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    Apr 30, 2011 3:49 AM GMT
    i know people have talked about this before, just looking for some help/advice

    i'm attracted to this guy at school, im 85% sure he is straight,
    i catch myself drooling if i stare at him, so now im avoiding him, but recently i noticed he's looking at me whenever i walk near him, he's also following me/ joining conversations with my friends and i, p.s. im not out

    i think its just me, but just wondering what other people have done in this situation.
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    Apr 30, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    lol, well back in the day, I'd go for a guy who told me what they thought and what they wanted. So I'll ask, why should you have to interpret how he might be feeling about you? icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
    When he is talking with you and your friends, start engaging him in conversation. When I am with friends yes we talk about the same things in groups but we also talk with each other one on one about different things. While you are talking to him try and find a common ground, get to know him as a friend and work your way from there. If he is not gay at he thinks your cool at least you could have a new friend.
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    Apr 30, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    meninlove said lol, well back in the day, I'd go for a guy who told me what they thought and what they wanted. So I'll ask, why should you have to interpret how he might be feeling about you? icon_wink.gif


    idk, i've know him for awhile, and i like him, so i guess i should try engaging him more,

    as the guy said above me, i could always make a new friend,

    thanks!
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    Apr 30, 2011 6:22 AM GMT
    He's looking at you because you spent so much time looking at him that he thinks you might be stalking him.

    You could fantasize about what what your date with the guy would be like or you can ask him and have a chance to find out for real. Choose.