Men Who Don't Kiss

  • HndsmKansan

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    May 05, 2011 10:57 AM GMT
    Occasionally I hear about an experience from a friend or just guys who just say "they don't kiss" when they are involved with a guy. For me that would be a "remarkable" turn off. Kissing is such a basic. I love it. Have you ever encountered a guy either with a hookup or date who just "didn't kiss"?
    If so, how did you react?
  • fitdude62

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    May 05, 2011 11:16 AM GMT
    I'm sorry, but kissing is a MUST.

    If you dont kiss there is no way anything else is going to happen.

    Peace, David
  • Buddha

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    May 05, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    Yeah I have. He didn't want to kiss on the first date but he sure wanted to get f'd. Was a bit weird.
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    May 05, 2011 11:42 AM GMT

    Weird, never heard of that.
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    May 05, 2011 11:51 AM GMT
    There's some guys I've kissed that I wished afterwards I hadn't, but I've not known a guy to not want to kiss at all. Even guys who didn't want a blowjob (which I think is rather odd) still wanted to kiss!

    It would definitely be a mood-killer.
  • Tritimium

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    May 05, 2011 11:55 AM GMT
    I have to totally dig a guy before I'll feel genuine about kissing him - otherwise I can feel like I'm going through the motions, a bit like a porn film - but I merely have to be comfortable with him to have sex. Same goes for cuddling. Kissing and cuddling are in many ways so much more intimate than sex, and so they need much more of an emotional connection. It's the difference between a fuck buddy and a boy friend, really.
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    May 05, 2011 12:01 PM GMT
    If it's a hook up, then I'd understand if they'd give a reason other than "just because." If it's a guy I'm going to potentially date, then I'm not going to date him. But I have met a couple of guys who don't kiss. One didn't want us to feel emotionally attached from kissing (it was a hookup... how's it possible to become attached after one night? haha), and the other one just dove right in and kissed me the next time we were together. the second guy took me by surprise. I was in a bit of a panic for the first couple of seconds.
  • LJay

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    May 05, 2011 12:16 PM GMT
    I've run across a couple of guys who did not kiss. It was not exactly a deal breaker, but it wasn't so much fun either.
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    May 05, 2011 12:21 PM GMT
    I will feel uncomfortable for that, i would love to kiss a lot. if that guy i have a date with doesn't like kiss, he will turn me off then.icon_sad.gif
  • drypin

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    May 05, 2011 12:39 PM GMT
    If a guy told me "I don't kiss", I'd think,
    "Isn't your herpes simplex on your genitals, too?" Thanks for the warning!
  • alphatop

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    May 05, 2011 12:40 PM GMT
    As far as I know, only "professionals" don't kiss.
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    May 05, 2011 12:43 PM GMT
    I've encountered both the "I don't kiss" and the "I don't like getting head"

    I think the latter is because they didnt get head from the right guy :p
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    May 05, 2011 12:46 PM GMT
    A kiss is essential for many reasons. It is a deal breaker for me. If the person doesn't like to kiss, the door is thata way.
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    May 05, 2011 12:47 PM GMT
    When I guy avoids kissing, something is definitely up. I also admit that I've avoided kissing a couple of times because they were bad kissers or they're breathe was really rancid icon_eek.gif

    So yes I do the simple fuck and go but I wouldn't want to fuck them again because they were terrible at kissing.

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    May 05, 2011 12:52 PM GMT
    I generally will not kiss someone I've just met for sex. I know it's strange, but some of us think french kissing is very intimate, while fucking is just mechanical. If it's a repeat fuck and I like the dude, I might kiss.
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    May 05, 2011 1:14 PM GMT
    Tritimium saidI have to totally dig a guy before I'll feel genuine about kissing him - otherwise I can feel like I'm going through the motions, a bit like a porn film - but I merely have to be comfortable with him to have sex. Same goes for cuddling. Kissing and cuddling are in many ways so much more intimate than sex, and so they need much more of an emotional connection. It's the difference between a fuck buddy and a boy friend, really.
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    May 05, 2011 1:38 PM GMT
    i mean to each their own, but im all about some good kissin
  • werdnandrew

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    May 05, 2011 1:42 PM GMT
    Some people don't get any pleasure from kissing, even if the other person is in absolute euphoria. In a loving relationship is a different story. If I kiss a guy it does nothing for me unless I absolutely love that person. If it's a first date or a hook up it's worthless.
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    May 05, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    Yep and we didn't last. He just said he didn't beleive in it. Funny!
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    May 05, 2011 2:06 PM GMT
    I met one he was in the Army he said he doesn't kiss unless he's dating the guy and I was like icon_eek.gif okay so I gave him a bj and he had a cock ring so it was fun, but it was kind of awkward b/c I wanted to kiss him and I felt like I was holding back
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    May 05, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidOccasionally I hear about an experience from a friend or just guys who just say "they don't kiss" when they are involved with a guy. For me that would be a "remarkable" turn off. Kissing is such a basic. I love it. Have you ever encountered a guy either with a hookup or date who just "didn't kiss"?
    If so, how did you react?


    LOL. I always laugh when I hear this because I bet they give head like crazy.
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    May 05, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    I guess I am too much of a romantic. EVEN IF I was with a guy and we were simply having a one or two nighter, I STILL feel the need to kiss. It's kinda like a handshake when you first meet someone. I need to make lip contact before I head south and meet the rest of the family in his pants ! icon_eek.gif
  • Jtor40

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    May 05, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    Kissing is mandatory...no kiss, no play....it is a big turn on for me...hate when guys say I do this, I don't do that...and if kissing is involved in the I don't do that....I won't do you at all either.....sometimes I feel guys think that kissing will make them less manly....WFT?....crazy thought of some guys but those are the ones that usually don't kiss!!
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    May 05, 2011 4:17 PM GMT
    Some guys dont want to be kissed after theyve been given blowjobs!; they felt like theyre tasting their own cocks, and thats 'gay!'
    What the fuck is that bullshit?!
    Straight guys are so weird! Lol!
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    May 05, 2011 4:18 PM GMT
    AntoNomad saidAs far as I know, only "professionals" don't kiss.


    icon_lol.gif !!!!