Boyfriend and sex issues

  • anysound

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    May 08, 2011 12:55 PM GMT
    My boyfriend of nearly a year has weird sex issues.
    We're both tops and he's not really into anal so we've attempted it once (im bottomed) and he kinda sucked and it didn't go anywhere.
    He won't let me suck him as he finds the feeling "weird" and also only about 50% of the time lets me touch his dick so basically my sex life consists of lying there and having him suck me off and him jacking off himself.

    Lately I've been getting the urge to hook up with other guys and top them.
    It's happening a lot and im not sure what to do as I doubt he is gonna bottom for me as he basically squirms if I even go near there.

    HELP!
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    May 08, 2011 1:20 PM GMT
    Talk to your boyfriend about it.

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  • rnch

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    May 08, 2011 1:43 PM GMT
    Sounds like the Sex Sucks (and NOT in the way you enjoy).

    why is he your bf again?

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    May 08, 2011 1:45 PM GMT
    Some gays simply don't like anal sex.
    Send him to me and go find a dude you're compatible with. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 08, 2011 1:49 PM GMT
    Is top and bottom the same in Australia, since you are upside down already? Maybe you could convince him that he is really being the top in the cosmic prespective of things.

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    May 08, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    You should talk to him about it.

    I find it odd you guys haven't worked through this in a year of going out.

    Good luck.
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    May 08, 2011 5:33 PM GMT
    He's got issues and it's doubtful you're going to be able to change them. Time to move on unless you're prepared to be frustrated
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    May 08, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    Talk to him about your needs/desires in sex. This is very important as this could be an effect in your relationship.