May 09, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
My boyfriend and I have been able to have really amazing sex - of the anal variety - but sometimes I'm just too tight for him, no matter how much foreplay we enjoy, etc. I thought at first it was just because it had been a while since we had sex last, but it doesn't happen every day. We have no issues one day, then the next it's excruciating when he tries pushing in. I honestly have no idea what to do. I finger myself and make sure to relax, and he always gets me into it... but that's not always enough. Is there anything we're missing that might help?