How do You convince your Partner to Bottom?

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    May 05, 2011 3:12 AM GMT
    So you meet up with your trick, fuckbuddy, partner, whatever, and you're in the mood to Top; He's like, 'no i don't wanna,' 'i only top bro,' 'i don't know how to loosen up,' etc.
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    May 05, 2011 3:15 AM GMT
    I'm so ready to pound some guy's ass! icon_twisted.gif
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    May 05, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidIs there such thing as convincing them? I have seen many a guy change his mind (both directions) when it gets time to get busy....icon_cool.gif
    Just roll with it and get to sucking instead!


    It's a little challenging when the guy happens to be taller/bigger than me, lol!
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    May 05, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
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    May 05, 2011 3:18 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    GigoloAssassin saidI'm so ready to pound some guy's ass! icon_twisted.gif

    Oh,, I love it RUDY when you're this horny!


    Tony i'm always horny, haha!
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    May 05, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    GigoloAssassin said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidIs there such thing as convincing them? I have seen many a guy change his mind (both directions) when it gets time to get busy....icon_cool.gif
    Just roll with it and get to sucking instead!


    It's a little challenging when the guy happens to be taller/bigger than me, lol!

    Nah,,, all you have to do is throw his sexy ass in the Sling and go to town!
    They're all the same height then! I LOVE it with Taller guys than me......icon_cool.gif


    And youre already tall! HOOOOOOOTT!!!
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    May 05, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
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    Oh great, drugs! Uhh, NO! Lol!
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    May 05, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    Yo bitch, bottoms up. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 05, 2011 8:14 AM GMT
    If you get him hot and bothered, he may be more willing to bottom for you.

    Since the guy only/primarily tops, you may need to spend more time preheating the oven and take it slow.
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    May 05, 2011 8:17 AM GMT
    Rim them until they are begging to be fucked... works every time.
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    May 05, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Pure saidRim them until they are begging to be fucked... works every time.

    LOL.. I didn't want to say it... but that usually is the magic to makes them change their mind ; )


    yeah, i was gonna say "put your face in it until they are backing up on your nose and then just replace your nose with your tool"
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    May 05, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    You can never convince a guy who's innately a top to bottom. Try convincing a guy who's innately a bottom to top and you will have the same result. Rimming an exclusive top will not--I repeat, will not--change anything and the likelihood of that leading to bottoming is close to nil. To exclusive tops, getting rimmed is simply an act of domination, especially if the top is sitting on the bot's face. Think of rimming as blowing someone where the performer is in a more subservient position.
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    May 05, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
    BambinoRex said
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Pure saidRim them until they are begging to be fucked... works every time.

    LOL.. I didn't want to say it... but that usually is the magic to makes them change their mind ; )


    yeah, i was gonna say "put your face in it until they are backing up on your nose and then just replace your nose with your tool"


    I have a big nose but it's not THAT big!
  • rnch

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    May 05, 2011 2:43 PM GMT
    sexual lust, booze, LOTS of rimming and fresh poppers got me to bttm for the first time.

    much to the su-prise of both of us...he slidddddd right innnnnn.


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    May 05, 2011 7:02 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidYou can never convince a guy who's innately a top to bottom. Try convincing a guy who's innately a bottom to top and you will have the same result. Rimming an exclusive top will not--I repeat, will not--change anything and the likelihood of that leading to bottoming is close to nil. To exclusive tops, getting rimmed is simply an act of domination, especially if the top is sitting on the bot's face. Think of rimming as blowing someone where the performer is in a more subservient position.


    I agree with you.
    Just one more thing to add... the domination of rimming can go both ways.

    I have watched porn where the top is getting rimmed with his face in the pillow and his ass is up on the bottom's face.

    In that sense, the bottom is dominating the asshole.

    but your way will make the top be dominating while getting rimmed.

    so it goes both ways DOM.
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    May 05, 2011 7:06 PM GMT
    rassle for it
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    May 05, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidYou can never convince a guy who's innately a top to bottom.

    Not true.
    I speak from experience. I've been with a few guys who are "exclusive" tops who tried bottoming for me.
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    May 05, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    Ermine said
    DOMINUS saidYou can never convince a guy who's innately a top to bottom.

    Not true.
    I speak from experience. I've been with a few guys who are "exclusive" tops who tried bottoming for me.


    I concur, based on experience. BUT, I think the argument would be that those guys who were not innately tops. For some people, sexual role is part of a fixed identity. Which baffles me, but it's a legit POV, just not mine.
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    May 05, 2011 7:18 PM GMT
    BambinoRex said
    Ermine said
    DOMINUS saidYou can never convince a guy who's innately a top to bottom.

    Not true.
    I speak from experience. I've been with a few guys who are "exclusive" tops who tried bottoming for me.


    I concur, based on experience. BUT, I think the argument would be that those guys who were not innately tops. For some people, sexual role is part of a fixed identity. Which baffles me, but it's a legit POV, just not mine.



    Notice my emphasis on "innately." The purportedly "top" guys that end up bottoming are not "innately" top. If they're innately top, the thought of bottoming would make them throw up. I speak from experience. Parallel: you cannot convert a true hetero into a cocksucking dude, even for a minute, and even if you drugged him.
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    May 05, 2011 7:33 PM GMT
    yes, i understand your point.

    i don't think the parallel works exactly tho. you can get people to do lots of things with coercion or violence, but you can't get them to enjoy it. it may not be an innate part of them, but if you hold a gun to their head... example: most gay men don't respond to women, but their mouth still works. given the choice between a bullet in the skull and eating out a woman, you'd walk away with alot of gay men who tolerated an act to live.

    it's kinda like the quote (i think from Gore Vidal): "there are no homosexual or heterosexual people, only sexual acts of various flavors".

    a fixed sexual identity is often a luxury of the developed world.
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    May 05, 2011 7:57 PM GMT
    BambinoRex saidyes, i understand your point.

    i don't think the parallel works exactly tho. you can get people to do lots of things with coercion or violence, but you can't get them to enjoy it. it may not be an innate part of them, but if you hold a gun to their head... example: most gay men don't respond to women, but their mouth still works. given the choice between a bullet in the skull and eating out a woman, you'd walk away with alot of gay men who tolerated an act to live.

    it's kinda like the quote (i think from Gore Vidal): "there are no homosexual or heterosexual people, only sexual acts of various flavors".

    a fixed sexual identity is often a luxury of the developed world.




    You cannot get me to kill my sibling even if you tortured me. I'm innately human.
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    May 05, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    ok, you have me there.

    as for top or btm, i think most people are not at that extreme of the bell curve
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    May 05, 2011 8:12 PM GMT
    BambinoRex saidok, you have me there.

    as for top or btm, i think most people are not at that extreme of the bell curve


    I like you. You're thoughtful.
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    May 05, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    there is no such thing as "innately" top or bottom. It is in the mind. Some prefer one or the other and some are better at one. That is all

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    May 06, 2011 12:10 AM GMT
    that's why asking in the beginning (early dates) is so much better - unless sex is not important at all to you.