Have you ever said that ( thank you god, i am gay? )

  • kemoze

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    Apr 29, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    sometimes... i think almost of time, i feel like its ok, gay life has a lot pleasure to give to me, especially when i meet someone who is so honest and funny,,,
    so gays have you ever felt happy that you are gay????icon_question.gif
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    Apr 29, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    hmmm....i've never thanked God for being gay, just like i never thanked him for having brown hair


    BUT

    i'm eternally grateful that gay sex doesn't isn't reproductive, because i'd have kids with my ex and i'd be the bad disciplinarian parent they hated and never wanted to be with. i see this with straight people all the time. one parent is forced into what their partner won't do. avoiding this, is something i'm very grateful for
  • kemoze

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    Apr 29, 2011 4:31 PM GMT
    i am gay , but i am planning to adopt kids, oh god i like kids so much ...
    the real father is one who rises the kids in the right way....
    gay life is kind of special life style that you can live it in diffent ways,,,
    for example... i think guys who cares about sex only make me feel bored
    while sometimes i read a very impressive gay love stories that much more better than straight love stories...
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    Apr 29, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    All the time. I have women friends but jeez, the stuff they put their husbands/boyfriends through. I would hate to be straight, so much drama.
  • esn158

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    Apr 29, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
    showme saidAll the time. I have women friends but jeez, the stuff they put their husbands/boyfriends through. I would hate to be straight, so much drama.


    Same here, some straight women wouldn't know a good guy if he was standing in front of him. I've always been happy I was gay.
  • rnch

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    Apr 29, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    usually after watching my married guy friends try to deal with the little woman.
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    Apr 29, 2011 7:22 PM GMT
    Yes yes yes!! I am very happy to be gay and in my own skin.

    (I'm not trying to be a forum police or anything, but why is this topic in the dating section? )
  • kemoze

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    Apr 29, 2011 7:26 PM GMT
    woman, before marriage is completely different after marriage..
    for exmple..
    before marriage , she says only sweet words, smells very nice. and makes you feel happy and positive all the time..
    but after marriage.. oh god..she converts into a money sucker and no sweet words any more only crape in your life,,, and she makes you get oldericon_sad.gif
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    Apr 29, 2011 7:30 PM GMT
    cityaznguy saidYes yes yes!! I am very happy to be gay and in my own skin.

    (I'm not trying to be a forum police or anything, but why is this topic in the dating section? )

    coz if you are satisfied with being gay, you will try hardly to make your relation with your partner very good
    even ,, how can you be happy and fall in love with guy ,,if you dont like being gay??????????????
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    Apr 29, 2011 7:51 PM GMT
    In all honesty, no. There are times when I think it would be easier to be straight. But it's not something I can change so I might as well own it.
  • kemoze

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    Apr 29, 2011 8:04 PM GMT
    Vancouverite2004 saidIn all honesty, no. There are times when I think it would be easier to be straight. But it's not something I can change so I might as well own it.

    i know sometimes you feel like this.
    but you need to fall in love and you would say gay is best ever....
    i live in the middle east and i have told lots of friends here that i am gay.. they didnt believe coz i am behaving so normally.. and i feel more happy when i accept the idea of being gay. and be myself
    even at work,, i started to have a very good relations there...dont ever think of being gay is something makes you less than the others...
    i know lots of straight guys who try to have a relation with me ,, i wonder why..
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    Apr 29, 2011 8:23 PM GMT

    "Have you ever said that ( thank you god, i am gay? )"

    Yes, absolutely.
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    Apr 29, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    kemoze said
    cityaznguy saidYes yes yes!! I am very happy to be gay and in my own skin.

    (I'm not trying to be a forum police or anything, but why is this topic in the dating section? )

    coz if you are satisfied with being gay, you will try hardly to make your relation with your partner very good
    even ,, how can you be happy and fall in love with guy ,,if you dont like being gay??????????????


    Well said buddy! I like you already. I'd hit the "like" or "rep" button if there is one here. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:29 PM GMT
    kemoze saidsometimes... i think almost of time, i feel like its ok, gay life has a lot pleasure to give to me, especially when i meet someone who is so honest and funny,,,
    so gays have you ever felt happy that you are gay????icon_question.gif


    I love the way you reasoned..lolz ;)
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:38 PM GMT
    I might think, even say, "thank fuck I'm gay". I'd possibly omit the God bit.

    Thos thoughts are surely common to all gay men when they finally figure out exactly who they are tho?
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:41 PM GMT
    No, but when I was about 18 and going into the locker room at my club I did think I was blessed.
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:42 PM GMT
    Each and every day I heap praise for being gay! And my females friends and I have a running joke about about it too. All the crap that straight guys have to put up with when they are involved with their girls. Yea, and I know a few gay guys that have to as well. I wouldn't survive. So yea, I wouldn't have it any other way. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    Even though one is content in my own body, and I have not lived a life of a lie hiding my sexuality. I have to say no.

    But I am now saying thank god I was not born a breeder, because I don't have to deal with teenage daughters, and I do thank God for that.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Apr 29, 2011 11:47 PM GMT
    No, I haven't thanked god for making me gay. Nor do I thank him for making me good at math. It is what it is, I don't care why or how at this point. I'm just glad I'm out of the mopey "why me, why me" phase. That lasted too long.
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:53 PM GMT

    I am not thankful for being gay.

    I am thankful for living in a country where I am not murdered, imprisoned or tortured for being myself.


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    Apr 29, 2011 11:56 PM GMT
    Yes sometimes I have said it and truly mean it
    I like to think that God made us all gay because we have so much more to accomplish in life, and if he made us straight it would have made it FAR too easy for us...God likes to challenge us

    I love this topic though, becuase its something we all struggle with !
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    Apr 29, 2011 11:58 PM GMT
    jlly_rnchr saidNo, I haven't thanked god for making me gay. Nor do I thank him for making me good at math. It is what it is, I don't care why or how at this point. I'm just glad I'm out of the mopey "why me, why me" phase. That lasted too long.


    Yeah but after you come out of the mopey why me phase ... surelhy it's followed, eventually, by the I Am What I Am excitement phase (no matter how quickly one transcends this afterglow and becomes genuinely self-accepting - nb. some never do).
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    Apr 30, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    Nope.. doubt it, but at this point in my life I wouldn't change a thing.
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    Apr 30, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    Nicely put. Freedom is to be appreciated, gay is who we strand not an easy life at all for most gay men. I'm not thankful for being gay but thankful for being able to make lemonade out of them lemons I have been given.

    As for women, no they don't all change anymore than the men they marry. The generalization is inaccurate & could be said about any couple that does not continually work to make the relationship more loving daily.

    tanlejos said
    I am not thankful for being gay.

    I am thankful for living in a country where I am not murdered, imprisoned or tortured for being myself.


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    Apr 30, 2011 12:35 AM GMT
    Haha, many times.