I cry myself to sleep at night

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    May 03, 2011 7:57 AM GMT
    I cry myself to sleep at night, I feel so alone... it hurts
  • commoncoll

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    May 03, 2011 8:21 AM GMT
    Good heavens! Why do you do this to yourself?
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    May 03, 2011 2:15 PM GMT
    Your a very handsome man and your so young still.
    Please take heart that the love of your life is out there already and the day will come that you two are together.
    In the mean time maybe you can focus on being/becoming the partner you want to be when you meet? Maybe your career, taking some extra classes or even volunteering to not only pass time, and advance your horizons but to also broaden your social circle?

    If you think your getting depression or it is taking you under, please seek out help. Your truly worth it and your life is worth it.
    There's too much life worth living and so many experiences that will make you feel good, don't give up. Get busy. icon_smile.gif




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    May 03, 2011 2:19 PM GMT
    camille saidI cry myself to sleep at night, I feel so alone... it hurts



    Well, I've certainly done that. Bill says he did, too. Both of us feel our acute feelings of loneliness enabled us to appreciate another person, and a relationship, that much more.

    So here's a local (lower mainland) hug.

    *hug*
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    May 03, 2011 2:34 PM GMT
    Your thread caught my attention. I've been there before. Things got better for me. I just had to hang in there and work through alot of issues in life. But it wasn't easy, and it took quite a long time. Sometimes, professional help is in order if you just can't get a handle on things. I wish you the best.
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    May 03, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    Everybody gets lonely honey.

    Do something about it. Find a boyfriend. Make friends. Join a club or volunteer. Seek out a counselor you can talk to about your feelings.

    But do something. If you had and itch, you wouldn't just sit there and let it drive you crazy. You would scratch it. (unless of course, the itch was on your ass...and you were on a date. Then you might wait until he wasn't looking...lol.)
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    May 03, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    camille saidI cry myself to sleep at night, I feel so alone... it hurts


    You are not alone in this. I cry myself to sleep at night too.......Sometimes i run out of tears just crying everynight.....You should know that some people care what you feel, so don't feel alone! icon_smile.gif. cheer up Fellow RJer! icon_biggrin.gif *gives bear hug*
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    May 03, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    You're cute! I would assume you'd have friends and guys who would enjoy getting to know you. I'd like to hear more from you about why you do that!

    And in the meantime, just know there are friends of all kinds who'd enjoy getting to know you!

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    May 03, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    If things suck then clearly you need to change something.
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    May 03, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    When you feel that lonely, mate , there always is a RJ member at anytime of the day or the night ( time zones , different hemisphere ) ready to chat with you ....Don't be shy ...
    Cheers ,
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    May 03, 2011 4:31 PM GMT
    Not saying that you'll have to wait a decade but most people's lives do a complete 180 every ten years. This too shall pass.
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    May 03, 2011 5:20 PM GMT
    that took some strength to post. You are a good lookin kid and seem honest so I do not think it will be long for you to find what you are looking for. I am sure yo u have heard it is always darkest before dawn. Keep the faith kid I truly believe there is someone for everyone and hope you find yours soon
  • Webster666

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    May 03, 2011 7:59 PM GMT
    Honey, you need to get a dog.
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    May 03, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidHoney, you need to get a dog.
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    First let me say, that is a really cute dog and studies HAVE shown that having a pet reduces depression.

    Secondly, please know that we have ALL been there and it really, truly does get better. You are not alone and you are NOT unloved. Hang in there and you will find your way, I promise.

    If things get really bad, talk to someone you trust. Dont bottle it up.
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    May 03, 2011 9:21 PM GMT
    Awww you poor thing. icon_sad.gif. Here have a little Teddy bear too. Feel better!


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