Creeeeeeeeepy.

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    May 09, 2011 8:01 AM GMT
    So whenever I log in there's this local guy who keeps looking at me, often at Austin as well. ~80% of the times I visit, he shows up yet again on my front page in the recent visitors section, though plenty of others have also looked at me since my last login. Like, this is daily or twice daily. He's never tried contacting Austin or I either. Anyone else have a stalker on here? btw I blocked the guy - not sure that will do anything though.
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    May 09, 2011 12:48 PM GMT
    Yes.

    Although I have a few people who seem to view my profile on a very regular basis without ever making contact, that doesn't really bother me at all, they may just be curious or enjoy my profile- sometimes I do that to people I like too (incognito ;), whatevs...

    However, on the topic of creepyness, recently some 70 year old guy with no pics, info or forum activity was sending me messages asking if I would like to be his friend, then trying to comment my profile picture with disgusting lewd comments about cocks, pre-cum and wanting to hook-up and more creepy shit....I nearly vomited in my own mouth and hastily blocked the weirdo.

    There is a line.

    That's all.
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    May 09, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    Wow, some people take this online stuff way too seriously. icon_lol.gif
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    May 09, 2011 1:05 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidSo whenever I log in there's this local guy who keeps looking at me, often at Austin as well. ~80% of the times I visit, he shows up yet again on my front page in the recent visitors section, though plenty of others have also looked at me since my last login. Like, this is daily or twice daily. He's never tried contacting Austin or I either. Anyone else have a stalker on here? btw I blocked the guy - not sure that will do anything though.


    *mouthbreate*

    Next time I will say "hello",.... you look nice today...

    *sinister giggle* icon_eek.gif
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    May 09, 2011 1:11 PM GMT
    A number of us have had similar experiences. If you are perceived as attractive and you put yourself out there, you will have a few that will want to look at you on a repeated way.

    There is a line between creepy behavior and normal curiousity. Don't brand it as "creepy" before its time.
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    May 09, 2011 1:14 PM GMT
    everyone is "creepy" to FtF..
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    May 09, 2011 1:15 PM GMT
    maybe he was just building up the courage to actually contact you?
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    May 09, 2011 1:16 PM GMT
    This explains the you cruise you lose stuff, at least somewhat. Yeah it's a bit creepy but don't get too creeped out. It's not like he knows where you live.

    Who's Austin btw?
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    May 09, 2011 1:29 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidOh, please... there are certain guys that look at my page daily and have never once said hi. I don't think twice about it. I think there is a big difference between a stalker and an admirer. Stalkers = Creepy, admirers are welcome. Hell, I admire many guys on RJ.



    you gives me the vaporz....icon_redface.gif
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    May 09, 2011 1:34 PM GMT
    Totally with u in this Post FTF!!! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif..... so far i have 3stalkers..and they visit my profile bouuuut 3x in a row........icon_eek.gif and i have 2 pictureless ppl from India that wants to be my friend.......................and 3 60-70+ yo hotlisting me............icon_eek.gif Now i don't feel safe...

    paulflexes on the other hand is very welcome to stalk my profile ;) icon_razz.gif.. or any1......icon_eek.gif
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    May 09, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidSo whenever I log in there's this local guy who keeps looking at me, often at Austin as well. ~80% of the times I visit, he shows up yet again on my front page in the recent visitors section, though plenty of others have also looked at me since my last login. Like, this is daily or twice daily. He's never tried contacting Austin or I either. Anyone else have a stalker on here? btw I blocked the guy - not sure that will do anything though.


    No way...So he never asked your permission to look at your profile? Unheard of...No privacy on this public site anymore icon_sad.gif
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    May 09, 2011 1:54 PM GMT
    I guess you'd classify it as creepy if they didn't fit your preference in men?

    I don't mind if they look multiple times, but I do wonder why they don't say anything. Even a "Hi" isn't such a bad thing.
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    May 09, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidSo whenever I log in there's this local guy who keeps looking at me, often at Austin as well. ~80% of the times I visit, he shows up yet again on my front page in the recent visitors section, though plenty of others have also looked at me since my last login. Like, this is daily or twice daily. He's never tried contacting Austin or I either. Anyone else have a stalker on here? btw I blocked the guy - not sure that will do anything though.


    I think you have just ensured that many more folks will look at your profile daily without saying anything. Is that what you meant to do? icon_razz.gif
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    May 09, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    Is it Steve?...lol...

    (NEVER leave Grindr on when you're asleep)
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    May 09, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    TropicalMark saideveryone is "creepy" to FtF..
    Kinda like how insane people think everyone else is insane but themselves? icon_wink.gif
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    May 09, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    Everyone gets the same, but it really isn't a big deal to most people...I don't care.
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    May 09, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    moscowmikey saidIs it Steve?...lol...

    (NEVER leave Grindr on when you're asleep)
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    Wow banking can be that quick... But yeah, stalkers are bad, and Steve there was pretty creepy.
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    May 09, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidWow, some people take this online stuff way too seriously. icon_lol.gif


    You said it brother! OP, the state of creepiness is all in your mind bro. If you feel you need to add that bit of drama into your lives, well no ones stopping you. Who cares really. Sorry I forgot you do. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 09, 2011 3:05 PM GMT
    There was this one guy online that always visited my profile and told me he wanted to fly from India to Canada to be with me! At first I thought how sweet and then I start getting messages from him sending me pics from the past 5-6 years of ME.....he googled me and found pics! He'd send them to me and comment on them! "will you wear this shirt when you get me from the airport?" WTF??? hahaha long story short he was blocked! It's nice when one compliments you and shows interest in you, it's anothe when they do creepy things and believe they are flying across the world to be with you acccccckkkkwaaaarrrrrd!
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    May 09, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    moscowmikey saidIs it Steve?...lol...

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    May 09, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidWow, some people take this online stuff way too seriously. icon_lol.gif

    Agreed!
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    May 09, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    the internet is serious business
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    May 09, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    BangitUp saidI guess you'd classify it as creepy if they didn't fit your preference in men?

    I don't mind if they look multiple times, but I do wonder why they don't say anything. Even a "Hi" isn't such a bad thing.


    Bingo. I think of it as a kind of compliment even if they aren't someone who I would be attracted to. Other times it's because I've pissed off a certain over juiced oompa loompa and he profile stalks me for days. Even then it's entertaining. If someone just looking at your profile creeps you out, I see paranoia related mental illness in your future.

    Or maybe you're right, FTF. Maybe you annoyed this guy with your enyclopedia dramtica trolling, or maybe you just farted in a crowded elevator you were both in. Maybe he's just building up steam to track you down, drag you to the Arboretum, open you up with a rusty garden trowel and force feed you your own intestines while playing Weird Al Yankovic's "Nature Trail to Hell" on the cassette player in his 1983 Plymouth Reliant wagon.

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    May 09, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidSo whenever I log in there's this local guy who keeps looking at me, often at Austin as well. ~80% of the times I visit, he shows up yet again on my front page in the recent visitors section, though plenty of others have also looked at me since my last login. Like, this is daily or twice daily. He's never tried contacting Austin or I either. Anyone else have a stalker on here? btw I blocked the guy - not sure that will do anything though.


    There's a block feature if people bug you. You're young. Aren't you supposed to be all tech savvy?
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    May 09, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
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    FearTheFall saidSo whenever I log in there's this local guy who keeps looking at me, often at Austin as well. ~80% of the times I visit, he shows up yet again on my front page in the recent visitors section, though plenty of others have also looked at me since my last login. Like, this is daily or twice daily. He's never tried contacting Austin or I either. Anyone else have a stalker on here? btw I blocked the guy - not sure that will do anything though.


    There's a block feature if people bug you. You're young. Aren't you supposed to be all tech savvy?


    Oh. There you are, Beau. I haven't stalked you yet today. *click*