Being a Good Bottom, For Intermediates

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    Apr 26, 2011 4:29 AM GMT
    There are a few things that you should know going into this “article”. 1. You should know what you have to do to be clean. 2. You should know what type of lube works well for you. 3. You should know how to have sex with the average guy with no problem. Got that covered, good let’s get down to business.

    So you been having sex with guys up to the average size, 6”-7”, and been enjoying it, but you know there are bigger fish to catch. This does not mean you are a size queen, and there is nothing wrong with that if you are. Let’s face the facts, sometime a bigger dick just feels better for some guys, and some guys like the average size or smaller. To each their own and lets leave it at that.

    Now that we are ready to have fun with the bigger guys there are a few simple rules to follow that go for any guy no matter his size. 1. Be comfortable and relaxed with him. 2. Make sure he knows what he is doing, bigger guys usually do but if not can be hard (usually older guys are a good bet.) 3. Know what position works best for you to start out in. 4. Breath out slowly as he pushes in, relax, let him know when you are ready and have fun.

    Then there comes the gamble and figuring out what you like. There are 3 main categories of guys 1.Thick, 2.Long, and 3.Thick and Long. 1. Some guys like the thick guys, they love feeling their holes being stretched and opened by a big cock being shoved into their ass. 2. Other guys like (me) feeling a cock deep inside them, hitting a spot that makes them what to cum and takes them to heaven. 3. Can’t forget the guys who want to feel their hole stretched while also feeling that cock fill every inch of their ass. How do you know what you are going to like, well to be honest, you really can’t unless u play with dildos. There is nothing wrong with playing with each type of guy until you find what you like and take it from there.

    Now the first time you do this, there will be some pain involved most likely. You ass will be stretched and dealing with new sensations. If there is a little blood the next day in your stool, don’t go crazy this is ok and will probably be gone by the next time you use the bathroom. Let you ass relax a day or two before you have sex again so it can heal, the more often you have sex with larger guys the more you ass will be used to the sensations and the blood and wait period will go away. The first time you may not be able to go for very long and if you are not having a good time you should stop. Listen to your body.

    Over time and with multiple partners you will find the range that you know makes you feel good and how you work best. Take for example me, I like longer guys who are average or below average thickness. I’m a fan of water based jelly lube. I find riding a guy is the best way for me to start and once I’m used to them can fuck in any position but find missionary and doggie the easiest to make me cum. None of these are set rules but know they work best for me. Now I have found that I can have great sex with any guy of any size but longer guys give me body shaking orgasms. Of course the best sex was with the guys I was in a meaningful relationship with who I trusted and could bareback with. But until you are in a committed relationship, “Don’t be silly, wrap his Willy!”
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    Apr 26, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    You know you might be a sex addict if you post a "tl; dr" thread about how to take several dicks up your ass. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 26, 2011 5:13 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou know you might be a sex addict if you post a "tl; dr" thread about how to take several dicks up your ass. icon_lol.gif


    Is that what it was about? I got halfway into the second paragraph before thinking "tl;dr" and went straight to the following comments.
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    Apr 26, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
    tl;dr

    FACE DOWN, ASS UP.

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    Apr 26, 2011 5:26 AM GMT
    First off, 6-7 inches is not the average. Regardless of everyone thinking that 7 inches is the average penis, it's 5-6 inches.
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    Apr 26, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    onexepshyn saidFirst off, 6-7 inches is not the average. Regardless of everyone thinking that 7 inches is the average penis, it's 5-6 inches.


    That's just something people with small dicks say to feel better about themselves. In my experience, average is about 6 to 7.
  • Timbales

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    Apr 26, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    learn how to squeeze and release in fairly rapid succession when a guy is inside you, I find they like that
  • rnch

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    Apr 26, 2011 2:03 PM GMT
    onexepshyn saidFirst off, 6-7 inches is not the average. Regardless of everyone thinking that 7 inches is the average penis, it's 5-6 inches.



    yup!

    in spite of what the size queens will tell you.
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    Apr 26, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
    threads or articles like these define sex as a consumer experience. it's not "make sure you are comfortable with someone, and then do whatever works for the 2 of you" it's more "your tastes my vary, so sample until you find the right size for you, oh, and learn to tolerate the guy it's attached to" ...it's basically coaching bottoms on how to view their boyfriends as human dildos, because...um...is there something wrong with dildos? what if you fall in love with someone who isn't your imaginary ideal?

    just more consumerism.....in many ways, it's self oppression....
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    Apr 26, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    Timbales saidlearn how to squeeze and release in fairly rapid succession when a guy is inside you, I find they like that


    Uhhhh yeah.

    I do find there are just some positions where it's uncomfortable (for him) for me to go completely balls-deep and really grind it in. I don't think there's any way of getting over that, everyone's physiology is going to be subtley different and if something is uncomfortable or hurts it's a sign to change it up. I don't agree with the 'push past the pain' philosophy - that just leads to internal injuries!
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    Apr 26, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    That whole blood section just turns me right off the idea of ever bottoming again. Even just reading it makes me want to sit here on out forever on a pillow or angel farts.
  • rangeli

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    Apr 29, 2011 4:15 AM GMT
    i have been fucked by both a long cock(yes 9 inches), and by a very thick one.
    i think i was more afraid of thr thicker one hurting me, as it was much harder to get in me. i am sooooootight. i must say that the feeling of being stretched was like no other