Why Do I keep Getting Younger Guys?

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    Apr 30, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    This is not a brag but more of a concern. When I meet guys on Craigslist (Yes, it's not the best place to meet), I usually spend an evening with a a guy in his 20s. They tend to be the only ones who respond, partly because they dominate CL and guys in my age group always seem to want a younger person. Some I never see again but a few are "repeaters." In my late 40s, I find this odd since I'd ultimately like to find a regular near my age. (Yes, I am thoroughly tested for everything so I'm VERY safe)

    I'm not in the best of shape, am working on it, but am HWP and can be fun in bed. Several guys like my "thickness" (again, not bragging) but some can't take it and some love it!

    I've tried other dating sites (Match, Compatible Partners, Silver Daddies) and the guys there all seem to want someone 15-20 years younger. Arrgh!

    How in the world do I find guys near my age who want to hang out, play, and maybe / hopefully have an LTR?
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    May 01, 2011 7:00 AM GMT
    Stop responding to the ones in their 20's and focus your time on the ones you seek.

    Find local activities where guys you seek are in real life.

    Happy hunting!
    Alan
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    May 01, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    Because all the guys our age have partners!
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    May 01, 2011 4:11 PM GMT
    craigslist ... sketch .... try meeting someone through real jock maybe icon_smile.gif
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    May 01, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    Chuckanut saidBecause all the guys our age have partners!


    O thats good, Ill be happy to be able to stop this dumb dating mill by then....
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    May 01, 2011 4:31 PM GMT
    I get the same thing, but that is ok since I prefer younger guys, although a fit active guy around my age would be nice too but like one of the replys said most of them have partners
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    May 01, 2011 5:02 PM GMT
    Chuckanut saidBecause all the guys our age have partners!


    Not all of us. And you're not. icon_wink.gif
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    May 01, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    GAMRican is right.

    Stop responding to the one's in their 20s or be more articulate about what specifically you are looking for in your ad. Don't waste your time on things that won't fulfill your goals.

    By comparison, if you were looking for a job that pays $100K you aren't very likely to apply for positions that pay $35K, right?
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    May 01, 2011 5:58 PM GMT
    must be a depressing place for a young man in Rancho Cucamonga, California
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    May 01, 2011 6:07 PM GMT
    I seek older men because they are smarter about disease than young twenties I have found.

    Never thru CL tho.
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    May 01, 2011 6:27 PM GMT
    So, why is this an issue? icon_confused.gif
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    May 01, 2011 6:31 PM GMT
    Why do i keep getting guys who are interested in not much more than sex? Its annoying!!!! Im a keeper!! CUDDLE ME PRETTY!!!!!! icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 01, 2011 6:32 PM GMT
    Because the older ones are a) fucking twinks themselves b) taken c) tweaked out in a sling at a bath house somewhere or d) all of the above.
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    May 01, 2011 6:51 PM GMT
    These type threads never cease to amuse and amaze me. And would depress me if I were to let themicon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 01, 2011 7:39 PM GMT
    Don_Guerrilla_de_Sodom saidBecause the older ones are a) fucking twinks themselves b) taken c) tweaked out in a sling at a bath house somewhere or d) all of the above.


    LOL- are you sure you are not a NYER?
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    May 01, 2011 8:07 PM GMT
    Poor thing, LA in general from what I've seen has mostly younger guys. And when I lived in Rancho, there was mostly young guys there from what I remember. Try Palm Springs, or even go to clubs where older bear type guys go to such as the eagle in Silver Lake, The Silver Bullet in the valley of LA. Or go on those kinds of nights. Maybe you'll have a better chance of finding guys your age... Also, younger people use the internet more than the older generations do. Not that that means anything, but maybe you'll find more guys around your age out in about than online. Just throwing ideas out there. icon_smile.gif
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    May 01, 2011 8:23 PM GMT
    Pato599 saidWhy do i keep getting guys who are interested in not much more than sex? Its annoying!!!! Im a keeper!! CUDDLE ME PRETTY!!!!!! icon_rolleyes.gif

    K.
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    May 02, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    Blackguy4you said
    Don_Guerrilla_de_Sodom saidBecause the older ones are a) fucking twinks themselves b) taken c) tweaked out in a sling at a bath house somewhere or d) all of the above.


    LOL- are you sure you are not a NYER?


    No, but I have had a little NYer in me.
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    May 02, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    Not that its a problem but it happens to the best of usicon_biggrin.gif

    However it doesn't seem to be that much of a problem to you if you are keep hooking up!!
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    May 02, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    Hooray for being young. icon_biggrin.gif

    I think it's interesting how you don't enjoy the attention of younger men. All the younger men I know wouldn't dare get with an older (a man of your age) man. They prefer around their age range so be flattered, beeeesh.
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    May 02, 2011 2:41 PM GMT
    stop complaining..
    one day it will stop and you'll have nothing..
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    May 02, 2011 3:26 PM GMT
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    May 02, 2011 6:23 PM GMT
    Funny, most guys that respond to my CL ads are 40+. icon_eek.gif
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    May 03, 2011 2:45 AM GMT
    fasterpace saidmust be a depressing place for a young man in Rancho Cucamonga, California


    Is that supposed to be a slam against the older guys in Rancho?
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    May 03, 2011 2:46 AM GMT
    guy94hg59 saidHooray for being young. icon_biggrin.gif

    I think it's interesting how you don't enjoy the attention of younger men. All the younger men I know wouldn't dare get with an older (a man of your age) man. They prefer around their age range so be flattered, beeeesh.


    I do enjoy younger guys but would enjoy having conversation and play with someone close to my age.