Dustin (aka) Spencer from Real World outed tonight!!!

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    Apr 28, 2011 3:12 AM GMT
    So I was watching the Real World episode tonight when the roommates find out that Dustin was in gay porn previously on Fratpad. They find out his side of the story, but continue to judge him. To me this just shows signs of how people really react to someone who is gay or a "straight" guy doing gay acts. I feel bad for him because no one really gave him the benefit of the doubt that yeah he did do gay porn, but he may be a changed person now. So my question to everyone..... 1. How would you react if you dated a guy who lied to you about doing porn? 2. would your views of him change if he did straight porn? 3. Does someones past really influence your views of them in the present?

    My answers... 1. i would be upset if someone lied to me..its just a trust issue. Trust is very much key to me and hard to regain once lost. Because they did porn...i am undecided. honestly, I judge people for who they are. 2. no views would change because of either type of porn done. 3. someones past does not influence my perception of them in the present. the past is the past and people can change for the better and worse. Leave the past behind you and keep moving forward. Take people for who they are and not for what they have done in the past....unless this is a habitual thing that they continue to do..

    So now your turn....
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    Apr 28, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    Who cares what other people think?
    BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS AND DECISIONS.



    Btw, any pics/ clips from his porn past? :wicked:
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    Apr 28, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidWho cares what other people think?
    BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS AND DECISIONS.



    Btw, any pics/ clips from his porn past? :wicked:


    Yep.

    http://thesword.com/real-worlds-dustin-zito-a-k-a-spencer-his-gay-porn-fratmen-sex-tapes-at-the-fratpad.html
  • eddieross69

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    Apr 28, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    I believe this is him from Fratpad. He's so much cuter now.
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    Apr 28, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
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    the videos on that link are disturbing
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    Apr 28, 2011 6:06 AM GMT
    The past definitely affects the present because the present would not exist without the past. You can't just pretend something did or didn't happen because that would affect the way a person's personality develops into the present.

    It's like saying, what it you didn't like guys? Would you still really be you, or not?
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    Apr 28, 2011 7:08 AM GMT
    He definitely has a nice body, and a nice long thick cock...
    (adjusting my crotch)
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    Apr 28, 2011 7:15 AM GMT
    The Sword had some screen caps of him getting fucked- but fratpad threatened to sue them.... icon_confused.gif I knew I should have saved them.....
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    Apr 28, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    WOW.................icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    I thought this was old news icon_razz.gif

    1. How would you react if you dated a guy who lied to you about doing porn?

    Pissed off. I'm fine if the subject never came up, but if it did and he said he never did porn, then I'd be mad. There's no need to lie. I wouldn't judge.

    2. would your views of him change if he did straight porn?
    No. You didn't mention his sexuality icon_razz.gif And even if you did, it's his life. As long as he's STD free, he doesn't lie, and stay monogamous, it's all good.

    3. Does someones past really influence your views of them in the present?
    The past is the past. What I'd be concerned with is how they act in the present and especially how it affects us in the future. I'll definitely constantly think about it, though.
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    Apr 28, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    I had my suspicions. My gaydar doesn't lie.
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    Apr 28, 2011 8:43 PM GMT
    skykey said
    He's straight. People will do anything for money, when they're desperate. If you read his background, you could see why he did it. And I know a straight guy, with a wife, a kid, and another on the way, that's doing gay porn right now. That doesn't mean that he's gay, it just that he needs a lot this instant. Besides gay porn actors get paid more money than straight porn or an job at a fast food joint.


    Which is why so much commercial gay porn sucks so badly. icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
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    Chattman91 saidI had my suspicions. My gaydar doesn't lie.


    He's straight. People will do anything for money, when they're desperate. If you read his background, you could see why he did it. And I know a straight guy, with a wife, a kid, and another on the way, that's doing gay porn right now. That doesn't mean that he's gay, it just that he needs a lot this instant. Besides gay porn actors get paid more money than straight porn or an job at a fast food joint.


    This is the biggest bullshit I have ever heard.

    "Straight" actors, or gay porn actors for that matter, arent making millions of dollars here to take a dick up their ass. My god, they may make more money, but they are still being paid like shit. Your "straight" friend with the wife and kids that is doing gay porn is a fucking closet case, nothing else. He is using the money as justification to do the damn porn. When there is a will, there is a way, I know people who found jobs in this recession without relying on porn to do so.
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    Apr 28, 2011 8:51 PM GMT
    1. I would dump him if I found out he lied. Has nothing to do with what he lied about though... the fact he lied does it for me.

    2. hmm... I would have to say that if I found out right out of the blue that he does porn in general I would most likely dump him... straight, gay, bi porn.. w/e... I believe (as in, my opinion not yours) in saving your body for the person you are currenlty in a relationship with.
    why? Because once again I believe (As in my opinion, not yours), that if someone is having sex with other men, then they are tired of their partner's body... which shows that they value sex and sex only... which shows that they only loved their partner because of their body and not their personality. So, long story short, I would dump him if I found out he did any kind of porn.

    3. Someone's past does influence my view on them in the present BUT I am will change my view on them if they show me that they have changed.
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    Apr 28, 2011 8:53 PM GMT
    skykey said
    He's straight. People will do anything for money, when they're desperate. If you read his background, you could see why he did it. And I know a straight guy, with a wife, a kid, and another on the way, that's doing gay porn right now. That doesn't mean that he's gay, it just that he needs a lot this instant. Besides gay porn actors get paid more money than straight porn or an job at a fast food joint.



    Ahahahahahahaha.
    Having a wife and kids is not proof that someone is heterosexual. There are a few guys here on RJ that could tell you that from experience.

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    Apr 28, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    Am I naive?
    How often does "So have you ever done any porn?" come up in conversation?

    Anyway, I can understand it if a guy I'm dating doesn't want me to look up videos of him fucking someone else. Especially if he doesn't think of it as his brightest moment.
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    Apr 28, 2011 8:59 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    This is the biggest bullshit I have ever heard.
    "Straight" actors, or gay porn actors for that matter, arent making millions of dollars here to take a dick up their ass. My god, they may make more money, but they are still being paid like shit. Your "straight" friend with the wife and kids that is doing gay porn is a fucking closet case, nothing else. He is using the money as justification to do the damn porn. When there is a will, there is a way, I know people who found jobs in this recession without relying on porn to do so.


    I read that Corbin Fisher pays around $1000-4000 per scene- depending on what you're doing... as does Randy Blue and that Titan Men pays even more. icon_eek.gif

    Corbin Fisher exclusives also get health benefits. icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
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    Chainers said
    This is the biggest bullshit I have ever heard.
    "Straight" actors, or gay porn actors for that matter, arent making millions of dollars here to take a dick up their ass. My god, they may make more money, but they are still being paid like shit. Your "straight" friend with the wife and kids that is doing gay porn is a fucking closet case, nothing else. He is using the money as justification to do the damn porn. When there is a will, there is a way, I know people who found jobs in this recession without relying on porn to do so.


    I read that Corbin Fisher pays around $1000-4000 per scene- depending on what you're doing... as does Randy Blue and that Titan Men pays even more. icon_eek.gif

    Corbin Fisher exclusives also get health benefits. icon_eek.gif


    Yea thats great, they also do things like a 90 day exclusion, so you can only really do one movie every 90 days. To top that off, its not under the table, you are an independent contractor, so you pay a portion of that as income taxes to the government, plus you have to pay 15% of it to SS and medicare wages. And that is if you are considered to be a very hot guy to do the scene.

    Break it down, it ends up being like 9 bucks an hour to work in porn, is that really that lucrative to you?
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    Apr 28, 2011 9:03 PM GMT
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    skykey said
    He's straight. People will do anything for money, when they're desperate. If you read his background, you could see why he did it. And I know a straight guy, with a wife, a kid, and another on the way, that's doing gay porn right now. That doesn't mean that he's gay, it just that he needs a lot this instant. Besides gay porn actors get paid more money than straight porn or an job at a fast food joint.



    Ahahahahahahaha.
    Having a wife and kids is not proof that someone is heterosexual. There are a few guys here on RJ that could tell you that from experience.



    True. But remember that Kinsey scale thread from a few days back? There are plenty of guys who are primarily straight but have a touch of the gay, maybe 2s or even 1s on the scale. (Like many of us are very largely gay with a small touch of straightishness, but still identify as gay.) They can function in gay sex but they aren't really gay. I do actually believe that there are a significant number of these guys doing commercial gay porn. Which is why it sucks so badly.

    I tag myself as a 5 on the Kinsey scale, but if I attempted straight porn, whew, what a disaster that would be.icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 9:05 PM GMT
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    Chainers said
    This is the biggest bullshit I have ever heard.
    "Straight" actors, or gay porn actors for that matter, arent making millions of dollars here to take a dick up their ass. My god, they may make more money, but they are still being paid like shit. Your "straight" friend with the wife and kids that is doing gay porn is a fucking closet case, nothing else. He is using the money as justification to do the damn porn. When there is a will, there is a way, I know people who found jobs in this recession without relying on porn to do so.


    I read that Corbin Fisher pays around $1000-4000 per scene- depending on what you're doing... as does Randy Blue and that Titan Men pays even more. icon_eek.gif

    Corbin Fisher exclusives also get health benefits. icon_eek.gif


    Health benefits... like AIDS?

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    If people don't get that picture, I'm gonna sound like a complete ass. But people who don't understand humor or are too PC to face reality think that anyway icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 28, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
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    Ermine said
    skykey said
    He's straight. People will do anything for money, when they're desperate. If you read his background, you could see why he did it. And I know a straight guy, with a wife, a kid, and another on the way, that's doing gay porn right now. That doesn't mean that he's gay, it just that he needs a lot this instant. Besides gay porn actors get paid more money than straight porn or an job at a fast food joint.



    Ahahahahahahaha.
    Having a wife and kids is not proof that someone is heterosexual. There are a few guys here on RJ that could tell you that from experience.



    True. But remember that Kinsey scale thread from a few days back? There are plenty of guys who are primarily straight but have a touch of the gay, maybe 2s or even 1s on the scale. (Like many of us are very largely gay with a small touch of straightishness, but still identify as gay.) They can function in gay sex but they aren't really gay. I do actually believe that there are a significant number of these guys doing commercial gay porn. Which is why it sucks so badly.

    I tag myself as a 5 on the Kinsey scale, but if I attempted straight porn, whew, what a disaster that would be.icon_wink.gif


    I think the Kinsey scale is a crock of shit, myself. These guys are Bi, or in the closet, and are using excuses like this to justify their behavior.
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    Apr 28, 2011 9:12 PM GMT
    I guess I'm missing something since I don't find that guy humping the sheets in a speedo all that boner-inducing.

    It's his business what he has or hasn't done.

    He had to know it would surface though when he signed on to the Real World.
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    Apr 28, 2011 9:21 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Yea thats great, they also do things like a 90 day exclusion, so you can only really do one movie every 90 days. To top that off, its not under the table, you are an independent contractor, so you pay a portion of that as income taxes to the government, plus you have to pay 15% of it to SS and medicare wages. And that is if you are considered to be a very hot guy to do the scene.

    Break it down, it ends up being like 9 bucks an hour to work in porn, is that really that lucrative to you?


    Oh here it is- The mega eye roll:
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    -Wait that was just a regular one- I guess you're not worth the trouble.
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    Apr 28, 2011 9:21 PM GMT
    skykey said
    Chainers said
    A1EX said
    Chainers said
    This is the biggest bullshit I have ever heard.
    "Straight" actors, or gay porn actors for that matter, arent making millions of dollars here to take a dick up their ass. My god, they may make more money, but they are still being paid like shit. Your "straight" friend with the wife and kids that is doing gay porn is a fucking closet case, nothing else. He is using the money as justification to do the damn porn. When there is a will, there is a way, I know people who found jobs in this recession without relying on porn to do so.


    I read that Corbin Fisher pays around $1000-4000 per scene- depending on what you're doing... as does Randy Blue and that Titan Men pays even more. icon_eek.gif

    Corbin Fisher exclusives also get health benefits. icon_eek.gif


    Yea thats great, they also do things like a 90 day exclusion, so you can only really do one movie every 90 days. To top that off, its not under the table, you are an independent contractor, so you pay a portion of that as income taxes to the government, plus you have to pay 15% of it to SS and medicare wages. And that is if you are considered to be a very hot guy to do the scene.

    Break it down, it ends up being like 9 bucks an hour to work in porn, is that really that lucrative to you?



    I don't want to get in a heated debate with you. And I respect your opinion. But your statement that sex is all about getting off and likewise that sexuality is about sex is total drivel . Sexuality is about which biological and sociological sex that you want to have a romantic relantionship with, not the gender you have meaningless sex with. So by that logic, a male can have sex with another male and still be consider straight.


    I remember one guy I met online a while back ago. He was smoking hot, an old college football player, and he was curious to experiment with me and he identified as straight. We hung out a couple of times, we fooled around once, he remained flaccid. We wrote it off to nerves. We hung out again, I started giving him head, and he still remained flaccid.

    We got up, got dressed, I said "well man, I think your straight" and he said "yea, I think so too."

    Guys can separate sex and emotion, I get that, but guys who are "straight" wont have sex with another man. You can call it desperation, dominance, getting paid, or whatever you feel like, but at the end of the day they are Bi, not straight. I know plenty of gay men who do not want to have a relationship with another man, but want to have strings of meaningless sex, what are they? A-sexual?

    Sexuality is about (gasp) sex. Considering it is the first part of the word sex is important to that classification. Anything else is pure denial.