Have You Ditched Anyone?

  • Joeyphx444

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    May 03, 2011 8:10 AM GMT
    For any reason? Was it you who made the decision or did you just go along w/ one of your friends?

    OR

    Have you gotten ditched icon_razz.gif

    (and by ditched, I mean abandoning someone alone at a club, bar, restaurant, anywhere)
  • BardBear

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    May 03, 2011 9:40 AM GMT
    Yes. I found out the person was doing drugs in the bathroom. I said I'm not into that and he started freakin' out. I was walked away and called a taxi.

    Peace,
    Bardy
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    May 03, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    Nope. I think that's rude regardless of what he/she was doing that deserves leaving him/her behind. There will be time to talk about it. But ditching them is NOT the answer.
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    May 03, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    I've been ditched. It sucks.
  • Timbales

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    May 03, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    No, I haven't done it or had it done to me.
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    May 03, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    There was just that one time, and I didn't mean to. I just thought that the window in the restaurant's bathroom was a proper exit. lol jk

    Nah never ditched anyone before. Haven't been ditched either. *shrugs*. Guess I am a lucky one icon_biggrin.gif
  • NerdLifter

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    May 03, 2011 4:11 PM GMT
    To ditch or be ditched, either way you feel horrible; so, just don't ditch.




    Now that I've said ditch so many times, I realize that ditch sounds almost vulgar.

    Ditch ditch ditch
  • Pexus

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    May 03, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
    I 'ditched' my last bf. I had to pack all my stuff in the car and run before my resolve broke and I stayed in an unhealthy relationship. Sometimes we have to give ourselves a break and not feel guilty about taking action. And this wasn't a quick decision or one that I'd not tried to discuss before.
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    May 03, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    Joeyphx444 said
    (and by ditched, I mean abandoning someone alone at a club, bar, restaurant, anywhere)

    I've had a few of those occasions where the guy who went with me to a gay club decided to leave with someone else. I'm a bit old school when it comes to that sort of thing, believing that "you should leave with the guy who brought you." That terminated the relationship right there.

    One other time my BF who came there with me was flirting and carrying on with another fella. It passed the point of being innocent when he started groping the other guy on the dance floor and kissing him, in front of me and our friends who knew us both.

    I simply waited until the dance ended, then very calmly & quietly told him I was leaving now, though we had made plans for later. I don't do big drama scenes in public, and even that much was kinda unusual for me, but you have to draw the line somewhere.

    I had arrived there ahead of him on my motorcycle, he later in his car, so we both had wheels and he wasn't stranded (marooning someone is TOTALLY unacceptable, but I've seen that happen, too). He got the message, and never did that to me again, and we remained in a relationship, though a much less secure one, and eventually I left him for good.
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    May 03, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    I got drunk got into an argument with my friend and walked out of the bar leaving her there. Till this day I feel bad. Not a nice thing to do.
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    May 03, 2011 5:59 PM GMT
    Sure, except on that one occassion when I wound up hitched. You live, you learn.