What Kind of Arrangements you do Before you have sex ?

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    May 09, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    for top or bottom ! do u do any arrangements before having sex ? and what kind of arrangements !?

    * like if ur BF/Partner called u n told u he is coming to u ... and you know he is going to have sex with ya ... do u do anything before he comes ? or just keep waiting ?
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    May 09, 2011 8:12 PM GMT
    Anyone, Hum ?!
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    May 10, 2011 6:34 PM GMT
    Well, if you're going to be bottoming then you should wash your ass out i.e. douche and make sure the outside of your ass is scrubbed clean for rimming.

    If you're gonna be the top then you don't really need to do anything, maybe have a shower or quick wash of your cock.

    Regardless, you should have condoms and lube ready to hand. Then it depends what kind of sex you're gonna have, how are you gonna set the mood? Tender love-making, maybe you're gonna want to light some candles, put on some chill out music and maybe get the oil out for a pre-sex massage.

    If it's gonna be a nasty, hard fuck-fest you probably want some harder music, maybe porn in the background, maybe break out the sex toys, fetishwear, cock rings etc.

    Whatever sex you're having, always good to have a towel and some tissues on hand to wipe any excess lube and cum.
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    May 10, 2011 7:05 PM GMT
    Pure saidWhatever sex you're having, always good to have a towel and some tissues on hand to wipe any excess lube and cum.

    Well, assuming this sex is in the bedroom -- yeah, always a large bath towel, thrown on the sheets under us, because lube is messy. And I like lots of lube, whether being top or bottom (I'm versatile), or giving or getting a hand-job. With trick towels nearby, and condoms.

    I also dim the lighting, and kill the bedroom TV. I don't like distractions.

    As for rectal cleanliness, sex is usually at night, when I'm naturally clean inside. I'm very regular, a single daily BM in the morning after my coffee. Sorry to be that graphic, but that's how it is.
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    May 10, 2011 7:28 PM GMT
    If a guy called me RIGHT NOW and said to get ready for sex, I'd pick up the newspaper from the floor, mow the grass, straighten my medicine cabinet, quickly send a few emails, feed the dogs, fluff my pubic hair and lay in bed waiting.
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    May 10, 2011 7:31 PM GMT
    i'd hide the bodies of the last person who dropped in unannounced

    then i'd play with my cat
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    May 10, 2011 9:51 PM GMT
    Wooot Thanks Art , Thanks Pure icon_smile.gif ....


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    May 10, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    I'd tell him come another time. I seriously hate cold drop ins. HATE THEM. Probably because I'm really busy most of the time and I have to add people into my schedule. If I arrange a time for a person to come over my place, or say, a time and day when we will get together for a date, dinner, or just plain fucking then I devote time specifically to get ready for them. This can involve a couple of hours for me, as I like to be clean, clean, clean. Which is why, I'm also so selective about who I sleep with. If a guy is one of those that cums in 5 minutes and then doesn't really take care of your orgasm afterwards, there's no way in hell I'll ever see that person again... I think, 'ok, if I've just gone two hours prepping for you, so that you're done in 5 mins and this is over just as quickly...' no.

    I've never had a boyfriend, nor have I been in a relationship, so I wouldn't know I guess what it's like to have your boyfriend just want to ravish you on the spot. Generally, I get into this cleaning thing so thoroughly that I can spend a night with a guy having sex and we're good. And that's really what I'm mostly into, having a sex fest that goes all night or all day, or a weekend, as opposed to cold drop in. I don't even have sex in bathrooms or clubs, because I need to schedule sex in.

    Masturbation and porn are a lot less time consuming and less demanding than most guys...