Cumming too soon while bottoming

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    May 08, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    This is sort of an embarrassing question, but I wanted some advice.

    First off, I LOVE to bottom. Love, love, love. I have no stamina issues in any other department (getting sucked off, hand jobs, topping). However whenever I bottom, I cum within minutes without even touching myself once. It's pathetic! My boyfriend is really sweet and just says that it's a testament to my true love of "être une tapette." We're from France, and in French that is a very vulgar word for being a bottom. It's a cute thing to say within the context I suppose, but at the same time it's a little derogatory (sort of like if "fag" implied that you exclusively like to bottom), so if you're a crazy boyfriend like me and read into everything your partner says, I think you'd agree that he's annoyed! Regardless, I'd really like to last longer for my own sake. Help!
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    May 08, 2011 4:22 AM GMT
    obcohbasn saidThis is sort of an embarrassing question, but I wanted some advice.

    First off, I LOVE to bottom. Love, love, love. I have no stamina issues in any other department (getting sucked off, hand jobs, topping). However whenever I bottom, I cum within minutes without even touching myself once. It's pathetic! My boyfriend is really sweet and just says that it's a testament to my true love of "être une tapette." We're from France, and in French that is a very vulgar word for being a bottom. It's a cute thing to say within the context I suppose, but at the same time it's a little derogatory (sort of like if "fag" implied that you exclusively like to bottom), so if you're a crazy boyfriend like me and read into everything your partner says, I think you'd agree that he's annoyed! Regardless, I'd really like to last longer for my own sake. Help!


    Practise with a vibrator?
    I don't know... I usually don't bottom during sex... only guessing that a vibrator or a dildo or something of that sort should help you in that department.
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    May 08, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    You cum without touching yourself while bottoming...
    Does your boyfriend continue and can you cum again?
    Never tried it?
    Do it. ;)
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    May 08, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidYou cum without touching yourself while bottoming...
    Does your boyfriend continue and can you cum again?
    Never tried it?
    Do it. ;)



    lol... words of a pro.
    (not trying to imply anything Trevor icon_razz.gif)
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    May 08, 2011 6:57 AM GMT
    _Mohammed_ said
    TrevorMark saidYou cum without touching yourself while bottoming...
    Does your boyfriend continue and can you cum again?
    Never tried it?
    Do it. ;)



    lol... words of a pro.
    (not trying to imply anything Trevor icon_razz.gif)

    Insinuating I've bottomed OR came from it...
    Psssh. You must not know 'bout me.
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    May 08, 2011 10:21 AM GMT
    obcohbasn saidThis is sort of an embarrassing question, but I wanted some advice.

    First off, I LOVE to bottom. Love, love, love. I have no stamina issues in any other department (getting sucked off, hand jobs, topping). However whenever I bottom, I cum within minutes without even touching myself once. It's pathetic! My boyfriend is really sweet and just says that it's a testament to my true love of "être une tapette." We're from France, and in French that is a very vulgar word for being a bottom. It's a cute thing to say within the context I suppose, but at the same time it's a little derogatory (sort of like if "fag" implied that you exclusively like to bottom), so if you're a crazy boyfriend like me and read into everything your partner says, I think you'd agree that he's annoyed! Regardless, I'd really like to last longer for my own sake. Help!


    I would try TrevorMarks suggestion and if that doesn't work I'll take time to outline something that will work but it takes time to explain lol.
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    May 08, 2011 12:16 PM GMT
    Haha, well I'm listening!

    Usually I can cum again, but only after we stop fucking. I don't know, I guess having 20cm up your butt suddenly feels uncomfortable and not-sexy if you've already cum. :-P
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    May 08, 2011 12:49 PM GMT
    obcohbasn saidHaha, well I'm listening!

    Usually I can cum again, but only after we stop fucking. I don't know, I guess having 20cm up your butt suddenly feels uncomfortable and not-sexy if you've already cum. :-P

    I'd suggest making it sexy... Be dirty with it even. Let him know you want him to get you to cum again. Maybe even touch yourself next time. I've had an orgasm after already having one a couple minutes earlier and it has been more intense than the first one most times.
    Give it a try. You may love it.
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    May 08, 2011 3:50 PM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    _Mohammed_ said
    TrevorMark saidYou cum without touching yourself while bottoming...
    Does your boyfriend continue and can you cum again?
    Never tried it?
    Do it. ;)



    lol... words of a pro.
    (not trying to imply anything Trevor icon_razz.gif)

    Insinuating I've bottomed OR came from it...
    Psssh. You must not know 'bout me.


    Oh I know you well enough to know THAT but now I also know you are pro icon_razz.gif
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    May 09, 2011 3:04 AM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    obcohbasn saidHaha, well I'm listening!

    Usually I can cum again, but only after we stop fucking. I don't know, I guess having 20cm up your butt suddenly feels uncomfortable and not-sexy if you've already cum. :-P

    I'd suggest making it sexy... Be dirty with it even. Let him know you want him to get you to cum again. Maybe even touch yourself next time. I've had an orgasm after already having one a couple minutes earlier and it has been more intense than the first one most times.
    Give it a try. You may love it.


    Yes, try slowing the pace and transforming your post-orgasmic state of discomfort into a deep, intimate screw. After a few minutes, you'll be grooving again. Probably even more intense. And, it will show your dude that you're really into him being into you. Try.
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    May 09, 2011 11:30 AM GMT
    Is it that you want to cum at the same time?

    If not, what's wrong with you cumming and letting him keep on plowing until he's ready? (If you love bottoming so much, I don't think that would be a problem?)

    In the rare chance I bottom, I typically like this method: we bang for a bit, I come while he's thrusting me, then he finishes when he's ready.
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    May 09, 2011 11:46 AM GMT
    I can't speak for this guy but although I don't bottom that often, when I do if I happened to come first I can't continue being fucked, it just feels uncomfortable.

    If you cum then just get him to stop and wait until you have recovered and then start again, or finish him off with your mouth or hands.
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    May 09, 2011 6:46 PM GMT
    Pure saidI can't speak for this guy but although I don't bottom that often, when I do if I happened to come first I can't continue being fucked, it just feels uncomfortable.

    If you cum then just get him to stop and wait until you have recovered and then start again, or finish him off with your mouth or hands.

    +1

    That is, if you're uncomfortable with it.
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    May 11, 2011 2:11 AM GMT
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    If you cum then just get him to stop and wait until you have recovered and then start again, or finish him off with your mouth or hands.[/quote]

    3 words to add: ASS TO MOUTH