18 Months in.. and no more sex..

  • LuckyPierre

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    May 01, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    I love him... but because of our schedules (and heath issues) we dont have sex together. The issue recently has been that I walk in on him jacking off... wen is that ever OK in a monog relationship?
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    May 01, 2011 3:08 AM GMT
    I can't imagine it being a problem unless he chooses to jack off rather than be with you. If the two of you aren't having sex because of schedules or health issues, I think it is fine for each of you to blow off some steam solo.
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    May 01, 2011 6:58 AM GMT
    He was wanking before you came along and he'll wank during and after, too. It's his bits, you've got to leave him to that.

    Now, your other problem that you don't have sex (unspecified health issues) is more telling. The relationship is already over, but it sounds like you are both holding on for whatever reason.

    End it and move on. You aren't doing anyone favors hanging out in relationship purgatory.