My God! That's a lot of questions to answer:
Black Party: I enjoyed this event in the context of a relationship [twice]. We had a great time. Music was great, exhibitions super interesting, and the back room...well, I got about 10 feet in and realized it was not for me...
Dance: I love to dance. Was there something more to this question?
Meth: Awful drug and really is doing a number on our gay community. This was the drug that put many of my friends [and myself] through recovery. I promised myself I wouldn't do meth again until I was 85 years old...which at that age, most of the negative impact will be mitigated!
Circuit Parties: Had their time and place for me in my 20's. I still enjoy going to a club now and then, but honestly, the most serious drug I partake in is about 3 drinks or a cup of coffee...and I am WAY OK with it...