Alternative Ideal first date

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    Apr 30, 2011 11:13 AM GMT
    Just had a thought about this, what's your ideal first date beside the usual cinema, dinner, coffee scenario?

    any wacky alternative? was it successful? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • BardBear

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    Apr 30, 2011 11:40 AM GMT
    Picnic at an outdoor art museum in Denver followed by flying kites.

    Also did Laser Tag as well for a first date. Black is slimming.

    Peace,
    Bardy
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Apr 30, 2011 12:05 PM GMT
    Personally, for a first date, I wouldn't stray all that far from the cliche. I'd save something creative for date three or four. Just me.
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    Apr 30, 2011 12:10 PM GMT
    I'd invite the guy to go for a nice 5 mile walk/jog/hike. I'd buy the food for the picnic we would have but he'd have to help carry some of it. We find a nice chill place then just enjoy the scenery.
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    Apr 30, 2011 12:11 PM GMT
    How's water park? You can get a nice preview of his bod. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 12:18 PM GMT
    Went hiking on a short trail ~ that was pretty cool





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    Apr 30, 2011 12:59 PM GMT
    Going to my lab and getting a brainstem response on himicon_smile.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 1:06 PM GMT
    deltalimen saidGoing to my lab and getting a brainstem response on himicon_smile.gif


    You had me at lab icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    Sex in the chemistry lab... hmm... it burns Gabriel! icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidI'd invite the guy to go for a nice 5 mile walk/jog/hike. I'd buy the food for the picnic we would have but he'd have to help carry some of it. We find a nice chill place then just enjoy the scenery.


    i was thinking the exact same!

    somewhere like a river to wash off the sweat etc, and if the weather allows it bonfire dot dot dot.

    how realistic is it though? anyone done that?

    p.s and if the date isn't going well you can just sprint off like there's no tomorrow hahahah, not if the other dude is a professional runner of course.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Apr 30, 2011 3:03 PM GMT
    On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!
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    Apr 30, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    I've done a few concerts of local bands as first dates. Actually went pretty well. Best first date ever was when a dude invited me to exhibition matches at a local boxing club.
  • kemoze

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    Apr 30, 2011 5:30 PM GMT
    Mixleanmachine said On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!

    oh god ..
    i totally disagree with all you have said. its not a race or a competition for making who is the bitch..
    its a date to have your heart opened and respond to the way he makes you forget the world around you.. besides ,, we shouldn't have sex at the first date ...
    let the first date should be for your heart only ...
    even i didnt have sex before but i know very well what love means....
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    Apr 30, 2011 5:30 PM GMT
    horseback riding
  • kemoze

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    Apr 30, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidI'd invite the guy to go for a nice 5 mile walk/jog/hike. I'd buy the food for the picnic we would have but he'd have to help carry some of it. We find a nice chill place then just enjoy the scenery.

    yeah, i would like to have a long walk with him, and also i would like to be a good listener too .
    listening makes you understand his personality very well and dont forget keeping staring in his eyes....icon_wink.gif
  • ohioguy12

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    Apr 30, 2011 5:41 PM GMT
    An amusement park, bowling, miniture golf or attending an athletic event would be fun.
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    Apr 30, 2011 5:58 PM GMT
    hiking, mountain climbing, sailing, surfing
  • DCEric

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    Apr 30, 2011 8:16 PM GMT
    Mixleanmachine said On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!

    win-one-internet.jpg
  • alphatop

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    May 01, 2011 4:27 AM GMT
    kemoze said
    Mixleanmachine said On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!

    oh god ..
    i totally disagree with all you have said. its not a race or a competition for making who is the bitch..
    its a date to have your heart opened and respond to the way he makes you forget the world around you.. besides ,, we shouldn't have sex at the first date ...
    let the first date should be for your heart only ...
    even i didnt have sex before but i know very well what love means....


    Dude, have you heard of irony? You know, like, he is joking about it? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    May 01, 2011 6:22 AM GMT
    AntoNomad said
    kemoze said
    Mixleanmachine said On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!

    oh god ..
    i totally disagree with all you have said. its not a race or a competition for making who is the bitch..
    its a date to have your heart opened and respond to the way he makes you forget the world around you.. besides ,, we shouldn't have sex at the first date ...
    let the first date should be for your heart only ...
    even i didnt have sex before but i know very well what love means....


    Dude, have you heard of irony? You know, like, he is joking about it? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Lol Tony, at least you know I was only kidding icon_biggrin.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    May 01, 2011 6:25 AM GMT
    DCEric said
    Mixleanmachine said On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!

    win-one-internet.jpg


    Cool I won something! icon_lol.gif
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    May 01, 2011 8:53 AM GMT
    I had a first date on the Chicago World Naked Bike Ride. It was a blast.
  • kemoze

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    May 01, 2011 5:23 PM GMT
    Mixleanmachine said
    AntoNomad said
    kemoze said
    Mixleanmachine said On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!

    oh god ..
    i totally disagree with all you have said. its not a race or a competition for making who is the bitch..
    its a date to have your heart opened and respond to the way he makes you forget the world around you.. besides ,, we shouldn't have sex at the first date ...
    let the first date should be for your heart only ...
    even i didnt have sex before but i know very well what love means....


    Dude, have you heard of irony? You know, like, he is joking about it? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Lol Tony, at least you know I was only kidding icon_biggrin.gif


    ok .. gays ..
    i just dont like anyone to talk bady about gays...
    i am really sorry if i misunderstood you ...
  • kemoze

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    May 01, 2011 5:26 PM GMT
    Mixleanmachine said
    AntoNomad said
    kemoze said
    Mixleanmachine said On my first date with a guy, I have him sit down and fill out an application so I can run his credit and get the names and numbers of his last three boyfriends. I will not date ANYONE without a good reference. Then I bring him to my house and have him clean and then I make sure he gives me a good massage.
    You have to make sure you take control on the first date and lay down the rules, you don't want to end up being anyone's bitch, so you have to make them your bitch first! It is imperative that they know who is in charge when you first start to date!!!

    oh god ..
    i totally disagree with all you have said. its not a race or a competition for making who is the bitch..
    its a date to have your heart opened and respond to the way he makes you forget the world around you.. besides ,, we shouldn't have sex at the first date ...
    let the first date should be for your heart only ...
    even i didnt have sex before but i know very well what love means....


    Dude, have you heard of irony? You know, like, he is joking about it? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Lol Tony, at least you know I was only kidding icon_biggrin.gif


    ok .. gays ..
    i just dont like anyone to talk bady about gays...
    i am really sorry if i misunderstood you ...
  • rebelbeard

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    May 01, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysfunNlHTbw&feature=player_embedded

    Basically the first date version of this video! It gets me every time!!