ex's name tattooed

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    Apr 26, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    my boyfriend has his ex's name tattooed on his hip n everytime i see it i get a lil jealous...i feel as if he has not gotten over his ex yet n wen i asked him about it he said you would get it removed soon but he hasnt done so yet! N when i ask him about it he says he didnt have the time...i feel as if im with someone elses guy everytime i see the tattoo. What do i do about it?
  • rnch

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    Apr 26, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    durn fool he was!
  • Timbales

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    Apr 26, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    ask him to keep it covered with a big band-aid until he can get it removed
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    Apr 26, 2011 3:14 PM GMT
    hellfire11 saidWhat do i do about it?
    Learn to be less insecure.
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    Apr 26, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    hellfire11 saidWhat do i do about it?
    Learn to be less insecure.


    And then, get over it. It's ink on skin....BFD !! What you should feel is sorry for the dumb ass for doing it in the first place!!
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    Apr 26, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    Let it be. I have a tattoo of my ex partner's zodiac sign on my body and I intend to keep forever. I don't feel compelled to explain the tattoo to other people unless I'm asked. Have you asked why your bf had his ex bf's name tattood on his hip? I had my tattoo for an extremely significant reason, and it's possible that your bf had a good reason for doing so as well.
  • rnch

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    Apr 26, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    enjoy each other's bodies with the lights out until you "get over" this insecure stupidity of yours.



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  • Import

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    Apr 26, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    get a razor and cut it off while hes sleeping.
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    Apr 26, 2011 7:01 PM GMT
    Import saidget a razor and cut it off while hes sleeping.



    Some of you are so quick to jump to using violence. It is so unnecessary when a little bit of acid will do the trick.
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    Apr 26, 2011 7:04 PM GMT
    rnch saiddurn fool he was!


    yea, must be a fool to have a name of a lover on skin. I have a friend having his ex girlfriend named as "Thuy" tattooed on his left chest, and recently he's going out with a new girl named as "Thu" so he tatooed a cross over the "Y" in "Thuy". Quick fix but he doesn't seem to learn lol.
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    Apr 26, 2011 7:05 PM GMT
    LOL, I would never date anybody stupid enough to get someone's name tatooed on them!

    Unless it was a family member, or a friend who died, because those are understandable.
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    Apr 26, 2011 7:11 PM GMT
    hellfire11 saidi feel as if im with someone elses guy everytime i see the tattoo. What do i do about it?


    In a way, you are. He's been branded by his ex. If it bothers you that much, ask him to cover it.

    hellfire11 saidi feel as if he has not gotten over his ex yet n wen i asked him about it he said you would get it removed soon but he hasnt done so yet!


    Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns. Not having time sounds like a cop out. I don't think he's being honest with you about not getting his tattoo removed.
    Maybe he's not over his ex. Maybe he just likes the tattoo and doesn't want to lose it even though he's over the ex. Maybe he's afraid of the tattoo removal. Maybe he doesn't want to spend the money to remove the tattoo.
    If the two of you aren't able to talk openly about your insecurities and his issues about his tattoo then maybe it's time to move on. You can't force him to remove his tattoo if he's not willing.
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    Apr 26, 2011 8:14 PM GMT
    I was stupid once and got my ex's name tattooed on myself. I knew that dating people would be very hard with this on my body. I was only casually involved with one person that actually saw it.

    I got that damn covered up, and I'm very glad I did. I will never get a lover's name tattooed again on me.
  • Webster666

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    Apr 26, 2011 8:51 PM GMT
    Jealousy is a mental illness.
    You will drive him away because he won't be able to put up with your petty nonsense.

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    Apr 27, 2011 12:02 AM GMT
    Tattoos are just plain ugly. icon_cool.gif
  • Jayjames

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    Apr 27, 2011 12:12 AM GMT
    Iceblink said
    Import saidget a razor and cut it off while hes sleeping.



    Some of you are so quick to jump to using violence. It is so unnecessary when a little bit of acid will do the trick.



    Bahahaha....... Bless
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    Apr 27, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    It was a silly thing he had done, to get another's name put on him. yet your insecurities are yours, and not his. Even if he never had it removed, it would make no diffrence, and you will still have to deal with your insecurities, thats a real killer for a relasionship.
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    Apr 27, 2011 12:34 AM GMT
    Its expensive to get it removed, maybe he doesn't want to spend the money...
  • Timbales

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    Apr 27, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    it's not that expensive to have it altered
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    Apr 27, 2011 12:52 AM GMT
    I pity the fool.