Is it my fault that I always attract to muscular guy?

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    May 04, 2011 9:44 PM GMT
    Of course ,I am a skinny guy.I know I am not a sucker for love. But I probably chose to be a sucker ,and I refuse to love my best friend back because he is skinny and not my type.I don't know why most of skinny guys wanna date me . Why not muscular guy??????Now I am kinda confused with dating things ...
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    May 04, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    arronarron saidIs it my fault that I always attract to muscular guy?

    I give you credit for acknowledging that perhaps the fault doesn't lie entirely with muscular men. I've read so many threads here where OPs with average bodies that only want muscular guys, blind to the irony and their own hypocrisy, complain that muscular men do the same! It is your fault - the heart wants what it wants. Hopefully you and your friend aren't missing out on something great.
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    May 04, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    Well all exclude people on the basis of their attributes. When you add something like muscularity into the mix you are taking a very very small sample of gay men. The chances of finding someone in this group that you can also like as a person is pretty small too.

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    May 04, 2011 10:34 PM GMT
    Go to Twist on a Saturday night when half the muscle guys are strung out on X...they'll do anything with a pulse. icon_twisted.gif
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    May 05, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    eat more and lift more weights, you wont be slim for too long. ;)
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    May 05, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidGo to Twist on a Saturday night when half the muscle guys are strung out on X...they'll do anything with a pulse. icon_twisted.gif


    Paul you let your secret out.
  • DrewT

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    May 05, 2011 4:04 AM GMT
    Yes.
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    May 05, 2011 4:14 AM GMT

    You find yourself in a definitive position: you are on one side of a bridge and muscle guys are on the other. What will you do to join them? Realjock has GREAT exercise plans. I just did one and wow, feel great, feel hit. There are members here who used to be skinny, but are now muscular. Reach out to them, maybe start a thread: "If you used to be skinny and are now muscular, help me!" or something like that.

    I hate telling you to change, but It's hard to explain the problem here: why skinny and non athletic will prefer muscle, but so many muscle prefer only muscle. Calling it shallowness would be easy, but it isn't that. I believe it's because muscle is ideal, hard wired into our brain to be attracted to a fit body over other, much like humans ideally prefer being dry over wet and of course you can't blame muscle guys for preferring muscle as much as you can't blame skinny or non athletic guys for preferring muscle.

    You'll just have to be patient, get into a routine for size, and give it your all.
    Here's a page that got me to stop fearing "fat" so much and try Flaxseed oil: good fat to feed those muscles. This guy here used to be skinny.
    http://www.ironmagazine.com/article68.html And yes he sells a book; I wouldn't buy too many books, but get your hands on some, however you do it. That's something else you'll notice about the real huge muscle guys, face always inside of a book on the subject.

    Speaking of immersion: hang around muscle guys platonically too. Get to know them, which could change everything, even how you cater to your ideals. In the meantime, be paying attention to your intake; you're an ectomorph; that article should be of use to you.

    You will make a great muscle guy someday. You'll find yourself sensitive to that skinny fellar who throws his cap at you. Maybe you'll say the hell with ideals and acquiesce to a date...of course, you don't have to wait either. icon_wink.gif

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    May 05, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    We ALL love muscler men! Eat health foods and lift weights. Give time you will become muscler in time! It take blood,sweat and if you get a friend who can help you to work out with you or get a personal traner with you!

    BW
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    May 05, 2011 4:47 AM GMT
    Well it's not mine.
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    May 05, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    canuckguy19 said
    paulflexes saidGo to Twist on a Saturday night when half the muscle guys are strung out on X...they'll do anything with a pulse. icon_twisted.gif


    Paul you let your secret out.
    Pfft...it's no secret. It's the norm. icon_wink.gif
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    May 05, 2011 6:05 AM GMT
    it kinda is, just stop it.

    simple as that
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    May 06, 2011 11:54 PM GMT
    THanks for the suggestion guys .. I am skinny it doesn't mean I am a sick person or someone. I am pretty much healthy though icon_smile.gif .I like working out at gym and I ma gonna give more time to work out icon_smile.gif
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    May 06, 2011 11:59 PM GMT
    DAVID_HALL saideat more and lift more weights, you wont be slim for too long. ;)


    If only it was that easy.....
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    May 07, 2011 12:06 AM GMT
    Bro, you gonna be Mr. Right first before finding Mr. Right.

    So eat sleep and lift, everyone has time, just a matter if they want to give up 1 hour sleep or stay away 1 hr from the computer
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    May 07, 2011 12:07 AM GMT
    Simon78928 said
    DAVID_HALL saideat more and lift more weights, you wont be slim for too long. ;)
    If only it was that easy.....
    Nothing is easy when you don't have a soul.
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 07, 2011 1:00 AM GMT
    If this muscley guy you fantasize about is also older, call me! :-)