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    Apr 30, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    Guy 1

    I've only known him for about a month but we talk in some form every day. He is 6'2 black/korean (swimmer build) and I find him extremely physically attractive. We have pretty smooth conversations and we are both pretty into each other but we don't really have any common interests. We bond really well over school issues etc. He goes to columbia so I can only see him during breaks

    Guy 2

    I've known him for 2 years but we never really had an in depth conversation until a couple of weeks ago. He told me that he liked me since freshman year but my gaydar is bad so I didn't even know he was gay. He's 6'0 maybe 6,1 blond hair, green eyes, (football build) Physically, he's not really my type but we have a lot in common and we have a similar sense of humor. He goes to carnegie mellon with me so I can see him everyday.

    Both of them are super smart which is a +++ for me.


    I've been talking to both and I'm totally transparent but now I feel pressure from both sides to drop the other. Its like going to the store and picking out 2 toys, and then your mom says you can only have one. icon_cry.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    I find it interesting you listed their heights.
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    Apr 30, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    You should pick one quickly, before they both drop you! lol
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    Apr 30, 2011 2:38 AM GMT
    are you physically intimate with either? are they offering up exclusivity? is that something you want?
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    Apr 30, 2011 2:50 AM GMT
    They know about each other? icon_neutral.gif Like Bambino asked, are you intimate with any of them? If you are not yet, then I recommend just keep seeing them both, you're just getting to know them at a deeper level before you make a choice. But if you are already intimate with one, or both of them, then you should make a decision quickly before they start calling you bad name(s) like how people call each other on this forum. icon_wink.gif

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    Apr 30, 2011 2:56 AM GMT
    Make sure you don't choose either of the guys for stupid reasons. For example, don't choose guy #2 just because he is closer to you and don't choose guy #1 because he is hotter. That is never a good way to start things. You run the risk of yearning for what you didn't choose and that could lead to cheating, being unhappy, not appreciating him, etc.
  • Webster666

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    Apr 30, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
    Absolutely, date both of them until you make up your mind.
    And, be honest with both of them.
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    Apr 30, 2011 4:11 AM GMT
    wail til you get them in bed and then make up your mind
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    Apr 30, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    Guy 2.
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    Apr 30, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    Menage a trois. The only way to determine is by dueling swords. Tee hee hee.
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    Apr 30, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    Are you looking for a long term partner or just a boyfriend?

    Guy 1 if you're looking for a boyfriend

    Guy 2 if you're looking for a long term partner
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Apr 30, 2011 5:10 AM GMT
    Whichever one you don't want send him my way playa.
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    Apr 30, 2011 9:26 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidMenage a trois. The only way to determine is by dueling swords. Tee hee hee.


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    Apr 30, 2011 9:44 PM GMT
    dekiruman said... Its like going to the store and picking out 2 toys, and then your mom says you can only have one. icon_cry.gif
    Punch your mom in the baws and take them both. icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    .....icon_eek.gif

    If you cant decide,

    Which ass to ride,

    You just aint ready,

    To go steady!





    *and for bottoms.. ......


    read

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    instead of

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    May 01, 2011 1:00 AM GMT
    Pato599 said.....icon_eek.gif

    If you cant decide,

    Which ass to ride,

    You just aint ready,

    To go steady!





    *and for bottoms.. ......


    read

    [pic of rooster]

    instead of

    [pic of donkey]


    LMFAO!!
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    May 01, 2011 1:03 AM GMT
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  • barriehomeboy

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    May 01, 2011 1:06 AM GMT
    Studies of older couples who have been married for over 50 years have all demonstrated that the bond that kept them together was sex. Those old 80 year olds were all saying "the sex was amazing!" You thought gramma and gramps were so happy together because they had grandchildren around the Christmas tree? Think again!
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    May 01, 2011 1:17 AM GMT
    Anduru said3171928.bin?size=620x400


    LOL WIN! Haven't laughed that hard in a while!
  • rnch

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    May 01, 2011 1:23 AM GMT
    wade_in_BC saidYou should pick one quickly, before they both drop you! lol





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    May 01, 2011 1:30 AM GMT
    Looks fade over time and sex can become a "chore" with the wrong person, but if you can talk and communicate and understand each other, so many things can be overcome and made better or more interesting........and too much candy will make you fat!
    Depends on what your intentions are...if you want a piece of ass for the trophy, go with guy1, if you want a relationship that wants you...guy2 should get the shot......hot guys will come and go, but those that are truly interested are rare and should be valued....icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 01, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    guy 2...if not send him my way. icon_razz.gif
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    May 01, 2011 1:46 AM GMT
    Super smart, blond haired, green eyed, good looking dude with a footballer build, that likes you & is right in front of your face???
    I'm thinking your anwser is obvious
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    May 01, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    EccentricStud saidSuper smart, blond haired, green eyed, good looking dude with a footballer build, that likes you & is right in front of your face???
    I'm thinking your anwser is obvious


    The OP already stated that he's not as attracted to guy 2 compared with guy 1. Why are you guys trying to shove guy 2 down OP's throat? Wait, I mean but. Wait, I mean throat. Wait, I mean....whatever!! You guys have fun. I'm done with this thread.
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    May 01, 2011 2:33 AM GMT
    Pick the black/korean guy that's so hot and exotic!!!!