Taken advantage of by guy? what should I do?

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    Apr 27, 2011 9:53 PM GMT
    So this bi guy at my school kept beggin me to hangout with him and his friends so I do a couple times and things went well. After that I never heard from him again but he seemed like a nice guy and would make a good friend (since he's gay and one of the few I'm out to I thought it would be good to bond with him), so I would nicely ask him to hangout and he always blew me off. One night out of nowhere he's like fine come over so I did and he pushed me on the bed and started makin out with me and pulled my pants down. He's like I never wanted a friendship with u like u wanted, I only asked u to hangout w/ me and my friends that one time to get in your pants but it was an impossible booty call so I said the hell with you, But now I finally got what I want cuz i always do. He sarcastically laughed then walked away.

    What should I say to him or how should i handle it?
  • Webster666

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    Apr 27, 2011 10:27 PM GMT
    Don't you deserve better than this ??
    Get him out of your life.
    If you see him at school, go ahead and say hi, but keep right on walking.
  • shiningstar

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    Apr 29, 2011 6:55 AM GMT
    just leave him,bullshit
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    Apr 29, 2011 7:10 AM GMT
    You don't want people like that around you. It will cause unnecessary drama. He obviously didn't want to hang with you for your personality. He wanted your body which means, he didn't even take the chance to really get to know you. Be careful of people like that. Good luck. =D
  • trl_

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    Apr 29, 2011 7:15 AM GMT
    what a f____king d bag!?!

    punch him.
  • suedeheadscot

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    Apr 29, 2011 7:35 AM GMT
    Learn not to give it out so much and think about what you really want (its something I still, at the ripe old age of 38, occasionally have to re-learn).

    Sorry he hurts you but now is the time to extend your social circle and get out there and work on the friendships you already have. Go get 'em!!
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    Apr 29, 2011 8:03 AM GMT
    well the problem with people like him is he truly does believe he always gets what he wants. What he needs to get is what he deserves. Call him out on it and give the guy hell. If you stay quiet he'll never learn his lesson and he'll do it to other guys.
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    Apr 29, 2011 8:29 AM GMT
    ...




    Making friends is hard work.
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    Apr 29, 2011 8:35 AM GMT
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    i kid, i kid.

    sort of.
  • drypin

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    Apr 29, 2011 8:43 AM GMT
    Understand that when people "blow you off", as you said, it means they aren't interested in you. These people are not the ones you should spend your time trying to get to know better. These are the opposite kind of people. These are the ones you should politely (or not so politely) decline further contact with.

    He blew you off over and over and you still repeatedly asked him to hangout. Don't do that.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Apr 29, 2011 9:44 AM GMT
    This guys sounds like an ASS. Ditch his ass! You don't need people like that in your life!
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:29 AM GMT
    Seriously, dude? There is nothing you can do. He DID get what he wanted because you chased after him (yes, you did). Had you not called him back multiple times then you would've avoided getting played, which is exactly what happened here. "Sweet Dreams are Made of These" should be playing in your head right now. One particular verse if you know the song well. LOL.

    Also how the hell is he bi AND gay? Am I the only one who caught that?

    Fuck it, dude. Live and learn. Don't act like a victim in this case. If you truly didn't want something to happen then when he "threw you down on the bed" you should've manned up and been like "no". Instead you went with the flow and now are stuck holding the bill while Player gets bragging rights. You wanted it as much as he did. You were an easy mark. He knew this and moved on once he got what he wanted.

    At least he was honest about his intentions.

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    Apr 30, 2011 7:17 AM GMT
    He's sick. Move on.
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    Apr 30, 2011 7:21 AM GMT
    FunCollegeDude saidSo this bi guy at my school kept beggin me to hangout with him and his friends so I do a couple times and things went well. After that I never heard from him again but he seemed like a nice guy and would make a good friend (since he's gay and one of the few I'm out to I thought it would be good to bond with him), so I would nicely ask him to hangout and he always blew me off. One night out of nowhere he's like fine come over so I did and he pushed me on the bed and started makin out with me and pulled my pants down. He's like I never wanted a friendship with u like u wanted, I only asked u to hangout w/ me and my friends that one time to get in your pants but it was an impossible booty call so I said the hell with you, But now I finally got what I want cuz i always do. He sarcastically laughed then walked away.

    What should I say to him or how should i handle it?


    Is this the same guy you mentioned in this thread? http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1513382/

    If so you need to start paying attention to the advice that you are getting.

    What should you say to him? The opportunity to say anything has passed. Quit obsessing about him . Move on.

    How should you handle it? Pay closer attention to the advice you are getting and learn from it.
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    Apr 30, 2011 5:27 PM GMT
    In a hopothetical situation (which by definition means it's not real so I won't be held responsible for giving advice, hush hush), I would have punched his face real hard and said "You always get what you want? Now did you also want this? THAT'S what you get for fucking with me and treating people like shit. Look who has now got what he doesn't want." You sarcastically laugh and walk away. hahahaicon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 5:35 PM GMT
    wow. icon_eek.gif love yourself enough to rid this guy from your life. no one deserves to be treated like that. he'll pay his price.
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    Apr 30, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    maybe this was his way of getting you to leave him alone?

    it was an asshole move on his part.