I would say Scott is spot on! Ive always said life isnt that complicated or hard, its what we make of it. Rock on Scott!
Well, if life wasn't that complicated or hard, why is the question being presented here?
See, I have an issue with that type of thinking. No, life isn't impossible...but it's certainly not easy. Nobody teaches us how to ask guys to dance and I see this EVERY SINGLE TIME when I go out with someone. They see someone, but they can't ask them to dance. Or they go up to someone who didn't even notice them and try to make a relationship out of it.
All I'm saying is that you can't just assume someone wants to dance just because they are dancing near you. The OP did not know the guy, the guy just happened to see him on facebook.
I seen 1 guy, he was dancing all hard in front of me and my friend. Well, when I went up to talk to him later that night, he says...well, actually I was trying to get with your friend!
So no, it's not just simple, easy breezy world. It's a tough, fast and harsh world. And when you get into the nightclub, where things move EXTREMELY fast, and there's people all around you it gets that much difficult.
By just jumping up and dancing with any old person just because they are dancing near you can be not only embarrassing but dangerous.