love changes me??

  • kemoze

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    May 07, 2011 7:46 PM GMT
    gays.. this is true.. when i love someone, i feel like i am a different person, when i fall in love, i never masturbate, and i am always happy even when the one who i love doesnt no that i love him ( i live in the middle east thats why i keep it secret )
    i loved someone who is straight, i loved him so much, he was a friend to my best friend, anyway ,he didnt know that i love him, till i left him,,
    when i love someone i never watch porn ...
    i feel happy, i can stay active for weeks without sleeping, love gives me power
    that power makes me good to myself and to others around me ,
    i wanna this time to love someone who shares me this story
    i dont wanna love from one side ( when i love someone who doesnt know i am into them).
    what about you gays.. in other open countries..
    what does love mean to you???
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    May 08, 2011 2:47 AM GMT
    kemoze saidgays.. this is true.. when i love someone, i feel like i am a different person, when i fall in love, i never masturbate, and i am always happy even when the one who i love doesnt no that i love him ( i live in the middle east thats why i keep it secret )
    i loved someone who is straight, i loved him so much, he was a friend to my best friend, anyway ,he didnt know that i love him, till i left him,,
    when i love someone i never watch porn ...
    i feel happy, i can stay active for weeks without sleeping, love gives me power
    that power makes me good to myself and to others around me ,
    i wanna this time to love someone who shares me this story
    i dont wanna love from one side ( when i love someone who doesnt know i am into them).
    what about you gays.. in other open countries..
    what does love mean to you???


    That's because medical research has shown "infatuation" and "love" are like speed. The send a lot of endorphins to the brain... that's probably why you act like you can stay up for days and days and days...


    Love is everything.
    It's unconditional.
  • mybud

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    May 08, 2011 2:49 AM GMT
    I still beat off when I'm in love go figure......
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    May 08, 2011 2:50 AM GMT
    mybud saidI still beat off when I'm in love go figure......


    Shocker. I think most of us do lol
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    May 08, 2011 3:04 AM GMT
    mybud saidI still beat off when I'm in love go figure......


    Me too icon_wink.gif
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    May 08, 2011 6:14 AM GMT

    Love changes anyone. I recall the days before I was comfortable for more: a look, a conversation, time alone with that guy I fancied - but couldn't tell him, was enough and was the deepest love. You learn to extract the most internal passion and pleasure from mundane things: a way he curls his lip, how he pronounces a word, or the way he smells. Once sex and unfettered access entered the picture I sometimes took these things for granted more than I should have; they are so special. As far as being sustained by this way of loving the way you are, I fear that won't last. I know living in your country makes it difficult, but you'll want to indulge in the flesh A LOT: masturbation, sex, the whole nine yards. Don't feel bad when that change happens and do still tread carefully, but all this mental sex only primes the pump. I kind of wish it were reverse; we could start with sex, burn out, and appreciate loving the person regardless of what we get out of it...sexually. Well, maybe some manage to do that. A smile is in order for those who try or at least want to. A hug is in order to you for actually doing it.
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    May 08, 2011 6:25 AM GMT
    aaww you love fool icon_smile.gif happy for you. Stay the way you are icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 23, 2011 3:38 AM GMT
    I only being in two long term relationships over the past 20+ years, it's been about 12 years since I last experienced new love. Much is the same about me. But I stand out even more, it's like I have a glow, and I smile even more, the the rate of people chatting me up increases a lot, just when I want it the least.
  • needleninja

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    May 23, 2011 3:42 AM GMT
    for the love of whatever just dont change to always trust your special someone over other people. my friend is still doing that and i really just want to punch him in the face because hes become even more one sided.
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    May 23, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    Love changes anyone. I recall the days before I was comfortable for more: a look, a conversation, time alone with that guy I fancied - but couldn't tell him, was enough and was the deepest love. You learn to extract the most internal passion and pleasure from mundane things: a way he curls his lip, how he pronounces a word, or the way he smells. Once sex and unfettered access entered the picture I sometimes took these things for granted more than I should have; they are so special. As far as being sustained by this way of loving the way you are, I fear that won't last. I know living in your country makes it difficult, but you'll want to indulge in the flesh A LOT: masturbation, sex, the whole nine yards. Don't feel bad when that change happens and do still tread carefully, but all this mental sex only primes the pump. I kind of wish it were reverse; we could start with sex, burn out, and appreciate loving the person regardless of what we get out of it...sexually. Well, maybe some manage to do that. A smile is in order for those who try or at least want to. A hug is in order to you for actually doing it.


    AMEN to that