Your just so unhappy anymore

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    May 09, 2011 12:58 AM GMT
    Somebody said this to me today, self-realization.,...Need to get out of SCarolina quick!
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    May 09, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    I don't understand the post.... icon_eek.gif
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    May 09, 2011 3:40 AM GMT
    I'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume the post tittle actually means "You're just so not happy anymore". It would make a little more sense in English this way.
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    May 09, 2011 3:41 AM GMT
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    May 09, 2011 3:45 AM GMT
    jdukay24 saidSomebody said this to me today, self-realization.,...Need to get out of SCarolina quick!


    And take an English class as well icon_smile.gif
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    May 09, 2011 4:38 AM GMT
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    May 09, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    C'mon.. it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what the OP is saying.. apparently every around him is noticing/has noticed he is not happy with life where he is at, and since so many have commented, he had a self realization that he feels he needs to move to some other place because SC can be, well, pretty miserable to gay folk.
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    May 09, 2011 4:41 AM GMT
    TropicalMark saidC'mon.. it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what the OP is saying.. aparently every around him is noticing he is not happy with life where he is at, and since so many have commented, he had a self realization that he feels he needs to move to some other place because SC can be, well, pretty miserable to gay folk.

    I thought he needed to get out because everyone around him has really shitty grammar.
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    May 09, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    Zettabyte said
    TropicalMark saidC'mon.. it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what the OP is saying.. aparently every around him is noticing he is not happy with life where he is at, and since so many have commented, he had a self realization that he feels he needs to move to some other place because SC can be, well, pretty miserable to gay folk.

    I thought he needed to get out because everyone around him has really shitty grammar.
    Well you do have a point! icon_lol.gif
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    May 09, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    Zettabyte said
    TropicalMark saidC'mon.. it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what the OP is saying.. aparently every around him is noticing he is not happy with life where he is at, and since so many have commented, he had a self realization that he feels he needs to move to some other place because SC can be, well, pretty miserable to gay folk.

    I thought he needed to get out because everyone around him has really shitty grammar.



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    May 09, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    Try San Francisco. See what happens.
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    May 09, 2011 11:40 AM GMT
    lol. I admit what I wrote didn't make a lot of sense! Sorry--I'll clarify-Someone said I seem so unhappy anymore, I had a self-realization moment and figured out that I need to get out of SCicon_smile.gif
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    May 09, 2011 11:38 PM GMT
    jdukay24 saidlol. I admit what I wrote didn't make a lot of sense! Sorry--I'll clarify-Someone said I seem so unhappy anymore, I had a self-realization moment and figured out that I need to get out of SCicon_smile.gif


    Sorry, but I still don't get what you mean...

    Are you happy or unhappy?
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    May 09, 2011 11:42 PM GMT
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    jdukay24 saidlol. I admit what I wrote didn't make a lot of sense! Sorry--I'll clarify-Someone said I seem so unhappy anymore, I had a self-realization moment and figured out that I need to get out of SCicon_smile.gif


    Sorry, but I still don't get what you mean...

    Are you happy or unhappy?


    Jdukay,
    I think the confusion about your post is stemming from your use of "anymore" - it's usually used to show a contrast between the state of affairs _now_ and what someone _used_ to be/do. So, what you might have meant was "You don't seem happy anymore," or "You seem unhappy now." Is that what you were trying to say? I'm not being a d*ck; I'm just clarifying so you can get the feedback you're seeking.
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    May 09, 2011 11:45 PM GMT
    What the fuck is "you're unhappy anymore"?
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    May 09, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    basically i think what he is saying is that he is not happy,where life is at for him at this time, where he is at and wants to try somewhere else to see if he can maybe meet someone and where the gay life is a little more liberal and accepting.....if i get this correct.......kinda in the same boat.....here in cleveland
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    May 09, 2011 11:50 PM GMT
    EliStark said
    WestAussieGuy said
    jdukay24 saidlol. I admit what I wrote didn't make a lot of sense! Sorry--I'll clarify-Someone said I seem so unhappy anymore, I had a self-realization moment and figured out that I need to get out of SCicon_smile.gif


    Sorry, but I still don't get what you mean...

    Are you happy or unhappy?


    Jdukay,
    I think the confusion about your post is stemming from your use of "anymore" - it's usually used to show a contrast between the state of affairs _now_ and what someone _used_ to be/do. So, what you might have meant was "You don't seem happy anymore," or "You seem unhappy now." Is that what you were trying to say? I'm not being a d*ck; I'm just clarifying so you can get the feedback you're seeking.


    I think this is what he meant exactly. C'mon guys, give the guy a break. He is already realizing that his being gay in SC is clouding his outlook in life. And now he has to make sure his grammar is correct for all discerning readers. But to continue on, is this post supposed to ask other readers if they're "unhappy" with their current lives? And if so, what are they doing about it. Help inspire others.
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    May 10, 2011 1:40 AM GMT
    Thank you siannoguyicon_smile.gif
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    May 10, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    yeah, sucks...but is running away really your only escape from your current predicament?...
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    May 10, 2011 1:54 AM GMT
    i_VAN saidyeah, sucks...but is running away really your only escape from your current predicament?...

    Considering geographical location, probably.
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    May 10, 2011 2:02 AM GMT
    i_VAN saidyeah, sucks...but is running away really your only escape from your current predicament?...


    I wouldn't call it running away.

    dude, if you truly are unhappy with your life, make a change, a big one. Go have an adventure! Pick a few cool cities, ones you're interested in, do some research on them and then put out some job feelers and make the move! Look at it as a chance to turn your life into what YOU want it to be by taking charge. Don't wait around for anyone else to make your life happy for you, do it yourself, the best time to do it is when you are unhappy and/or in a rut.

    Best of luck man!
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    May 14, 2011 3:24 AM GMT
    Perhaps the OP meant that he doesn't want to live in a place any longer where people use the word "anymore" in place of "now" or 'at this time". I've noticed that people who use "anymore" in this manner, as a replacement for "at this time" or "any longer", tend to be from rural areas, especially Southern states.

    As someone else wrote, try San Francisco, New York or some place overseas such as, well, Sicily.
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    May 14, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    jdukay24 saidlol. I admit what I wrote didn't make a lot of sense! Sorry--I'll clarify-Someone said I seem so unhappy anymore, I had a self-realization moment and figured out that I need to get out of SCicon_smile.gif


    New York City welcomes you icon_razz.gif