being in rush in love is a mistake...???

  • kemoze

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    Apr 26, 2011 5:41 PM GMT
    hi guys .. i wont be long, but every day when i get back from a long working day, i open my cam and then go to check forums and read interesting topics on realjock, and when someone im me i chat with him, then oneday some guy talked to me...actually this was same like a dream for me. he was so cultured, sensitive, he is not only into sex, he likes reading, i thought i have found the one i am looking for every day.. i felt like i am in love even we spoked about only one hour.....
    anyway .. i was sending him messages saying hay i love you.. i miss you . and this stuff ...
    but he said ... you are wrong , you cant love me. you barely know me . and more distance between us ,,
    so, is it a mistake to tell someone you love him from the first time?
    but really that what i felt after talking to him...... anyway i choosed to not talk to him again...??
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    Apr 26, 2011 8:01 PM GMT
    YES.

    You can't fall in love after chatting for one hour online. That's sounding a little cray cray. icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 26, 2011 8:04 PM GMT
    I agree with the guy, you can't be in love with him before you know him. You're infatuated and in some kind of rush to be in love. Relax. Take your time getting to know the other guy.
    Taking time to get to know the other guy is a wonderful adventure. I don't want you to miss it because your in a rush to fall in love.
    You might scare away a guy that is great for you.
    You might miss the signs that a guy is bad for you if you don't take the time to get to know him.
  • kemoze

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    Apr 27, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    Ermine saidI agree with the guy, you can't be in love with him before you know him. You're infatuated and in some kind of rush to be in love. Relax. Take your time getting to know the other guy.
    Taking time to get to know the other guy is a wonderful adventure. I don't want you to miss it because your in a rush to fall in love.
    You might scare away a guy that is great for you.
    You might miss the signs that a guy is bad for you if you don't take the time to get to know him.

    Actually i feel ashamed from myselficon_redface.gifoops:.. how could i do such a stupid mistakeicon_cry.gif and tell someone from the first time i meet .. that i love him.icon_eek.gif
    oh god... yeah man you are right i scared him ,,
    as the first guy here said ,, it sounds crazy...icon_confused.gif
    i will never do this again... i have to take my time and give him also the chance..
    thak you for your advice guys .. really it works...icon_wink.gif