Thats okay though, my fb is roughly the same only with a 21yr old's handsome added on top.

    I am usually spot on when I get a gay vibe, but usually I'm not crushing so I have never been able to feel sure about the vibes I get from him. While I havn't been close enough to his best friend to ask for a definite answer, it is current that he is straight, and plans to ask one of the most naturally beautiful girls in the senior class to prom. That okay with me, I'm a fan of beautiful babies. Id do her too.
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    Apr 26, 2011 7:55 AM GMT
    Tall, korean, and perfect. icon_redface.gif
  • alphatop

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    Apr 26, 2011 8:01 AM GMT
    My first crush is my present best friend. We are same age, same height, but different personalities. We know each other since we were born (used to live in the same area), and he was my first crush. He had a crush on me as well, but I guess that is normal when you are kid. Later, however, he turned out str8. Nowadays, he have a gf, but we are still best friends. Like brothers. He means a world to me.
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    Apr 26, 2011 8:13 AM GMT
    Mine was when I was 15. Sam played footy and was in the year above me. He had dark brown eyes and brown hair. He is a physio now and his boyfriend is a mate of mine. Shame I had no clue he was gay, until last year, when my mate introduced his new boyfriend.
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    Apr 26, 2011 8:25 AM GMT
    I was a freshman in college he was 6' 2" stocky country guy. He lived with my best friend in an apartment. I had a crush on him for a yr. He used to drop hints he was gay but I was dumb. He kinda disappeared after my buddy outted him to his fire dept.
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    Apr 26, 2011 8:26 AM GMT
    First crush was probably with guy in my 4th grade class. We later went to the same high school and took many of the same classes - was definitely hard to get much work done icon_wink.gif He's straight and looked exactly like Hugh Dancy. He's now kinda fat but still breath-taking, damn it. lol

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    Apr 26, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    snowboarder saidYes its unethical...
    I found the facebook of my first crush the other day but no idea what is up with him. I didnt know him very well


    Can we see what he looks like?