I ♥ closeted guys ^__^

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    Apr 30, 2011 9:53 PM GMT
    I know they catch a lot of shit for being out but I've been on some amazing dates with closeted guys. Just because they aren't out yet doesn't mean they should be overlooked because they are just as great as out guys. This is just my little closeted guy appreciation thread. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    I guess this means you got laid today? icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 30, 2011 9:59 PM GMT
    Maybe they're just more grateful for the attention. Fun at first, not so much later. Was that mean?
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    Apr 30, 2011 10:10 PM GMT
    showme saidMaybe they're just more grateful for the attention. Fun at first, not so much later. Was that mean?


    I've noticed that they are very straight forward and play fewer games.
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    Apr 30, 2011 10:14 PM GMT
    I think you're generalizing (ooops) about out of the closet guys. It will become an issue when you want to show affection in public, be yourself in front of friends, move in together, etc. Maybe you've picked a really good one and you can inspire him to be honest about himself!
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    Apr 30, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    I love Hermes, but it doesn't mean I'm ever gonna get one. Damn it.
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    May 01, 2011 12:02 AM GMT
    deltalimen saidI love Hermes, but it doesn't mean I'm ever gonna get one. Damn it.


    I had a steamy affair with an alligator Birkin.
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    May 01, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    I think that there is some good ones as you said, but what about the ones that are so far in the closet they can't even find the door.

    I dated this guy once who was in the closet, and our 2 dates were in his care, fun right? It gets better,when I asked him would he ever come out he said, and I quot "I WILL NEVER EVER COME OUT, NEVER".
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    May 01, 2011 8:26 AM GMT
    I'm not referring to the hopeless ones so much as the ones who are working on it but aren't all the way there yet.
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    May 01, 2011 8:54 AM GMT
    I'm not out to my family but only a few of my close friends kno of my bisexuality. If I was back in Canada, things could have been different, but since I'm stationed here, I have to to be careful about disclosing my sexuality because people have a way to spread rumors for leverage and simple love to talk about other people.
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    May 01, 2011 3:16 PM GMT
    i'm closeted. does that mean you love me? lol jk
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    May 01, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    Stay in the closet and get as many men as possible.

    Let's spread the word!
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    May 01, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    dekiruman saidI've been on some amazing dates with closeted guys. Just because they aren't out yet doesn't mean they should be overlooked because they are just as great as out guys.


    Is it Guy 1 or Guy 2? Both??? icon_eek.gif
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    May 01, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    dekiruman saidI've been on some amazing dates with closeted guys. Just because they aren't out yet doesn't mean they should be overlooked because they are just as great as out guys.


    Is it Guy 1 or Guy 2? Both??? icon_eek.gif


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    May 01, 2011 3:43 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    unfounded7 said
    dekiruman saidI've been on some amazing dates with closeted guys. Just because they aren't out yet doesn't mean they should be overlooked because they are just as great as out guys.


    Is it Guy 1 or Guy 2? Both??? icon_eek.gif


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    A, so you;ve made your choice, eh? Seems logical, you;ve known him for years and can talk and all that, I would ve made the same choice really
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    May 01, 2011 3:44 PM GMT
    A distinction between closet cases must be made, as there are guys who:

    (1) live somewhere gay-friendly and refuse to come out.
    (2) live somewhere anti-gay and refuse to die for coming out.

    Cut #2 some slack, will ya?
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    May 01, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    They're not a much fun after you've been with them for a few years, and they feel like they have spent too much time with their co-workers/friends/ whatever to be able to come out now, because they have been lying for 10 years and don;t want to look like idiots. So something that would have been as simple as "oh that's just my partner' is now a huge conversation and you are left being the secret part of his life. Makes you feel pretty shitty.

    So be careful, if it' looking like something more than a fling, might want to reconsider the closetted guys.
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    May 01, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    I can't believe this post, maybe next time you're out on a date with such a guy and they see someone they know, they will ask you to hide for a minute, yay something to look forward to.
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    May 01, 2011 6:25 PM GMT
    michalchi29 saidI can't believe this post, maybe next time you're out on a date with such a guy and they see someone they know, they will ask you to hide for a minute, yay something to look forward to.


    I really wouldn't care all that much if they did. now.
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    May 01, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    PerineumX saidA distinction between closet cases must be made, as there are guys who:

    (1) live somewhere gay-friendly and refuse to come out.
    (2) live somewhere anti-gay and refuse to die for coming out.

    Cut #2 some slack, will ya?


    Good point
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    May 01, 2011 6:32 PM GMT
    Guys in the closet are hidden gems.
    Your secret's safe with me. icon_wink.gif
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    May 01, 2011 6:34 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidGuys in the closet are hidden gems.
    Your secret's safe with me. icon_wink.gif


    yes thats a good way to describe it. Its like finding a really nice designer jacket in TJ Maxx
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    May 01, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
    They can have a certain charm about them, I find.

    Then again, I interact with them every day at work,
    at play, at table. Definitely not relationship material,
    but I do enjoy many of the characteristics that mark
    them: the subtlety, the obliqueness, the intense eye-
    contact when no one's looking, the ability to take on
    attitudes and ticks of those around them, the stolen
    moments and encrypted messages. Fascinating yet
    futile, really. Reminds me, I really need to get a face.
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    May 01, 2011 6:36 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    showme saidMaybe they're just more grateful for the attention. Fun at first, not so much later. Was that mean?


    I've noticed that they are very straight forward and play fewer games.


    Tell that to their wives.
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    May 01, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
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    dekiruman said
    showme saidMaybe they're just more grateful for the attention. Fun at first, not so much later. Was that mean?


    I've noticed that they are very straight forward and play fewer games.


    Tell that to their wives.


    You're absolutely right. Closeted guys are horrible. An out guy would never be with two people at the same time.