Have you ever fallen for a guy too quickly?

  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 27, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    Are gay men like this? When another guy starts to show you attention, do you start to feel all warm inside and start having thoughts of 'happily ever after' ? 105.gif
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    Apr 27, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    malefeet saidAre gay men like this? When another guy starts to show you attention, do you start to feel all warm inside and start having thoughts of 'happily ever after' ? 105.gif


    The only man who ever made me feel like that is benjamin franklin. I got my phone today btw. so you can expect the documents very soon. icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 27, 2011 4:12 PM GMT
    When another guy starts to show me affection, I assume he wants to get in my pants.
    If he's hot, I let him. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 27, 2011 4:13 PM GMT
    Always.
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    Apr 27, 2011 4:17 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    malefeet saidAre gay men like this? When another guy starts to show you attention, do you start to feel all warm inside and start having thoughts of 'happily ever after' ? 105.gif


    The only man who ever made me feel like that is benjamin franklin. I got my phone today btw. so you can expect the documents very soon. icon_cool.gif



    Thanks...upon delivery of the documents you will receive the following encoded message: "The forests of Timber sure have changed" and you will need to reply; "But the owls are still around". Smiley_shades-and-phone.gif
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    Apr 27, 2011 4:18 PM GMT
    Who hasn't? It's infatuation, and it's completely natural (and a lot of fun).

    Love is something different, though. It can build on infatuation, or come at you from a completely different direction (like friendship).
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    Apr 27, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    dekiruman said
    malefeet saidAre gay men like this? When another guy starts to show you attention, do you start to feel all warm inside and start having thoughts of 'happily ever after' ? 105.gif


    The only man who ever made me feel like that is benjamin franklin. I got my phone today btw. so you can expect the documents very soon. icon_cool.gif



    Thanks...upon delivery of the documents you will receive the following encoded message: "The forests of Timber sure have changed" and you will need to reply; "But the owls are still around". Smiley_shades-and-phone.gif
    Then you will reply: "who?" icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 27, 2011 4:23 PM GMT

    whenever someone is super into me, i assume it's sexual and it almost always is. and the "new" of sex wears off fast, so generally i'd rather stay focused in other areas of my life than bother with the distraction.

    Occasionally, someone will slip past my radar or not approach in a obviously just sex manner and i'll think we could be compatible. i've dated a few of those guys. the pain of the crash from coming down off infatuation is so great for me that i avoid it like i avoid other hard drugs.

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    Apr 27, 2011 4:27 PM GMT
    showme saidWho hasn't? It's infatuation, and it's completely natural (and a lot of fun).

    Love is something different, though. It can build on infatuation, or come at you from a completely different direction (like friendship).


    I definitely agree here we all go through that initial phase of infatuation. Whether or not it last is another story and can lead to some happy endings.
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    Apr 27, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    showme saidWho hasn't? It's infatuation, and it's completely natural (and a lot of fun).

    Love is something different, though. It can build on infatuation, or come at you from a completely different direction (like friendship).

    I agree with this, it's why I always say there are so many different variations of "love".
    It can even be obsessive. Doesn't mean it's all healthy... but you know, some people can't help their feelings.
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    Apr 27, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    Yup! But I had an AMAZING time last week being face to face w/ the guy, and even when I tried not to have feelings they kept building. We just had a really great connection.. and yeah the sex was hot (Before Paul makes a comment about connection). icon_razz.gif I'm not at the Happily ever after yet...but I can hope for a great time when I move closer.
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    Apr 27, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    UGH! Yes! And I absolutely hate it but luckily it's a steep learning curve. I'm usually smart about other aspects in my life, but I can be so foolish and naive when it comes to relationships.
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    Apr 27, 2011 6:47 PM GMT
    It's only too quickly if you fall for a guy who's wrong for you.

    Yes I have. But I've also run at that same pace with a guy who was great boyfriend and things were great.
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    Apr 27, 2011 7:00 PM GMT
    malefeet saidAre gay men like this? When another guy starts to show you attention, do you start to feel all warm inside and start having thoughts of 'happily ever after' ? 105.gif


    yes. it happened not long ago icon_biggrin.gif. i think i told you that story icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
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    yeah, and told myself not to...*sigh*...
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    Apr 28, 2011 12:32 AM GMT
    yes.
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    Apr 28, 2011 2:22 AM GMT
    only i am attracted to them otherwise it'll just be "oh, well, thats cool."
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    Apr 28, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
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    Thanks...upon delivery of the documents you will receive the following encoded message: "The forests of Timber sure have changed" and you will need to reply; "But the owls are still around". Smiley_shades-and-phone.gif


    HOLY SHIT people Malefeet just referenced FF8 and no one peeped. What the hell!!! icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    Only If I find them attractive. Heres the thing thought, I like guys who don't show much attention or affection... I think its sexy icon_redface.gif is that weird?
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    Apr 28, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    malefeet saidAre gay men like this? When another guy starts to show you attention, do you start to feel all warm inside and start having thoughts of 'happily ever after' ? 105.gif



    One of the greatest attributes of a "fool in love" is that after having fall for love that many times he learns to appreciate every steps he makes, and as he gets up from every fall he quickly learns to balance his steps and strides back to it. Anyone person who have tripped me as I journey my way to Love are the ones who eventually help me find my way back to myself!!!


    Leandro ♥
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    Apr 28, 2011 3:18 AM GMT
    I did and it hurt like hell when things didn't go the way I wanted them to. So now proceed with caution icon_smile.gif
  • nubScotty

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    Apr 28, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    Always the first to fall, despite always telling myself to not get attached to quickly. Of course I always end up doing again, just like I am right now *le sigh* icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    Yeah I do that a lot
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    Apr 28, 2011 3:24 AM GMT
    haha, i can.. and did in my last "thing" i had.. not even sure what to call it. not "fall" but got excited with the idea of what could happen.. fml.
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    Apr 28, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    The moment anyone sends me an email or smiles at me, I am already planning our wedding, the names of our dogs (fuck cats!!), and I follow the person around, read their emails, tap their phone, cut their hair while they're sleeping, and then I start to dress like them and act like them, and then I kill them and steal their personality... out of love.

    And that's just the first date!